I'm getting married on 21/7/13 and have been engaged for three months. Already I have become completely obssesed with my wedding and think about it all the time, either daydreaming or worrying about the details. I don't think there has been a day since H2b popped the question that I haven't thought about the wedding, I think about it before I go to sleep every night, dream about it and then wake up thinking about it. My question is, is this normal?? Is it happening to anyone else? and will I settle down eventually or am I just getting way too obssesed with it?
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CommentAuthorKellyN29
i am exactly the same... love the planning... and love UKBride
CommentAuthorlizzylou
I think it's totally normal and you're right - you will settle down in a little while. It's just a mix of excitement and anxiety which means thinking about it so much in the day spills over into your dreams. I was the same when I was first starting to plan i t- i felt like my brain had been completely taken over with some kind of wedding disease! It dies down eventually, particular once you've got a few things booked and you feel like you can relax. xx
Lizzy. x
CommentAuthorInDreamland
I was exactly like this in January and the following 6 months hun but I have (surprisingly) settled down a little with it as most of the big things are booked/arranged now and I've been taking it a little easier, although I have had a lot of other things work and new house related that have occupied a lot of my time and mind.
Enjoy the excitement! It's great! xx
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
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CommentAuthormillz090
I was the same honey, it was all I thought about and all I talked about it. I had settled down now as once see money going out it brings me down to earth xxx
Finally marrying the love of my life !!
10th August 2013 - 9 years to the day we met !
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
Hey Hun check out the 2013 wedding thread, there are plenty of other obsessed brides on there :-)
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
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CommentAuthorElliekitty
Like said above! Join us on the 2013 thread! :)
I don't think you are, getting married is one of the biggest events in your lifetime personally and it's something to be excited to plan about. My family keep saying "what will you have to talk about after the wedding"! xx
---Winter 2013 Bride ---
CommentAuthormillz090
I think the same Ellie, what will i do after the wedding? Xxx
Finally marrying the love of my life !!
10th August 2013 - 9 years to the day we met !
CommentAuthorPenguinJ
I think everyone is the same in the early stages as there is so much to look at and plan. i think it will calm down when there is not much to do. ive calmed down a bit till after xmas and we can start to book things :) xxx
So lucky to be marrying my soulmate on 18/07/20
CommentAuthorShazk
I was the same when 1st got enganged everything was wedding ut it has calmed down a lot but i imagine it will return xx
Away with the flutterbys xxx
CommentAuthorNevlar
i was the same then i got paranoid that i was talking about it too much!! but then i thought what the hell!!! it onlys happens once right!! x
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think I will be once I get close to 2014 I'm not so much yet x
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
CommentAuthorJennyHeather
I'm exactly the same now we've paid deposits on stuff, all I think about is the wedding and imagine different scenarios of what might happen lol
CommentAuthorShirleygirly
I got engaged on 26/08/2011 and was mega obsessed, booked all the urgent things, planned every detail of my day, fantasised about saying my vows, got tears at the "you may now kiss the bride" bit and then.... 26/08/12 hit and I'd bored myself with it all. I'm slowly getting my mojo back especially as my h2b bought me my jimmy Choo's for the day last weekend. It's lovely to be excited and although I worried that I was boring everyone, most people found it contagious. Make the most of it Hun and you don't have long til the big day. x
I can't wait until 29/06/2013
The day I marry the man of my dreams!
CommentAuthorPoppy x
You are most definitely not alone!! I have so much in my head already, and I can't actually DO anything for a long time yet, it's driving me nuts! lol
