My H2B loves my boobs... bless men... tbh its one of the only part of me I do like...
So Ive started looking at dresses and have my eye on a gorgeous one but it has a beaded high neck so the puppies wont be on show... as I passed a wedding dress shop last week with the H2B and there were few dresses in the window and he pointed out that he wants to see my boobs on the day... gutted!!!!
So I'm not sure what to do now... weather to go with what I like of with the H2B wishes... But as its a wedding then should you be respectful and keep myself covered up...
Dont get me wrong I wouldnt have them proper out but I at least would like a bit of a cleave to keep the man happy....
Whats everyone else doing with their best assests???
CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
mine are hidden, he won't mind though as he can see them later x
CommentAuthorwelshcerys
If I had them I would show them to their best advantage!! Esp if h2b loves them hun - they can still be on show without looking slutty!
CommentAuthorPennylane
Get the cleavage out I say!! If you've got it flaunt it lol. I've always been flat chested I guess I'm just jealous!!
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CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Go for a dress that shoes you at your best. That may be a high neck, or it may be slightly risque.
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i think you should do what you feel more comfortable in hun.. even if there covered it won't matter because no matter you wear on your wedding day he will still think you look amazing!! x
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
im sorry to say but i strongly believe that on your wedding day you want the attention to be on your face not your baps!!!,,my husband asked me if my dress was low cut as he loves my boobs and i told him to wait and see,,,the look of surprise when he saw my dress was amazing,,he said his vows looking my face not my chest
CommentAuthorfester
I've just been thinking the same thing I bought a dress that would reasonably cover my 30ff chest but I've just tried on my underwear to go underneath and those bad boys aren't going to be hidden lol. I think there's some people who have them hanging all out and it looks a little tacky but I think if it's done tastefully then go for it, why not...exactly what the others say if you've got it....... x
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
Personally I don't like toooo much clevage on show with a wedding dress, but that's just me. I'd go with the dress that makes you feel the best when it's on and not worry too much about what he thinks, because he'll think you look amazing whatever! x
CommentAuthorcandy
if your someone that enjoys showing your cleavage normally i say go for it i plan to! you dont have to look slutty to show off your best assets but if youd feel uncomfortable then go for the high neckline be true to yourself and wear something that reflects who you are not what others expect of you xx
CommentAuthorNHR115
You need to be comfortable hun so go with what you want. You can always keep in mind what your H2B wants but make sure you're 100% happy. xxx
CommentAuthordebs x
My opinion is that you want to reflect how you really are and if you normally wear low necklines and your happy to then go for it x
CommentAuthorSuffolkSteph
My Boobs are not Massive... 36D... but they are the best part of me so i guess I'll keep looking for a dress that does something for them... I want my H2B to be so proud when he sees me and I dont want him to be disapointed...
Any odeas where I can find a padded white strapless pushup bar or Basque...????
CommentAuthorcandy
debenhams are great for things like that
CommentAuthorNikkiB
Personally I'll have them covered up, I haven't got the biggest boobs in the world so I have no choice! I think if it's classy and not tacky then it's fine!
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
what's that brand that sarah harding models? they do them but can't think of the name at the moment x
CommentAuthorbillybob
Personally I think a little bit can look classy, but if they are bulging out I think it spoils the whole look and as said previously you want people looking at your face not your baps!
CommentAuthorjjono
Have a look of the pics of my dress hun, they can be on show and be classy, my dress is having a strap added b4 the day for extra support
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CommentAuthorvintage lass
I always believe in pleasing yourself before anyone else hun.....dont feel pressured into wearing something that u may not be comfortable with or thats either not your style or unflattering!!!! We all like to keep or men happy but at the end of the day it is your big day and u want to enjoy it with no regrets later!!!! Go with your instincts xx
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
maybe have another look and see if there is one that will show off your cleavage that you like as much as the one that doesn't but if there isn't go with the one you like now he wont mind he will get to see them for the rest of his life
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CommentAuthorMrs Rebecca Hossfeld
A nice neckline is a sweetheart one..my dress is that type, I have big boobs, it shows enough without being OTT :)
CommentAuthorJay
mines is a strapless one but as its a maggie it doesnt make them look as massive as they are lol! mines are tastefully hidden and just a tad on show, theyre not a focal point x
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
go with what you want! i dont really have big boobs so even if i wore a low cut dress there still wouldn't be a lot to see haha xx
CommentAuthorcalamity333
Personally im a cover em up girl but I would say that as im a flattie!! hehe I say wear whatever makes you feel the most special- that will shine through on the day that you are happy and im sure he will love that!!! and like someone above mentioned I am sure he'll see them later either way ;-)
CommentAuthorMrs Sazra
I personally wouldn't ant all and sundry looking at my boobs on my wedding day, h2b can see all that afterwards. Don't want my dad walking me down the aisle with my baps out, but that's just a personal choice. You need to do what would make both of you happy. He might say he wants to see them, but does he want all his mates (best man) etc, ogling them too?
CommentAuthorMrs Mara Tester
I'm having a bit of cleavage (even if that involves some chicken fillets and a pair of socks!!! lol) I think you should wear what you feel comfortable in. xx
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CommentAuthorMrsB
Mines like a corset top so a lil bit of boobage however my boobies are small so think i'm gonna have to find something which will make them fill it, if I was proud of mine I would deffo go for something which would show them off x
CommentAuthorEmmielene
im going for a bit of both. For the ceremony and wedding breakfast i am keeping the lace sleeves and shrug attached which holds my dress up a little higher than natural, just enough to keep those boobs in check. Evening, the lace is coming off, the dress naturally falls slightly and TA DA a hint of corset enhanced cleavage
My h2bs the same, my dress is low so will show my cleavage but not enough to be sexual lol. I do agree with, if youve got it flaunt it tho lol and sounds like me and you have got it ;-) xx
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CommentAuthorShellster90
You can do the boobs in a suttle yet sexy way I think.. Good bit of cleavage lol :) xx
CommentAuthorTerribabylove
LOL, never expected that, iv just asked h2b, boobs/cleavage or covered and he said "whatever you want isnt it" :-/, now im worried lol, he loves boobs, mmm could be tired :-/ xx
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CommentAuthormrs linda greer 21/8
im not blessed with BIG ones but there not 2 small ethier my dress has a sweetheart neckline so it show a little cleavage, but i say go 4 wat U want after all its ur day u wear the dress u love xx
CommentAuthorCeCe
..l see nothing wrong with a touch of cleavage on show. We are women, we have norks, they are part of us. BUT, nowt worse than see knockers straining for freedom on some desperate bird who wants attention!!
Less is more in the breasticles issue I believe..let them get a touch of fresh air but no more! On your wedding day you wanna look classy not trashy!
CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
no keep them covered think of the bending down to hug the little people etc
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CommentAuthorbillybob
lol cece! I think what I was trying to say is it can be done tastefully and I think cleavage is good as long as its flattering. jjono that dress is gorgeous, I'm not brave enough to wear anything like that nor do I have the figure. ha ha there would be too many of my lumps and bumps on display and not just my boobs!!!!
CommentAuthorRoxii
A am as much in love with my boobs as H2B lol :P So I will sure have a little cleavage. xx
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
hun id say wear what ever makes u happy. i think for mine im gunna go 4 a dress that will show them off but in a suttle way. its your day and you have what ever you want 2 xx
CommentAuthorKesha
I think you should do whatever your comfortable with. Im all for showing my cleavage as my h2b is a boobs man and loves it, however, in a church in front of elderly family members isnt appropriate for me so mine will be covered. Sometimes its about what you cant see that keens em keen!