I am getting married on 4th July 2015 - Being so far away, there's very little 'doing' being able to be done...
We have paid the deposit for our venue.. Our venue offers a massive package which includes all table decorations, all table stationary (placecards menus etc) Also, all chair covers, table linen etc.. So those are all things ticked off of my 'search for' list.... I have created our wedding stationary on v.print (StD's, invitations, RSVP's, Order of Service) but can't ordered them because need to confirm times with our venue and it's too early to send them out anyway.. Theme is chosen.. Appointments with photograhers in May.. Bouquet design chosen..
I know there is other stuff but can't remember it at the moment :-/
I wont be looking for my dress until Sept-Oct next year, same for MOH dress..
Me and H2B wont go shopping for our rings until January/February 2015 prob, make sure we leave time for alterations as I have the tendancy to choose rings that they don't have my size in so need them resized..
Boredom is really starting to creep in now as H2B has a wedding project going on and he's ordering thing after thing and giggling at me from over the laptop lol.. And I have nothing to look for now... At least I don't think I do..
If any of you can think of anything I've missed that can take away my boredom I'd be extremely grateful :-) xx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorsarah
guest book/guest book alternative music for the day wishing well/ card box (or is this provided?)
All I can think of right now :)
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Guest list? Research possible honeymoon destinations. Research quotes for transport, DJ, videographer. Go to any wedding fayres you can find.
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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Sarah - Ooo guest book is a good idea :-) I found one I like, but no harm in looking for more :-)
Ceremony music is sorted but do need 'during the food' music !
We do actually get a wooden wishing well card box included but Nicky's project is something more personal to us to put the cards in that we can take home for the cards to stay in afterwards.... Can't wait to see it on the day ! Lol..
Elinor - Guest list is complete for day and night..
Honeymoon I had honestly forgotten about haha ! Shall get searching !
Transport is my FiL2B's 1969 MGB
DJ is included in our amazing venue package..
Videographer has proven just too far out of our budget unfortunately :-(
And searching for wedding fayres is a great idea too :-)
Thanks Ladies !!
xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
go to wedding fairs sort out your honeymoon have you chosen your hair and make up artist ?? what look you want on the day ?? have you searched for shoes?? you like your wedding lingerie?? how are you going to have your nails ?? guest book or wishing tree your maid of honors bouquets/ bridesmaids bouquets how your MOH hair will be and make up?? center piece design Theres lots to do heres a lil list for you Im 23rd October 2016 and I'm finding plenty to do getting ideas there is so much to do so much to plan =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
I agree with going to wedding fayres - also not sure if cake has been mentioned?
xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Wedding fayres are few and far between where I live, but will definitely be searching to see when they are.. Hoenymoon I shall start looking for, though we may be going to Nicky's aunties apartment in Spain... He wants a more extravagent honeymoon, but I don't think we'll be able to afford one and to be honest, just being away with my new husband will be enough for me :-)
My mum is doing my hair and part of my make up and then I'll finish with eye liner and mascara..
I'm not wearing shoes :-)
Lingerie I have a few ideas, but with the dress I want, I wont need it so will be able to get 'first married night' lingerie ;-)
I have an idea for my nails, my cousin is a nail artist so I'm going to ask her to do them for me :-)
Guest book I can look for :-) I'll be getting a big wish list together on bay of e and let Nicky decide which one :-)
MOH posie is in with my bouquet which I've chosen..
Not thought about her hair... Think I'll need to see what dress we get first.. And just her normal make up will be fine, maybe a bit darker eye shadow than normal..
Centre pieces are in with the venue package aswell and absolutely GORGEOUS !!
Think of anything else, let me know Lana !!
