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    • TotallyLovedUp
      CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
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    i went for an emegency scan today as i have been bleeding and having cramps. i have to go back in a week to make sure but they are pretty sure i am miscarrying. i feel....i dont even know how to say how im feeling. devestated doesnt quite cover it.
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    • sparkle
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    ah love i hope its not big hug for you xx

    omg it now says 2 months to go xx


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    • skitty666
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    i hope its not hun sending big hugs and lots of love xxxxx
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    • MrsSaraParry!
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    aww, dont really know what to say other than I have my fingers crossed for you that everything will be ok xxxxxxxx
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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    thanks. i really hope its not the worst but doesnt look good. going to throw myself into wedding planning to distract myself. been MIA for a while so need to get back on track :)
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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    aww lea im sending you massive hugs your way!!! im actualyl disguted that they are making you wait a week before you get a scan!! xx

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    • ClareS
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    Lots of big hugs and keeping everything crossed for you xx
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    • Rachie :D
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    Nithing much I can say apart from thinking of you and sending so much love xxx

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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    i had a scan last night and this afternoon becca. they saw an empty sack, no baby, no heartbeat. the sack looks like its collapsing, so to make sure for certain theres nothing there, they need to wait a week. i hate waiting in limbo. the cramps i am getting are telling me its defo over but dont want to believe it until they tell me so for definate x
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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    sweetheart im so sorry to hear this, sending so much love and hugs your way i know how ur feeling its so scary, lean on ur h2b right now and just be there 4 each other. x x x

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
      CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
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    awww hun

    (((((((huge hugs)))))))

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    • CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
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    so sorry 2 hear this huns sending huge hugs xxx
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    • MrsL2Be
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    Sorry to hear that hun. Hugs xx
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    • Lisa Ramos
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    I'm so sorry and I agree with Becca, that it's disgraceful that you have to wait! Sending you hugs xxx

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    • Mrsd
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    sorry to hear that hun, huge hugs to you both. x
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    • stressed to max b2b
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    sending u hugs honey sorry on your sad news :-( x

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    • Liz3yy
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    so sorry for you x

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    • Princess Sarahbelle
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    big cuddle for you hun

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    • mrs_houghton_2012
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    Thinking of you xx

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    • lil miss sunshine
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    ooooh noooo soooo soooory to hear this but keeping everthing cross for ya hope it is not bad news

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    • Julie Walker x
      CommentAuthorJulie Walker x
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    Oh so sorry hunny, there isnt really anything anyone can say but in the hospitals defence the reason why you have to wait the week is because they need to monitor your hcg levels, the scan isn't the be all and end all, mistakes have been made in the past with other pregnant ladies where the sac has appeared empty but after going back a week later for a further scan the sac wasn't empty and a heartbeat was seen. The lady in question wanted to sue the hospital because of the emotional strain she was put under for that week. I wouldn't want to imagine how she would have felt if it were found the baby was actually still there after it was too late.
    Sending you lots of hugs hun xxxxx

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    • Clarabella
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    Im so sorry hun. I cant imagine what your going through. Im sending all my best wishes and hugs and kisses to you and i'll have everything crossed for you and hope everything is alright XxX

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    • madison_uk
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    I'm so sorry for you i know how your feeling had the same but sending positive thoughts and keeping everything crossed for you x




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    • Enny
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    oh my god hun thats horrible I know how ur feeling right now, as I went through it 1,5years back :( big hugs... I really hope for u that its all going well and that u dont have to go through that!!!! its the worst what can happen!!!! sending u lots of hugs and cuddles try to be strong and think positive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are here for u if u need us!!! ***fingers crossed*** !!!!! xxxxxxxxx
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    • MrsH2B
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    So sorry Hun! Fingers crossed everything turns out to be ok. X

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    • MrsMelodyWalker
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    Hey sweetheart, I'm keeping my finger's crossed for you and sending you lot's of love. I hope everything will be OK and when you go back next week they find a little babba there.
    I found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago and at the early pregnancy clinic I had a scan only to find there was no baby, just a sack. They called it a "blighted ovum" It's really hard to deal with so god forbid the hospital is right, you know where to come if you need to talk. But I'm keeping everything crossed for you hun, I really hope it's good news.
    Stay positive, rest load's and keep a smile on your face.
    I'll be thinking of you x x x x x

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    • CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
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    aww hun im so sorry! we are all praying for you and your little one to get through this! really hope youll be ok

    sending big cyber snuggles ur way x x
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    so sorry hun!!! my sister had a miscarriage and was pregnant again wiv my nephew very quickly x

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    • Future Mrs Doublé
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    I am so sorry for you hun, I know how it feels, hope you'll get better soon take care of yourself, xxx

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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    thank you. i have started bleeding heavier with clots (soz tmi) and am having strong painful cramps. i will give the hospital a ring monday to see if they still want to see me but don't really see any point in another scan now. thanks for you support and kind words x
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    • CowChop
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    I'm so sorry hun, thats awful! Make sure h2b gives you lots of love and cuddles. x

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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    I HOPE THIS BRINGS YOU SOME COMFORT SWEETHEART,MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND IM ALWAYS HERE IF YOU NEED TO TALK.

