Firstly may I say this is a non-related family rant! lol.

Me and my mum have never had a good relationship. It got worse after my Step-dad died (he bought me up). She has since been diagnosed with Bi-polar disorder. But that didn't stop the problems. Well in October, we sat and talked. we have been sorting out a proper relationship. It still in the stages of seeing just me. Give a few months and she'll get to see h2b and my daughter.
My baby sister had moved to Egypt, but is back till June whilst her boyfriend finishes Uni. Well, lets just say that no one wants her back in this country. She is a money-grabbing **** and only cares about getting her own way. I used to get abuse from her over the book of face about not seeing my mum, which resulted in her being blocked after she called NSPCC with some horrible allegations against me, then admitted it on FB.
In December, mum went to visit her in Egypt and was conned by my sister and her boyfriend's family for as much as they could get. Now my sister is back, she refuses to get a proper job and pay her own way in my mum's house. Bearing in mind my mum has a lot of other health problems which result in her being on DLA.
She is acting like a brat now that I have managed to convince my mum that she can say no. My sister had everything handed to her on a silver platter growing up, and I literally mean everything. The girl got pink champagne for her 15th birthday!!! Well now mum is starting to say no, well my sis don't like it and is causing massive rows with my mum.
So 2nite, I headed over cos another one had kicked off after my sister again asked for money out of my mum. My sister interrupted my conversation with my mum, which I then said to my mum: "I have 2 sisters that won'e let me finish my god damn f*ing sentence"
Next thing I know my sister starts throwing the pasta she meant to be placing into a pan, at the pan. She is that childish the pasta had to suffer as well, lol. Then she storms off upstairs. But half way up screams: "You can talk about me now that I'm f***ing upstairs". Mum had to stop me. She has arthritis and I suffer with Fibromyalgia and I still wanted to knock my sisters teeth down her throat!
I ended up taking mum for a walk to the shop to get some nibbles for herself to find out a few things. My sister is using the emotional blackmail card on mum now and I'm not having it. Only problem is, I promised my mum I wouldn't cause a row with my sister. But there is only so much s**t I can take from someone. My sister is picking on a woman with a mental health condition that can be temperamental at times as it is.
I have told mum not to let it get to her, and to keep standing her ground. but she is now counting the days till my sister goes back to Egypt. She has said my sister won't be allowed to move back home after that as she can't take any more of this from her.
I wanna kill her, but as I can't felt I could vent on here. Feel much better now, although my hands and wrists hurt right now cos I typed too much lol xx

Oh Hun feel for you right now sending you big hugs xx my family all messed up if it any help i not got clue bout my past all that matter to me is future family my h2b an 2 gorgeous daughters as long as i got them that my world complete
hope you can sort things out xx

Tbh I would kick her out of the house NOW not wait until she's due to leave, she's causing undue/untold stress and upset far beyond what's fair. Get her out and get on with your lives.

Kimi, I have said to mum that it would be best if my sister went to stay with a friend till she goes back. I think she just a bit scared of the confrontation with my sister. I don't want her getting ill again. It seems that everything my mum does, my sister throws a hissy if she don't like it.
I will try suggesting it to her, but I think my mum will be made out as the bad guy if she does it and she probably don't want that again.
II used to be so close to my sister before she decided to call NSPCC for no reason. I can't forgive her and she knows this. I hate the girl she has turned out to be.