Hi all, I know its very early days but we have just found out im pregnant! We already have our little boy he's almost 18months. Im a bit worried as he was delivered 8weeks early due to me having pre-eclampsia, bit scared the same happens again! Im determined to have a much better pregnancy this time as it was a very stressful time and im a terrible worrier! Plus i keep worrying about what my family are going to say when we tell them as they will probably say we are bonkers to get pregnant before the wedding due to the expense and with how poorly we both were last time i said i wouldnt do it again! Sorry for sounding silly, just needed to get it out xxx
CommentAuthorJules
Congratulations hun, i'm sure you'll be fine & we're going thru IVF before we get married so I don't think yr bonkers at all, hope everything goes well xxx
I'm marrying the man of my dreams xx
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
ohh thanks hun and i hope it all goes well for you too xxx
CommentAuthorClareS
First of all huge congratulations on your happy news :D so pleased for you. Secondly don't worry about what anyone else thinks, as long as you, h2b, little one and bump are all ok that's the main thing. With having previous problems you know that health care professionals be it doctors/midwifes will keep a close eye on you and you''ll be more aware of and changes in your body so things can be dealt with if they arise. Try not to worry and enjoy x
CommentAuthorClareS
that should be 'any changes' silly predictive text grrrr x
congratulations on ur wonderful news. My sister went through pre-eclampsia with my first niece, but didn't have it with my second niece. Every pregnancy is different so don't assume anything will be the same. Hope it all goes well 4 u! x
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CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
thank you ladies, feeling better already lol i think i just needed to get everything out as i havent told my parents yet, don't know why im so nervous in telling them-forget im almost 27!! haha xxx
CommentAuthorClareS
aww tell people when you're ready x
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
thanks hunny xxx
CommentAuthorClareS
I'm a soppy old mare I know but I just love it when people find out they're pregnant. I had such an amazing experience when I was pregnant and I really missed it after my little boy was born so I always feel really happy knowing that other people are going through same experience :) x
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
well last time my ex left me when i was 15weeks for someone else it was really hard time but then me and john got together pretty quickly we were already best mates, he helped through everything, and was in the hosp every day with me for 2months lil one was in for! he is a gem! x
CommentAuthorMrsH2B
Omg we were talking about this the other day lol do weird. Congratulations 2 u both, lil man will be do happy he's going to be a big bro! x
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CommentAuthorAurora
congratulations!!!!
excited alternative bride trying to do things our way!
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
Thanks Aurora. MrsH2B- i know how bizarre! We planted the seed with johns daughters on the weekend, to find out how they would feel-they said they would love a little sister-then we got onto the subject of twins!!! Subject was well and truly changed but mil reminded she is a twin so could be a possibility lol xxx
CommentAuthorAntonia9
congratulations xx im sure everything will fine x
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CommentAuthorfairy-cakes
congratulations!! we were trying for a baby originally then out the blue he asked me marry him and then since then we stopped trying. were guna start trying as soon as after the wedding :0) but would of loved to have had our 1st little one (if we were lucky enough) before.... just think of all the lovely family pictures you can have with the 4 (maybe 5 lol) of you. your family and friends will be chuffed for you even if they dont act it at first..... eeeee how exciting xx
CommentAuthorSweetchilli
Congratulations x
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
Thanks for all your comments ladies, feeling much happier now-decided to not let it stress me lol xxxx