H2B is on cake duty Becky ! xx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I feel the same as you and mines still 17.5 months away...all my main things are planned, like you my venue includes all the decorating etc so don't need to source all that myself, got food booked in, transport done, cake done, photographer done, going to look at dresses for a bit tomoz... Not got a lot to concentrate on but tbh would rather be organised now and be a little bored with being so organised than feel stress closer if I've forgotten something xx
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Personalized cake topper of you and your H2B Personalized Napkins with your wedding logo embroided on with your names and your wedding date If your wedding bouquet is real then you could get it freeze dried and a cabinet made to keep your wedding bouquet forever as they take all the moisture out of the flower and leave it exactly the way it was on your wedding day Have you thought of favours for your guests your wedding jewellery / MOH jewellery a wedding stamp with your names on and your wedding date with your logo was sealant stamp with your new surname starting letter to add onto wedding stationary to personalize your wedding stationary Shall think of some more ideas for you Georgi =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorMichelleB2b
Have an engagement photoshoot? Send out save the date cards? Read lots of wedding magazines? Plan the hen night? Shoes? x
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
KelBel - Thats what I thought too ! I dont want to be panicking nearer the time wondering why on earth I didn't do it sooner !! I'm going to order all the kids packs when I get paid tomorrow, just to say I have something for the wedding coming haha !! I also have an anklet ordered as well, as I'm not wearing shoes, I needed something to pretty my feet up lol..
Lana - My dad is making the cake topper being the handy so-and-so he is :-) The napkins sound lovely but we're on a tight budget.. Though, may research them just for the heck of it hehe :-) My bouquet isn't real because it has lillies and black roses.. 1. My cousin had lillies and they stained her dress something rotten.. 2. Black roses dont exist, if you dye real roses then the dye comes out if the get squished which will stain my dress or the darkest real rose you can get is a really dark red, so silk ones for me :-) Plus I get hayfever something rotten and my MOH gets it 10x worse than me !! Haha.. Favours - I thought lotto tickets but now I reckon I'm just going to do chocs in bags cause trying to find favours for the tweenies was proving impossible !! And it would annoy me if someone won something haha ! I wanted a wax seal made up but have no idea where to find a personalised one :-/ Any clues ? Ahhh thank you muchly :-) <3 xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
I got my wax sealant of amazon I just got a D stamp and the Green an Blue Wax crayon your meant to use a wax sealant gun to heat the wax but that takes the fun out of melting the wax I know sounds bad like we are playing with fire but were careful I guess it depends on what sort of sealant stamp you want if you want the full surname or something specific you will have to do a google search as I don't know if they sell any personalized wax sealant stamps Ooohh I see about your flowers deffo stick to silk flowers you don't want your dress getting ruined =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
If you google it, there's lots of companies that do wedding favours/invites etc that do personalised seals, and u can buy the wax blocks in different colours too quite cheaply x
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Haha, Lana your way sounds much more fun :-) And nooo definitely don't want my dress ruined !
I'll have a look for the stamps :-) Thanks you two ! xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorGillianE
why don't you go to college to do a short course to keep you busy, something that you can tie in with your wedding, like caligraphy, baking etc.
xx
CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
Gosh ur super organised, I'm not getting married til 2016 and can't do anything, as most places won't book yet and can't find a reception venue :( we have church booked and I've done a sort of scrapbook/folder but most my likes are online and need to organise and print out. We don't know our budget either think its as little as possible. I've bought my shoes but like u won't go dress shopping til closer to the time. Have u sorted out ur favors if ur having them? Also a special treat for ur h2b x
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Gillian - I have done courses in both already ! Lol.
Emma-Louise - I'm a total OCD organisation freak haha.. I need to look for new favours now as I changed my mind to be more accommodating to the 12-15 year old guests as we have nearly 10 of them.. So that's another added to my list of to-do's :-) I'm thinking of getting him an engraved watch, but we've said only get each other presents if we have some spare money left over after the needed things xx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
I'm abitocd with planning n organising, I have list for everything, which is why it's killing me that I can't find a venue or book things :( x
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
:-( I know how you feel.. I've been engaged for 3 years now, started planning a 2012 wedding that we had to cancel in 2011 and pushed our target back to 2015, so I've been waiting since 2011 to start planning again ! Where abouts do you live ? xx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorEllenH27
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I'm a 2015 bride too and I have sorted so far:- Our Venue - it only does 20 weddings a year so we had to get in quick and they offered 2012 prices. Bridesmaid dresses and shoes My dress- Deposit paid Favors for the ladies Invites- We're making ourselves Save the dates Table Decorations
Feel like its ages away but, we're trying to be organised plus we know what our budget is so we are lucky in that way and the next thing we're going to sort is the catering, as we can only choose from 4. Now I'm just looking at inspiration for flowers and the finishing touches etc. We've been engaged a year already and it has gone so fast, it'll be here before we know it. :-) I'm sure it'll go as fast for you too. x
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
We've been engaged 3 years and thats gone scary fast !! I know between now and then will fly by, but at the moment we're waiting for our 4 day weekend this weekend, and then our 2 week holiday in June and time is creeping by very slowly it seems ! Lol.. Our venue already had the first 3 dates I asked about in 2015 booked so seems everyone is getting in quick ! Ours is frozen at 2013 prices as they only started selling our package the night we went to get a quote which was last week..
