my sis in law 2 b is really doing my headin we hardly speak as we dont get on,but all of a sudden has completly fallen out with us for some unknown reason? anyway my mil told her we were getting married and now to pee me off has decided to book day before my wedding for her wedding im fuming!!! i wont be going as will have too much to do but,how the hell do i show its not bothering me? sorry for rant!! xx

just waiting for save the dates to come in post,i wont be able to speak to her as shes too selfish to take me and h2b into consideration! my bloods boiling!! xx

What a pathetic jealous madam! shessh that was hard not to swear lol, surely your mil2b will have ago at her for being stupid? as im pretty sure she wont be happy at having 2 weddings one day after the other, someone HAS to tell her straight she has to change her date. xx

Did you ask her to be bm? sily Question i know but if not that could be reason shes being stroppy with you. How old is she?. xx

just had a thought. get your h2b to phone her and say how happy he is for her and you are excited that your weddings are close by so you can help each other plan! she will not be expecting that at all as she is jealous and will prob change the date straight away! xx

Did she know your date? wow that is mean and pretty pathetic if she did! Why would you want to do that and risk people not coming etc. Has mil2b not pointed out how ridiculous it is? We are going to h2b cousins wedding in July and we were planning for September. Now another cousin of his is getting married in September and h2b wants to do it in August but I feel it would be like we are just 'fitting' the wedding in and everyone will be thinking oh not another one! I would definately get your save the date out asap!

Well they are the ones showing themselves up! I am just in shock...cant believe mil2b has not intervened and told her how stupid she is being though

i think mil2b will end up butting in she also said ive been in there family alot longer than sil2b and will end up saying something x

glad your mil2b is on your side!! xx

see i certainly wont go to hers and i dont want her at mine i know that sounds harsh but i cant cope with the stress coz she will ruin my day x

well done on doing that! show her you are trying and you arent bothered and she will soon change her wedding day! xx

jealous for sure - what a bi**t

i dont get why people do this - well i do jealousy obvs but come on she's 33 not 16!!
well done for congratulating her tho hun x

thanks girls! xx

oh my god!! no offence ur emil2b shud of said sumthings straight away!!!! tell them they cant hav that date! how nasty of ure bil to do that to his own brother!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

God what a bitch!! From a 33yr old too, id expect that behaviour from a teenager!! Try not to let it bother you, like the other girls have said, her wedding will be a rush job and if you get your save the date cards out you can steal all the guests!! Fight fire with fire!!Lol x

ive realised i dont really have any guests that will be going to hers as all h2bs family has split apart ive got all best ones coming to mine,ive cut them off our guest list as she will try spoil our day xx

got my save the dates today getting them sent out today !! xx

thats great news!! xx

Totally agree with Totallylovedup!!! What a B****!

Lol.what a terrible excuse for a human being. As you are already doing anyway, just rise above it and focus on your wedding. She'll get her comeuppance and won't have a good time if she continues being spiteful and ruining your day xx

well just found out there changing date now to july this year so alls good!!

bet its because u congratulated them so she'l b thinkin that it hasnt bothered u! Haha well done!! it jus shows that she defo did book that date jus to try spite u!!

Sounds like my sister in law.. H2b and I wernt planning on getting married this year but h2b changed his mind in september last year.. I have been with him for 3 years nearly and in this time the sister in law has managed to book her wedding FIVE times all cancelled... Well we decided to book our wedding I had spoken to her and she said she wasnt getting married this year because they couldnt afford it, So we went ahead and booked it. The next thing I new she had booked her wedding for this year to which was fine i wasnt bothered ( I knew it would get cancelled ) which it was... Me and h2b got into the planning of ours and sister in law to be and mother in law to be both said they will believe it when they see it.. While trying wedding dresses on I took my mil2b and she was more bother about picking a dress for sil2b than me which really upset me. They havent been bothered the whole time ive been planning my wedding. Now at 7 weeks to go they really are and are wanting to get involved so much!! Sil2b is so jealous of me and h2b and shes admitted it a number of times to me.
Sorry for the rant!!