    .......................................................A mothers question for god........................................................

    I thought of you and closed my eyes, and prayed to God today; I asked what makes a mother and I know I heard him say....

    God: A mother has a baby, this we know is true.

    Me: But God, can you be a mother, when your baby's not with you?

    God: Yes you can.

    (He replied with confidence in his voice)

    God: I give many women babies - when they leave is not their choice. Some I send for a lifetime, and others for a day, And some I send to feel your womb but there's no need to stay.

    Me: I just don't understand this, God. I want my baby here.

    (He took a breath and cleared his throat, and then, I saw a tear.)

    God:I wish I could show you what your child is doing today. If you could see your child smile with other children and say,

    "We go to earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear. My mummy loved me oh so much, I got to come straight here... I feel so lucky to have a mum, who had so much love for me; I learned my lessons very quickly - my mummy set me free. I miss my mummy oh so much, but I visit her each day. When she goes to sleep, on her pillow is where I lay. I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek, and whisper in her ear, 'Mummy, don't be sad today, I'm your baby and I'm here.'"

    God: So, you see, my dear sweet one, your child is okay - your baby is here in my home and this is where she'll stay. She'll wait for you with me, until your lesson is through - And on that day that you come home, she'll be at the gates for you.

    So, now you see what makes a mother; it's the feeling in your heart. It's the love you had so much of, right from the very start.

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    • Clarabella
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    That was really nice mummy&mrsp2b it just made me cry

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    • MrsPink
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    Aww brings a tear too my eyes reading that poem mummy&mrsp2b.

    Big hugs Leanne love you lots and you know im always here for you. <3 xxxx
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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    thankyou. that was beautiful
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    • CommentAuthortweedwedding
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    I'm so sorry for you hun, I can't imagine what you're going through...you're in my thoughts xx
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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    thank you huni. just having you all here to talk to is helping me loads x
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    • Enny
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    omg mummy&mrsp2b that was very nice u wrote it actually made me cry...

    totallylovedup hun i know wat u going through and if u need to talk i'm there!!! try to be strong!! ***lots of hugs and cuddles **** u need them now more than ever hope h2b is there for u!!!!!!!!!! xxxxx sending lots of love xxxx
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    • Clairebear67
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    Totally loved up - Im sorry to hear this, my thoughts and wishes are with you now keeping everything crossed for you. : )
    Mummy&mrsp2b - Aw that is beautiful - made me cry too.




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    • Emsy5000
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    I am thinking of you totallylovedup

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    • CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
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    I am so sorry to hear your news... I hope u will be ok and i agree with the girls lean on ur h2b as its both of you going thru this.. we miscarried inbetween our boys and my h2b was such an amazing help, we decided wen we were both ok then we wud try again. you can get thru this and we are all here when u need us.. :)
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    • hammy2
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    x x x x x x x x x x x x sorry to hear your news dont give up x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
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    • melvis
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    were all here and thinking of you and your h2b... best wishes and love to both of you at this sad time xxxxxxx

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    • CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
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    thinking of u hun hope all is well xxxxxxxxxx
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    • CommentAuthorloubyscooby
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    My thoughts and prayers are with you xx

    mummy&mrsp2b - I think that that will resonate with every Mum who has lost a child and was perfect. It has given me hope that one day I will be reunited with my little ones......
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    • Elski
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    I too shall be praying for you, I can only imagine what you are going through. x
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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    i believe it completely!!!

    just to update you ladies totally has unfortuntely had to go to hospital as she was in a lot of pain. x x x thoughts are with her!!! x x x

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    • MrsH2B
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    Awww that made me cry. Will meet my angels when the time is right.
    Hope she is ok n thoughts r with her! X

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    .hey huni,im so sorry and really hope everything is ok.no words can take away your pain,i went thru something very simular in feb and its devastating.as hard as it is try stay strong and except all the support u can get.big hugs and thoughts.xxoh mummyandmrsp2be that had me in tears,so lovelyxx

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