We are personally, both of us are quite nervous and I think we will get a lot more sleep in our own bed and together. After telling some friends I've had a few chins hit the floor and 'Oh my god, you can't do that!!' Just wondered if anyone else is or thinking about it?
CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
Im staying at our house, And he is staying with his ushers and bestman (They all live inthe same house so quite handy) I cant see a problem with you being with h2b the night before x
CommentAuthormrsV2013
oh no i'm having freedom of a girlie night with my moh, bm's and mum hopefully at my venue otherwise at my mum's :)
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CommentAuthorKimberlee1
Were staying together too. Originally it was planned that he would spend the night away at his grandads house but they have long haired dogs and smoke and he doesnt want to smell of smoke or be covered in dog hairs, and he hates sleeping in beds that arent ours. So we've decided that he will stay at home til 8 in the morning for when hes getting kicked out of the house.
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CommentAuthorKatieHazell
Well originally he was going to spend the night before at his mums but it seemed silly uprooting my 2 boys as well for one night. I don't think I'm going to get much sleep but I think I will feel more comfortable with him being with me as I know, out of everyone, he is feeling exactly the same as me!
Kimberlee same with the pet hair, MIL has 2 light ginger long haired cats... could you imagine the hairy suits lol
CommentAuthorHeather
We stayed together the night before. It was so nice in the morning for us both to share our excitement. We had breakfast together the when my daughters and myself went to the hairdressers we stayed so different rooms until we met at church. I wouldn't of had it any other way.
CommentAuthorKimberlee1
My OH is going to golf the morning of the wedding (our wedding isnt til 2) So hes being booted out early. There will be no way i am sleeping. lol
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CommentAuthorHalebob85
I'm staying at my house and he's at his. We still don't technically live together yet. Will be nice to spend my last night in my room and with my rents before I become Mrs MacCallum and we emigrate.
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CommentAuthorOWB
I would like us to stay together but h2b wants his 'boys night'. I don't see what's wrong with it if you're both happy.
If only life could be one long tea break
CommentAuthorPB
I am staying at our venue with my daughter and moh the night before the wedding.It was my h2b who insisted that we couldn't spend the night before together,it wouldn't bother me so long as he left before i got my dress on! However i can now see the benefit as i know that i would just get stressed at home and would take it out on him or start cleaning neither of which i want to do the night/morning before the wedding lol xxx
CommentAuthorPrincess2be
I'll b staying with bridesmaids at the venue so that i can do nails and beaty treatments etc. x
CommentAuthorKatieHazell
It works well actually as flowers and decs for venue are coming early @ 8.30 so he can take those and go have breakfast/get ready etc while I have all of my bridesmaids round to sort ourselves out over glasses of bubbles :) x
CommentAuthorringerone
We have a bit of a strange one. We are technically getting married at the register office on Friday but we are having a church blessing on Saturday. So, we are spending the night before the wedding apart but the night before the blessing together as it will still be our wedding night and there was no way we were going to spend THAT apart.
CommentAuthorKarenB9
i will be staying at our house with our daughter and MOH and her 2 little girls who are my flower girls. H2B will be staying i think with best man
CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
We are staying together. After living together for 15 years I don't really believe the superstition.....LOL I will be leaving the house first to drop the dog off at the kennels on the way, then on to the hotel to get ready there, and he will leave for the registry office straight from home. Hopefully we will end up at the same place at 2pm.....LOL
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CommentAuthorLegoWife
This is pretty much the only thing we're sticking to! Although it's quite annoying when people tell you "you can't do that" like you've committed some almighty sin. I get it a lot with H2B seeing my dress and we're actually both quite nervous for someone else to lace me into it on the day! I think it'll be fun not to see each other till the moment we get married though :)
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CommentAuthorJoanneS30
My H2B and I have been inseparable since day one, not sure what will happen the night of our wedding, love this discussion though made me thnk :D
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me and h2b are staying in the same hotel but different rooms...we're just going to have food n drinks together at night and then once we're in bed thats it til 4pm the day after :-O h2b isnt bothered but ill never sleep lol, im scared to death of the dark (very pathetic i know) so ill be the only room in the hotel with every light on all night haha
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CommentAuthorMrs Davro
H2b is sleeping at ours and I'm sleeping at the hotel with my bridesmaid and going to have a pamper evening.
I don't believe in the superstition of the groom not seeing the dress as they choose it on dttb I just want it to be a suprise.
CommentAuthor
its a daft superstition really anyway, dates back to arranged marriages when if the groom saw the bride beforehand and didnt like her he'd run off, hence the bad luck xxx
met the man of my dreams 22/09/2006,
Had our amazing twin boys 16/05/2008
Finally becoming Mrs Davies on 31/08/2012 will make me the
happiest lady alive :-)
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
I have thought about this as we are not getting married until late, but I did with my first marriage so may not with this one and I am sure the day will go quick with last minute things to get done.
