Is anyone considering/having a boob job prior to the big day??
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
No No and No! I think they look and feel so fake. (felt a few friends boobs) Also have you seen what they look like when you are in later life and everything has sagged but the implants? They don't look that flattering that is for sure. The h2b hates them too and loves me for the way I am. I think a good bra can work wonders.
CommentAuthorToops
I'm afraid not, I have big enough boobs for my H2B to handle and just enough for me to be proud of, so no boob jobs for me.
CommentAuthorGoff
Nope - and i cant see why ANYONE would want one.
I think women need to sort out their self esteem issues before even considering any form of plastic surgery - and having to fork out to have them redone every 10 years is even less appealing!
Be happy with what you have :-)
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CommentAuthorPossum
I would love one. But I'm a 32JJ and my back hurts and clothes don't fit...I could get it on the NHS! It isn't a cosmetic thing But breastfeeding when I have kids is too important to me and I may not be able to if I have it x
omg you are kidding me right,please say you are,why would anyone considder haveing a boob job just for their wedding,just to make the pictures look better????,,a wedding is about a man and a woman showing how much they love each other,,not about how good a persons looks,sorry but things like this really pi55 me off
CommentAuthorMaggielou
Haven't seen them years later, but guess that's something worth researching. I have more of an issue with being uneven than worrying about size. Will def need chicken fillets 4 my dress as a minimum. H2b is supportive either way :)
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
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I have thought about a REDUCTION! Im a 36 F and finding tops that are nice on is a nightmare :-( I think a nice C cup would solve that problem lol But h2b says he would kill me so oh well lol
edit ;- thought id better add i have thought the above BUT I would never do it just for my wedding, after all h2b is marrying me for me not what my boobs will look like in my dress (although he does say they are VERY nice hehehe)
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CommentAuthorPossum
That's what I mean Hails - I'm a size 12 but a 32JJ and I look ridiculous and can't wear dresses or nice clothes! x
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
He doesn't have to carry them around all day though. I can understand women wanting them smaller but not bigger. Like Goff said it should be their confidence and self esteem they sort out not their boobs.
CommentAuthorMaggielou
Plan was after the wedding but figure if I'm going to have one, may as well be b4. Don't have self esteem issues, so it's not being done out of desperation!
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Can I just ask the reasons you are having it done?
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
if women want boob jobs fine,but why just for the wedding,i think its stupid!!
CommentAuthorGoff
If you dont have self esteem issues - then why are you considering having it done?
I know you say its about being uneven, and you do say its an issue, but we're all uneven... some of us more than most!
If your hellbent on having it done, please give it some serious thought.....and do some proper research x
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CommentAuthorMaggielou
Out of proportion to the rest of me, 5'7", 12-14, size 7 feet and only a b cup, plus they're quite uneven
CommentAuthorGoff
Lol, your not on yer own there Maggie Im only a b cup meself and size 6 feet!!!
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
You know I bet there is only you that thinks that and no one else has even noticed. Its surprising at just how little attention other people give to things like that yet we perceive them to.
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
its nothing a decent bra and some chicken fillets wont sort out,do you really want to put yourself through surgery just to look good for your wedding
CommentAuthorToops
I read an article about a women who was about to get married and had rather large breasts so as a surprise on her wedding day to her H2B got a breast reduction, however H2B found out about this and dumped her, stating he couldn't trust her again - not quite to sure if that was why he dumped her.
So be sure your other half knows before you do anything.
:-))
CommentAuthorMaggielou
It's just an idea I've had on and off 4 about 8 years but now we're a bit more financially stable and could consider saving 4 it. Kind of want the end results but without the pain!! Will prob talk myself out of it tomorrow!!
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Do you think anyone else would notice the results? What does your h2b think about it? I think the health risks having it done are enough to put me off. If you do decide to go ahead with it don't skimp on costs or insurance for them. (no joke you need to insure them) Also make sure you get good recommendations and do your research . There are lots of willing doctors who will put you under the knife when they shouldn't do so make sure they are acting in your best interests and they don't hash it up as a bad boob job will leave you feeling worse than what you do now.
CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
I would love one but would never spend that kind of money on myself I am on my free implants but it has become a bit like a porn site and if you are not willing to sent dirty photos (which I am not!!) then you dont get any money
Cant wait for my Tiffany & co, wedding - July 16th 2011
CommentAuthorKerrylmac
Big ones are over rated! I'm a size 12 and used to have 32E/F but since having my daughters I'm a 32G. I get back pain, so many pretty tops/dresses can't be worn coz look silly. There is only one shop where o can get my bras from that fit comfortably & look nice but is in an area I don't normally shop so have to make a trip out of it to buy any. Don 't even get me started in strapless bras. I really don't understand why anyone would want to put themselves through unnecessary surgery. Having said that if you are seriously considering it you need to fo a lot of research, like the others have said, there are some horror stories out there! Good luck x
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
I used to want one but am so glad I waited until older to decide because there's no way I would do it now. Of course it's down to the individual but as others have said, make sure you do lots of research, go to someone who is registered and offers proper aftercare etc.
Oh and Kerry- lots of my friends with big boobs swear by bravissimo who do mail order for bras and accept returns too! X
CommentAuthorKerrylmac
Yeah that is where I shop! Although I prefer to go in & get fitted each time as donetimes I am different size in different bras and I have ordered online before & had to return and I just find it a hassle. Would rather pop in and out. The ladies that work there are just so helpful & lovely. Thanks xxx
CommentAuthorMrswright
I would love one as i have breastfed 5 children but if i died or became ill whilst being so vain i would never forgive myself and besides i'm 42-29-42 and 5 foot tall withsize 3 feet so just accepting i'm a curvy mama !
CommentAuthorMrsB
I want one as I actually have no boobs and have to wear a bra with padding in it and it itches like hell but not just because of the wedding I feel less of a woman because I don't have any I used be a 32 E =/ now I'm a 32 B how depressing x
CommentAuthorGoff
Mrs T - it aint depressing, im a 32B, if that. I dont feel any less of a woman just cos i got a small chest.
My H2B loves me how i am and wouldn't change a thing about me.
you need to learn to accept yourself for WHO you are not what society and the media says we should be like - after all.... its society and the media that says we should all be stick thin and airbrushed - love yourself for who you are
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CommentAuthorMaggielou
Transform offer a ten year guarantee. Prob wouldn't go 4 it, but it pops into my head now and then!
CommentAuthorToops
At the end of the day you need to do what feels right for you and not worry about what others say!
:-))
CommentAuthorMaggielou
Thanks toops! Appreciate everyones feedback
CommentAuthorToops
Best of luck Maggie :-))
CommentAuthorsamba86
Ive considered it loads since having my kids but dont have the guts to go through with it and would love a pair of boobs to help hold up me wedding dress but the chances of me going through with it are slim lol, im a right wuss plus financially its not even questionnable! (if thats such a word haha)
i have really bad self esteem issues and more so since having the girls but im trying the natural way to lose me baby fat and tone up and probs living with the fact I have paracetamols on an ironing board! lol
CommentAuthornickers
i went to see about having one but she suggested an uplift with implant was gonna cost a fortune half our wedding budget h2b was supportive of it but this was b4 we decided to get married its jus after having my son,good luck with what you decide hun xxx
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CommentAuthorPennylane
I'm quite happy with my little B cups! I've never had big boobs but I'm fine with that - Dave always says to me more than a handful's a waste! I have a million things I'd rather spend a few grand on before new boobs. But by the same token I wouldn't judge other people for doing it if it's gonna make them considerable happier - just can't understand it personally x
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CommentAuthorZoe Kay
I'm in the same boat as you penny and Rik says the same as dave .... I would never ever get mine done but do understand why some women want it doing xx
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Unfortunately already got too much to fit into a dress. H2b would string me up if I even mentioned it, he hates boob jobs. xx
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CommentAuthorPennylane
I'm also a huge woos! I'd never go under the knife unless completely necessary! I think Dave just says the handful thing to make me feel better - cos he also loves Pamela Anderson lol!! But at the same time with wee ones they don't sag as much so u have to look on the bright side. I don't have a cleavage but I can wear strappy tops lol make the most of what u have! x
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CommentAuthorMelly
I've had two reductions, one at the age of 16 and then another at the age of 18. These were purely done for health reasons, i was told if i didnt have it done i'd be dead by the time i was 25.
