My sister lost her baby at 15 weeks and tomorrow would have been the due date, she's finding it really hard and is understandably very upset, i really am at a loss at what to say to her, she know's that i'm here for her and that i love her, i just wish that i could take her pain away. :-(

hi dee,having lost a baby myself and now not being able to have one with my husband i can kind or relate here,all i can say is make sure she knows your there for her when ever she needs you,let her know that that you love her and that you want to help xxx,,nothing will ever take the pain away,its been 14 years for me since i lost my little girl and the strangest things envoke strong memories of her.its something on she can deal with but im pretty sure knowing your there for her is a comfort
love to you both xxx

that is so sad, i'm so sorry to hear this!
it would be such a great thing at times if we could take others pain away :(
like you've said all you can do is be there for her and hopefully over time she will get stronger.
it may be a nice idea to try and suggest doing things to take her mind off the situation or even just be there and hold her while she cries, whatever she wants i guess :)
sending all my love x

or dee hun im so sorry to hear what ya sister is going throw no one should have to go throw it i no iv been there i lose my baby then my nan 2 days a part it will b 4 years on the 11 june when i lost my baby alex and on the 13 june it will b 4 years since my nan died i was a mess not many people seen it as i have all ways been told from a child that i have to b strong as i was the only girl so i hid a way for days i didnt no if i was coming or going my partner now h2b has never spoke about it .
its hard i no people dont no what to say but some time all ya wont is to no that some one is there 4 you so just give her a hug and tell her she will let you no if she needs more its been 4 years and even now it still hurts me now but she will get stronger hun she will come throw this big hugs to you both x

i too know how this feels,i lost my baby on valentines day this year at 13 week,but the support of your friends and family really does help.my h2b got a lovely plant and a heart shaped memory stone that we have in our garden to remember our baby.the important thing is your there for her,but i know with some of my friends they dont want to bring up the baby incase it upsets me but its pretending it didnt exist that is more upsetting.maybe you could do something to mark the memory of the day,maybe release some balloons or plant something,x

only thing u can is being there for her there are loads of other people who have made the same experience she will never forget but there is always a reason why women will loose there unborns... :( u cant change it and she will always be sad... listen to her if she needs u and be there for her big hugsss... xxx