I'm probably going to have to wait to sort MOH dress and shoes out as its my sis in law (bro's gf) who has miraculously decided (since we've started planning ours again) that she now wants to get married, not only that but she wants it next year so it's before mine.. So I will have to wait for her to get their wedding out of the way before trying to involve her in mine.. xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
When I posted this thread, I thought that was boredom but my goodness THIS is boredom !
Thing I have actually done or doing something about -
Venue - Ceremony and reception - Deposit paid - inc DJ, table centre pieces, venue decoration, all linen, table stationary - All chosen but won't be meeting with the woman til late next year at the earliest. Photographer - 2 meetings in May Guest list (day and night) - Done Favours - Organza bags bought, sweets chosen Jewellery - Bought, waiting for 1 toe ring Flowers chosen - Currently looking for quotes Special surprises for H2B - Chosen, waiting for money to buy the stuff MOB box - Everything chosen, waiting for money StDs, Invitations, RSVPs, Order of Service - Chosen, waiting for money.. Personalised stamp for envelopes - Bought Kids pack - Bought Guest book - Bought Emergency kit bag - Bought. Things to go in it - Waiting for money Cake - H2Bs job Something to put cards in - H2Bs job Garter - Bought Suits - H2Bs job Wedding party - Chosen Ceremony music - Chosen Transport - Sorted
Things that are waiting til much nearer the time but do have ideas
Ring Honeymoon Dress MOH dress - Though found out yesterday that they're planning on try for a baby at beginning of 2015 so going to really have to wait til nearer the time
Argh just so frustrating not being able to do anything ! Xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Trust me Georgi Mine all ideas as the oe cannot sort anything out as got ages to go till 2016 no one taking booking yet till maybe middle of 2014 Its the waiting game and I suggest do try to get your rings earlier as the price of metal goes up every year and some companys let you keep the prices f the year you ordered your rings in =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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I know you know exactly how I feel Lana.. Sucks doesn't it ! I'm thinking mid/late of next year for rings cause my weight goes up and down like a jack in the box and my hands is one of the first places it springs to and springs off.. Don't want to get the ring and it be too big/small cause I'm losing weight at the mo.. Gone from 9st 13lb to bouncing between 8st13lb and 9st 1lb since Oct.. I retain a lot of water too so need water tablets every so often.. I'm one of those people who take 5 weeks to get it off and 5days to put it all back on :-( Ideally I want to be between 8st and 8st 7lb as I'm only 5'2'' but our garage is full to bursting at the moment cause of the building project Nickys doing and all our gym equipment is squished in there.. Should be sorted next weekend though so will be starting again with the workouts to get to that weight before our holiday in June :-) xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Yah know me know and Ooh ok fair enough it your weight goes up and down it is best for you to wait to get your rings then and I will be lucky if im able to book anything from mid 2014 as they still may not be taking booking for 2016 =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Our venue took a January 2016 the night we booked ours ! So hopefully for you they will :-) every supplier I have contacted would take a deposit from me at 27months to go so you should definitely be ok from July/August next year onwards :-) xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Finally some good news so from July August next year I can start making deposits and booking things putting my plan into motion Exciting times ahead =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
:-D maybe even try a little earlier.. I know some places take deposits at 2.5years early too ! Will you be looking suppliers in Cornwall ? You'll have to take another break down there to meet up with them all if your are ! :-D xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Im thinking of making the chair sashes myself and center pieces as the Eden Project do not set up the Biome they are also limited to deco as they close a 4pm plus why ruin the Lush Green Foilage of the Biome it has its own inner beauty in it own little world still havent booked my break away yet will hopefully book it before the end of the Month or May =D ♥ X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Totally agree on the deco.. I've not been but did a small section in grog at college about it and it is beautiful.. Cornwalls pretty dead by October end, at least it was where we went, so you'll be ok booking somewhere I'm sure :-) xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3