Flossie put a pic up when it come Have you guys got a list of photos you want taken on the day or are you just letting to photographer do their stuff?
CommentAuthorFlossie
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As long as it gets here I don't really mind who delivers it haha, was just expecting H3rm3s as that's what they stated in the delivery options so confused me for a second! Unless I've forgotten something major I really don't think I am expecting anything else though, and the seller did estimate that I would receive it today so it must be that.
I will definitely put a pic up Louise. Will have to wait for OH to get home and open it with me though :)
Yeah we will be making a list Louise. Most photographers will ask for a list to ensure you get all the pics you want with all the family/guests you want and to make it easier on the day xx
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Yeah we are meeting with the photographer that we want tomorrow evening so going to do a list today I think just so we know what we want when we meet him
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
It all seems real now lol
CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
Yeah our photographer has asked that we do a list and give it to her 7 days before, I think most people do now xx
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
My dad is a photographer and always asks for a list, that way he can shout the people he wants when he wants them which makes it a lot easier and less time consuming.
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorSam G 2b May 2016
Yeah our photographer said she'll just send us a list and we can choose what we want or send her a list ourselves but its not going to be a massive list, just the formal shots. Everything else she will just photograph what she sees! xx
CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
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Just ordered these for OH, he will love them :) don't know whether to give them to him before the wedding though as he won't be a groom if he uses them after lol
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Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorNatalieS200
Hiya ladies. Our photographer gave us a questionnaire to send back one month before the wedding, hes also gonna ring a couple of days before the wedding to ask any questions that need asking.
Now that august is coming to an end what have people got planned for doing in september? Ive got giving notice, second dress shop tryout, ive found a dress I love so once ive tried these on i'll make a decision eek! Also got cake tasting late september yum!
I want to go bridesmaids dress shopping soon as well, have you all got your bridesmaids dresses yet? Xx
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
We have got dates held for us so going to pay off the deposits in September for venue videographers photographer getting our invitations going wedding dress shopping getting my flower girls dress.hoping OH and best man and page boy will go and try suits all in September. Paying the registrar this friday Looks like September will be my month to get everything under control I hope lol
CommentAuthorSam G 2b May 2016
Just giving notice and mens suits to sort out in September for us. Everything else is pretty much done xx
CommentAuthorFlossie
OH and I both have a week off next week so we're going to look at some wedding bits. We're going to go out and look at centre piece ideas and hopefully get that nailed and I want to agree on some things to order like a guest book, gifts, etc. I will probably make the personalised hangers also so that will be one more thing out the way, done and dusted.
Might sit down and finalise our invitation designs as well so all that will need doing is printing them and making them.
I've had the bridesmaids dresses for ages now, will just need to get the alterations made nearer the time xx
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Everyone is doing great. My bridesmaids tried the m00ns0n dress on Sunday the one in my pics and all love it so think that's the one! The only problem is what if someone wears it as it's from there!! There are 4 colours in it. I'd personally never wear it to a wedding as it's too dressy. What does everyone think?
OH said to me last night he's gonna take a day off work soon so we can go look at rings and honeymoon. I really can't decide between plain or diamond. Gonna upload photos Here if use wouldn't mind taking a look??
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Photos of rings uploaded. The diamond one isn't the exact one I'd go for I'd like a little thicker. I really should go plain for work purposes but I could always turn the diamond one if needs be. Really can't choose lol. Plain is less than half the price too
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorFlossie
It's a gorgeous dress. 2 of mine are high street dresses too, I never thought of a guest wearing them too! I'm sure they won't though, I wouldn't wear something so 'dressy' to a wedding.. they are much more suited to bridesmaid dresses than wedding guest dresses!
Had a sneaky peak at your pics, I think both the plain and diamond bands look lovely. Because your engagement ring is quite blingy anyway a plain band would look nice with it, but as a fan of diamond wedding bands I also think the diamonds look nice xx
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Same here Flossie. Love both lol. Who knew choosing a wedding ring would be so hard!?! lol.
Think I'm def gonna go with the dresses. £119 each which is pretty good! I need to wait a while to order one as one bridesmaid has been trying to get pregnant quite a while so she could be pregnant so will have to wait another while to get a better idea of size
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorSam G 2b May 2016
Love the dresses Danielle, they're gorgeous. I like both rings too haha xx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Don't no how I'm going to decide!! Lol
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorFlossie
I'm tempted to say if one isn't leaping out at you then neither of them is 'the one'. I'd continue to try some on and wait until you get that "this is the one" feeling :)
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
Ooh I love the diamond one Danielle, but I am a lover of anything sparkly! I agree with Flossie though i know which one I wanted as soon as I saw it but if you're not getting that feeling maybe have another look xx
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Yea Emma and Flossie that's what I think too. Although they are so different lol. Plain would be more practical and in trying to decide which will look best on it's own as I won't be wearing engagement ring with it to work. Decisions decisions lol
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorFlossie
I think a diamond band would definitely look better on it's own, but I am biased!
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
They are so pricey. We priced rings last year and wish we had of got them then as the price of gold has gone way up!
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorFlossie
They are pricey but there are bargains to be had. Mine was originally £550 but I got it during a sale and saved almost £100 on it. Still pretty pricey I suppose but for something you're going to be wearing for the rest of your life I'd say it's worth it! It's important to have what you want and not just settle for something because it's cheap xx
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorFlossie
Here is our beautiful cards suitcase. I love love love it!
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Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
It's beautiful Flossie x
Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Flossie I love it. It's lovely x
CommentAuthorSarah D
Flossie I love it very nice xx
Became Mrs Duthie 7th October 2016
CommentAuthorEmmaH444
It fits! I think the woman was on Mars when she originally measured me as it didn't fit. I still want to lose at least another 7lb but at least I know that if I weigh the same as I do now there won't be any panic dieting required! It's a year tomorrow. That's scary!
