omg steph thats bang out of order...certainly seems like in exchange for him being faithful, he gets to go out for the night without grief!!

id certainly have word with Ringo and make sure he knows this is what his "best" man is saying...i would honestly kill the guy and massive hugs to u xxx

Rngo can have hs stag night but its a certainty he wll be faithful n he will keep his hair cos if not the best man actually in fact all of them will have me to deal with!
N as for the next day cant have hm sat on hs arse all day, its not possible in a house with this many kids! Youd think hed realise that! Now dont want hm to go on hs stag thats made me so paranoid, insecure enough as it is wthout that!

Oooooh I really hate men! My h2b excluded ofc (most of the time) lol

well just long as Ringo agree's he's out of order....be a different story if he agrees with best man

how this guy can be called a "best man" in first place is beyond me xx

tell him to shove the email where the sun dont shine!! that you will need his help with the kids the next day!! whether he has a hangover or not!! that email was well out of order!! big hugs hun xxxx

I think you need to step back and look at the e-mail like a bloke I don't in anyway think your H2B could be encouraged into touching other women (you would not be marrying him if he played away!)
I think the e-mail is just a blokey giggle and a pre warning he will be rough that's what happens when blokes are together! espessially on a stag night I'm glad my H2B is going to Newcastle for the weekend I don't have to deal with the hangovers lol
I would say yeah he gets a lie in but he still has his children to tend to just because his brain has stopped from too much alcohol intake doesn't mean the kids will stop!!! if all else fails get the kids to jump on the bed!!!
Honestly I wouln't worry It's one night they get to be stupid and have an excuse to!
Try not to worry xxx

I do trust him completely lizzy, i just dont like the fact hes tryin to use that as a bargainng tool!x

But you know in your heart it's not a bargaining tool as your H2B would never do it!
Just tell the Bestman (Pain in the ar5e man) to sod off H2B can have his fun but not to be e-mailing you the silliness I think the Bestman is e-mailing you just to wind you up!
x

Id go off it!!! Thats just me though....i think strippers are degrading and wrong. Luckily matts only going karting early evening and then to pub for a quiet drink. He will prob be back by 10 lol. We dont drink much.

Hope you get the Best Man sorted....he sounds like a right un!

Edit:Typo

Rngo has promised me that if anythin starts that he knows will upset me hes comin straight home .. feel better now.. its amazing how people can change over a stag do, hes been brill all in the build up n now hes just turnrd into an a ss, but as hes ringos cousin n the family all love me cos "i made ringo grow up " i will not hesitate to tell hs mum aunties n nana! am sure theyd love to know what blue eyed boy had planned! ;o)

I think Lizzie is bang on.

You KNOW he's not going to touch another woman, so that shouldnt be an issue - its in the email cos its a man thing!
Lets face it a Stag Do is meant to be their last night of "freedom" and for many many many years its been a jokey thing about the stag being surrounded by loads of beautiful women when we know thats not the case.

I would have replied with a simple - OK just make sure he is home SAFE.

Laying down the law and telling him he MUST be home by a certain time i going to make things far worse - he'll be full of ale and probably not give the time a second thought!

I know i would not enjoy my hen night if mark said i had to be home by a certain time - i'd be too busy worrying about geting home on time to enjoy it.

Do not take this the wrong way, but i really think you are over-reacting. Did you not discuss the stag night and the hangover the morning after beforehand? If so could you not have said that you will deal with the kids the day afer so long as he deals with them the day after your hen do??

I cant see anything in that email that looks like blackmail - yeah he said he wouldn't touch another woman, but its not blackmail is it? In replying the way you did you are only confirming his mates thoughts that he needs your permission to go out and it looks like he's under the thumb - he'll get ripped to bits for that.

Maybe its just me being far too laid back but something like that wouldn't bother me in the slightest - i really dont get why women kick off about their blokes stag do's. At the end of the day they are coming home to us and if you trust them completely let them have a good time. And all this "its not my H2B i dont trust its his mates" is rubbish. Your H2B's are grown men and capable of saying "No" or walking away from something they don't feel comfortable with. I really beleive that as much as its denied, it is a doubt in the mind of the bride 2 be about her H2B and whether she FULLY trusts him.

Let the lad go out and enjoy his stag do, and try not to look for things that aren't there.

It will be fine.

Honestly Steffi, it will be fine, and the day after you will wonder what you were bothered about, Im sure Ringo will do the right thing x

Consider it wobbled lol! x