If anyone wants any info on reductions, just give me a yell.
CommentAuthorangelan1986
its all down to personal preference. my mum and sister have both had a boob job and have said it is the best thing they have ever done for themselves. some people are blessed with them and some are happy without them but if you arent happy with what you've got and can afford a boob job then why not i say. i would love a lift and maybe even implants and im a DD cup but cant afford it and i know h2b would support my decision if i ever got one. think i would get lipo and tummy tuck 1st though lol xx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
h2b caught me looking at this post again and said that he likes my boobs just the way they are and wouldn't want me to change.
CommentAuthorDuckbubble
so many people keep saying why would anyone EVER have a boob job? but ive considered it since i was sizxteen, if your unhappy with yhow you are and think that its the only way to improve them then i see no problem with doing it. i know i will be eventually when i can afford it definetly. Alot of women are lucky to feel comfortable enough to say theyd never consider a boob job, if youve never concidered it then you dont need it fair enough.
CommentAuthorPossum
Don't get hung up on cup size. A D cup can be smaller than a B cup, depending on the back size! For instance, I'm a JJ. But it's a 32, so a 38F is probably a similar cup size. I would never consider implants - but I'd certainly consider a reduction, if it didn't interfere with the ability to breastfeed. I know quite a few people would have large breasts which go down after having children, so I'm hoping so!
CommentAuthorJenna
I would like a lift as after feeding 3 babys they are dragging a little, lol.....but tbh i cant afford and even if i could i prob wouldnt coz in 10yrs they would be back droopy, then i would need a lift again ect.... and thats the thing with implants your almost tied to a renewal for life!
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
I wouldn't personally but then I have a large chest so I can't really say what I would say if I was more petite
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CommentAuthorcandy
im quite a big chested girl myself 32-e-f (one is a whole cup size smaller but not that noticable with a good bra) and tbh i wish i was a lot smaller, big boobs attract one thing..unwanted attention you wal up to any male and the seem to forget you have a face as well as these two great things they cant take their eyes off of.
learn to love your body the way it is as much as i hate my boobs sometimes and i do consider reductions sometimes i wouldnt do it because they are part of who i am and i dont want to surgercly change that
also if ur a little "lower" than u like hit the gym after my first son i firmed mine up quite a bit using the equiptment that has weights and u pull your arms in (cant remember the name) theyll never be the same but the tinyest improvement can make you feel better
i dont think surgery is the answer if you dont like part of you, most things can be fixed with some sweat and hard work anf if it can be changed learn to love it do we all really wanna walk round looking like glamour models?
one last reason i would never have a boob job when i get asked "are the real" i take pride in saying yes they are!
CommentAuthorJane
Possum - just had a look at your dress... its fab! Mine is a size 12 and I'm a 36DD cup but cant get it done up at the back like yours... must be a different cut to mine. Wish I could shrink my chest but wouldnt resort to surgery!
CommentAuthorsexytrish36
Noooooo..
if anything and i could afford it, id have a Boob REDUCTION... I hate my Boobs... (H2B loves them tho) Im a size 48GG and backache is horrid...
My dress is a lovely dress tho and luckly my boobs dont look so big in it!!
CommentAuthorslybacon
Some days I'd love bigger breasticles, but even though I've often thought about having them enlarged I never would!! - besides, like my h2b says, more than a handfulls a waste! lol! & I know he loves me just the way I am.
When it comes to the wedding dress, if I feel my ickle b-cups need a bit of a boost I'll just pop my chicken fillets in! lol! x x x