Love your suitcase Flossie. X
Met 29/3/2006
Engaged 24/8/13
Married 26th August 2016
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
That's so good Emma glad the fitting went well x
CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
Well done Emma x
Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
CommentAuthorSarah D
Excellent Emma!
We went to the kilt ship yesterday h2b picked his tartan and he tried on jackets and we got a price for the whole outfit not as bad as we expected £800 for everything and I got a price from the hair dresser why sister picked, she is a hair dresser to so I trust her to choose and it's a girl she works with, she's the salons senior stylist and has offered to do our hair for £20 each xx
Became Mrs Duthie 7th October 2016
CommentAuthorSam G 2b May 2016
That's fab Emma!
Love the suitcase Flossie, it looks so nice :-)
Great news on the kilt and the hair stylist Sarah, sounds like sorting out details is going well xx
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
That sounds so good with the hair Sarah d and the kilts.
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
My mums friend did us a order of service yesterday and it's really nice. Needs a bit of tweaking but I love it. Gonna give her a bottle of wine and some flowers for doing them for us. Bless her
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
So I spoke to OH about his sisters little one being a flower girl and he said not really because we r not having a big bridal party so just to leave it the way it is. Makes me feel a little better but we have asked his sister to do a reading at the service for us just to get some of his family involved. Defo feeling better about that.
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Meeting the photographer night very exciting
CommentAuthorNatalieS200
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Thats fab Emma!
Love that suitcase Flossie. My friend did that for her wedding and it looks great. I'd of had something similar but didnt want to copy her, our venue does different postboxes to hire so we're going with a white wishing well one, £25 to hire for the night.
Enjoy meeting your photographer Louise, its so exciting seeing all their work :) xx
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Met with the photographer tonight he is really nice and made us feel very comfortable and his work looks amazing really happy
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
And I found a hair and make up stylist so woohoo
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
That's great Louise!!
I THINK I've decided on a diamond wedding band. Who doesn't love a bit of sparkle lol
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Danielle is it like the one in your pic that you uploaded? That one is really nice
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Not that exact one Louise. I'll have to go on the hunt for one I'm in love with but def edging more towards diamond!
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
Great news Louise :)
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CommentAuthorLouiseC103
Morning ladies Thank you Mrs M Wade Hope everyone has a nice day today xx
CommentAuthorSarah D
Great news Louise! I agree who doesn't love sparkle Danielle xx
Became Mrs Duthie 7th October 2016
CommentAuthorEmmaH444
Sorted my hairdresser yesterday. It's my regular lady but she normally only works half day on a Friday but said she would move all of her regulars to a Thursday for me :) Now to find loads of pictures to bombard her with every 6 weeks (she told me to do this!) lol x
Met 29/3/2006
Engaged 24/8/13
Married 26th August 2016
CommentAuthorFlossie
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Going to have a bit of a rant here but need to get it off my chest and annoy someone else other than OH about it lol!
The girls are really peeing me off at the moment. The 5 of us are in a group Wh@ts@pp conversation together and we probably speak pretty much every day (they are all my bridesmaids). I said before, but 2 of them seem to have an issue with one of the others and I have no idea why. They say some quite mean things about her to me behind her back for no apparent reason and whenever she says something in the chat (which isn't very often) she just gets totally blanked by them. She popped up in the chat last night after quite a while and she has just come back from holiday, so I made a point of asking her did she enjoy her holiday etc. then we were chatting about dance, which is something we all have in common so the others could have joined in... but the others did not say anything at all! And they were active because they had said something to each other literally 2 mins before.
We have been all close friends since college as we all did dance together. I've no idea what has made these 2 act like this but it's really starting to grind on me. Surely it's not too much to ask for everyone to get on and to make the effort, especially when I am in smack bang in the middle of planning my wedding.
I think when they say things about her they expect me to join in or find it amusing.. but I asked her to be a bridesmaid for a reason, because she is a close friend and I value her friendship. If I felt badly about her I wouldn't have asked her to be my bridesmaid! I'd like for all of them to be equally involved in the day and have a fab time too, really don't want my friend to feel awkward around the others and have it affect her day and this whole bridesmaid experience :(
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
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I remember when you started having this problem, sorry it is still going on. Could you speak to the 2 about it and explain how you feel and ask why they are being the way they are? It's best to try and get it sorted out now rather than leaving it to sort itself out, just in case it doesn't and there are bad feelings whenever you are all together. Hope you can get it sorted out, it's horrible trying to plan a wedding whilst also dealing with issues like this, they should know that and if there is something not let it effect anything to do with your wedding xx
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorFlossie
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I want to say something to the other 2 but I don't know how.. if they carry on I might just snap and end up saying something to them purely cos I've just had enough of it!
The other day one of them told me she was watching S@y y3s to the dr3ss the bridesmaids version and there was one bridesmaid who was being really difficult and didn't like any of the dresses. She said if we did that then that awkward one would be Char.... which is so unfair! The only dress issues we had with her was her saying she wants to wear a proper bra and she was concerned they might be see through so suggested they may need petticoats. Apart from that she's not said one bad word about the dress at all!
Obviously my hen is just with those 4 as well so I really don't want that to be awkward for anyone either. At the moment I'm just trying to make it clear I am not going to participate in the bitching and hope that they get the message. It's just so petty, they're meant to be adults! And like you say I'd hope they would put any personal feelings aside just to make it easier for me!
The other bridesmaid on the other hand has been an absolute gem. I'm texting her now talking about everything telling her I am really fed up of her being excluded by the other 2 for no apparent reason. She said whatever happens she is going to do all she can to make sure I have a wonderful day. Which I thought was really cute! xx