I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful man who i love more then life itself. Ive been married once before when i was 18 i just had a baby with my ex husband. and i was doing the right WELL what i thought was right thing. By doing it properly.. it ended after 6 months due to the fact i realize we done it all for the wrong reason and shortly after i met my new H2B we've now been together for 5 years! but id never though about marriage till my x husband came to me and asked for a divorce as he was getting re married!! As i told my new partner he joked about how we could now get married and here we are today.
Only problem is ive now started the divorce proceedings but am in the middle of booking my second marriage so question is, Can i book the registrar even though im not techinally divorced yet?
Any answers would be much appreciated x
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
Im not sure on that, i would speak directly to ur registra and tell him the situation
But i did just want to say congratulations on getting married :) xxxx
Happily Married! :) xxx
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
Oh and can i ask..... the pics that u have of the bridesmaid dresses I was convinced i like the 2nd one but now seeing ur first one - where is that one from? xxx
Happily Married! :) xxx
CommentAuthorRelfy
I think you can book the register so you have your date booked it, but your not allowed to give notice until you are divorced... you give notice around 6 months before the wedding, so as long as your divorced my then you should be fine.x
CommentAuthorLedZepLover
I'm not sure either on this one. When we rang up and booked the registrar they did ask if either of us were already married so I would assume that you probably would need to be fully divorced before you can book up x x x
when we went to give notice last year,glenn had to take his divorce papers with him as proof that the mariage was ended to allow our notices to go through,if i were you id call them and check,you have plenty of time as you can only provisionally book up to 2 years in advance,so by the time you go to give notice your divorce should be finalised,if that makes sense x~x~x
CommentAuthorScarlettxLane
Thanks everyone! Ill give them a call and see what they say xxx
you can provissionally book it then when you get ur papers show the registra them and it will be fine thats what i did
CommentAuthorKimi
Provisionally book the registrar TWO years in advance????? I thought it was ONE????
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
i think you can book the time slot but can't give notice until you have the divorce papers. kimi we booked our registrar 18 months in advance its only a year before you can give notice xx
CommentAuthorKimi
Hmmmmm, right, I think I'm gonna have a word with H2B about this tonight and see if we can get it sorted. I'm having worries that we won't get the date with the registrar (granted its just me being a worrywart but still . . .)
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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you can provisionally book up to two years in advance to get the date and time you want,but cant actually give notice untill upto 12 months before the wedding,we provisionally booked ours may 08,gave notice may 09 got married 2010 edited to say,provisional booking may vary from district to district
CommentAuthorJay
also check that you dont have to wait a period after the divorce to get re married as my mums just got divorced and she mentioned that she cant re marry for a year after?x
CommentAuthordebs x
You can book it but you have to take your decree nisi with you when you give notice to prove that your previous marriage was disolved x
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
kimi your getting married same day as me, in march we couldnt have the registrar time we wanted, had to move it forward an hour. dont mean to worry you but get on to your h2b and book asap!! x
CommentAuthorKimi
:) thanx alice - i did phone them about 8/10 months ago but they said it was too early. Will deffo query it now though.
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Different areas have different rules on booking- some only take bookings 12 months in advance, others earlier.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorcatch
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they will ask for divorce papers hunni but they may let you pre book your date ( for a none refundable fee approx £140)!! as you will have to ensure your registra is available for the same date you book your venue good luck xx
CommentAuthorhayleypooh
i cant answer that question hun but wanted too say welcome
