So my htb has chosen his best man... The problem is I don't like him or trust him one bit! My htb chose him because he said he had had the most 'Laughs' with him and the most fun memories. The prob is he let's my htb down a lot, he always cancels nights out at the last minute, my htb will ask him to go some where with him and he just says no as he is working (he is a Taxie driver), them we will see him in town or some where and he just makes a excuse as to why is hi not working.
To make matters worse my htb was diagnosed with OCD last year. He is coping with it very well now. but when he 1st got diagnosed he was a mess. His best man wasn't there fir him at all! He never ask how he was doing, and only got in contact when htb contacted him 1st.
I know is htb's decision and I said he can choose he wants. It's just frustrating that I know who he chose is useless and htb doesn't see it. Sorry if I sound like a proper madam. I just need to get this of my chest! X

Sounds like one of thos one sided relationships where one let's the other get away with stuff due to when they are around they are fun and funny and flamboyant. And I know I used to do it, just let my friend get away with never being there for me and doing stuff without me etc because when we were together it was fun.

But unfortunately it's down to him to figure out , maybe suggest he ask him to be a usher (groomsmen) but have someone else add Bestman who your oh can rely on.

Talk to him and see if you can get him to change his mind :S