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CommentAuthormrs clarke to be
im going to be staying at my mums house and my h2b will be at the venue hotel with his best man xx
CommentAuthorKatieHazell
Thinking about it, I don't think I'd trust h2b to stay out of trouble if he was left with his best man the night before... I'm not sure he's thought this one through properly haha
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
nope i'm staying in the hotel the night before and my OH is staying at home
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CommentAuthormadison_uk
staying together the night before than hes going to his best mans to get ready and then meet me at the church
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
No my h2b is going to be staying at his parents the night before, and I will be at mine. However, I would have liked to stay together the night before but he was the one who was adamant that we can't! lol xxx
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CommentAuthorFernP61
im staying at ours with the girls and hes being packed up to his mums lol a few drinks and ill be off to sleep i know what you mean though i am worried all the excitement the night before will make me not want to sleep lol xx
CommentAuthorSteffie
I'm spending the Sunday with him and then myself, mum, dad and brother are staying at the venue/having last supper lol together and ants staying at home with his dad and brother!
xx
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
We are both spending the night in the hotel where we are getting married. I'm with my MOH and hes with his Best Man. I'm sticking to tradition but thats just me :) x
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CommentAuthorElliekitty
Im staying at the hotel the night before and Josh is staying at home with his best man x
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CommentAuthorShazk
If thats what you want to do then do it sod what others think or say.
Me & my OH are both planning to stay at our venue but in seperate rooms (i dont like idea of be seperated and like others probably wont be able to sleep properly with out him, but i do like the idea of me and the girls all doing the girlie stuff and hopefully he will have more of a wow factor not seeing me for a while , least i hope sop anyway!)
Away with the flutterbys xxx
CommentAuthorVelcro
Hopefully we'll be in a hotel the night before, so we'll be having seperate rooms, however if we end up staying at home, he's getting booted out and staying with his mother... or I'll go and stay with mine, or one of my friends or summat. I mentioned having a week apart before hand, but I'm not sure we could cope with that haha
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CommentAuthorShazk
oh not couldnt cope with a week, can manage few nights normally but dont think could cope for week with stress and organisation plus my OH would just spend it playing games and going out with the lads prob forget what day of the week it is and not turn up lol x
Away with the flutterbys xxx
CommentAuthorAlexK
As we are getting married where our parents live but probably won't be living near here by then I think we'll each be at our parent's houses.
CommentAuthorSazzell23
I wanted me and H2B to stay together as feel the same as you. But H2B wants to keep traditional and he is going to stay at his brothers x
CommentAuthorKastobe
We ended up having an actual argument (we don't argue) about who got to stay where on the night before the wedding as we both wanted to stay at home but we both wanted to keep to the tradition of not seeing each other until the church.
I won, I got to stay at home and the H2B is staying elsewhere, not sure where at the moment, probably with one of the best men I'm guessing.
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
im staying at mum n dads with my sis (moh) and my youngest BM xxx
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CommentAuthorCelesse
We will be staying in our own house and own bed, probably with DS in bed with us as well if he's still co-sleeping. I don't want to interupt the children's routine and want them to sleep as well as possible...up until the wedding night when my parents take them!!
CommentAuthorOssie12
I have decided to stay at my venue with my bridesmaids the Night before the wedding x
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
I'm staying at the venue, but I would quite like to spend the night before with h2b, thinking about it...xx
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CommentAuthorVickie
I am staying at my parents house as I wanted to leave from there as its where I grew up and they are planning on selling the house after wedding. OH is going from ours.
We have 2 cats and a dog but will be going into kennels day before and my parents have a dog which he will do the same.
xxx
CommentAuthorXTeresainLoveX
My h2b wants to stick to tradition and is staying at his dad's the night before, so leaves me at home with the 3 kids until my moh and mum turn up lol but like Celesse we did decide it was probably better for the kids to stick to their routine the night before as they'll be excited enough and my eldest son needs to be at the house as he's giving me away x
CommentAuthorocean
I'm staying at my mums with my sisters,
My h2b is staying at his mums with his best man.
We're both going home for one last night :)
Dogs are going to the kennels the day before, then the houses will be hoovers of any stray hairs!
CommentAuthorShelleyM46
im staying at home. wi kids n im kicking him out iv not told him yet tho x
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CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
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katie, reading your op has just made me think. i really can't sleep when h2b isn't in bed with me!!
i think we'll just stay in the same bed and then he can leave in the morning, before i start to get ready.
ps ziggy...i'm scared of the dark too. h2b slags me off all the time lol he loves creeping up on me in the dark :( it's really not funny at all :'(
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CommentAuthormym72
We were in a hotel in Gretna but had separate rooms. Didn't make a lot of difference really though as we were at the pub with some of the wedding party til the early hours - but it helped the next morning when we couldn't see each other (we got married at 2.45pm).
CommentAuthorObsidian_Winter
We're getting married 200 miles from home and are sleeping separately. In going to be in the hotel with my mum and bridesmaids and MOH, h2b is going to stay with his best man who lives local to the registry office.
Mainly we're doing it this way because he wants to spend one time with his bestman and groomsmen and I want to spend the morning relaxing. If we were together, he would be trying to get me involved in his entertainments (paint balling and camping) when I have plans for a therapeutic soak and pamper session. Not that I'm against paint balling and camping in general, but before the wedding is not the best time, lol.
CommentAuthorphoebee
We are spending the night apart.
CommentAuthorhigginszajac
Im spending the night away he is staying at ours with my dad my son and sons mate xx
