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    • millz090
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    Bridesmaid dresses are doing my head in.... i want Red (pillar box red) and ideally knee but could be full length. My bridesmaid are all sizes 8-10 so slim ladies. I have a budget of £80 per dress so getting proper bridesmaid dresses are out the question really and i don't want a china dress.... any suggestions? Anyone used dressmakers and how much?

    My other dilemma is that my 2 junior bridesmaid will be 9 and 11 and would also like to wear red - i originally hoped they wanted white but apparently this is babyish and for flower girls and they both adamant they are bridesmaids lol. If i get them both red dresses will it matter if slightly different fabric or shade of red to my adult bridesmaid dresses? If i had the money i would have all 5 made in the same fabric and the juniors edited slightly.

    Please help ladies as starting to lose sleep now !!

    Thanks xxx

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    • Lulu1388
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    I know this may sound bizarre but have you tried bay of e?? have put a link on your wall... just been sitting on google for you!! dont know if exactly right red but its a start. i know someone on here found beautiful bm dresses on the rainforest one! ill keep looking :) xx

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    • susan1990
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    yes like lulu said the bay, i got my flowergirl dresses on there but they are from an american shop only cost £30 each! and they are gorgeous mine are ivory but they do have them in all diffrent colours and sizes and im sure you will be able to find some bridesmaid dresses aswel. but remember its your wedding you decide what they were! i jusy baught my flowergirl dresses before showing any of them and they dont have a chioce but to wear them lol. my eldest flowetgirl is 9 and she cant wait to be a princess for the day :) other than that maybe try deb enhams or b.h.s. l in a box have some nice ones in your budget but there under colour ruby i think you could class it as pillar box red tho some of them x
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    • millz090
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    Thanks Ladies.... it may end up being bay of e but i really wanted to physically see them first. I tried L in the box before and like the dresses but again im anxious buying abroad xxx

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    • MrsWright290912
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    Hi Millz, try the website named after a jungle! I got 2 lovely bm's dresses (no proper ones) for £10 and they do it in red - (piccy in my album) hth x

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    • Lulu1388
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    haha i've already quoted you NinaP!! except i mentioned the rainforest not the jungle...ahh well!!

    Have to say though the BM dress you got is absolutely stunning!! and if they do it in Red for millz090 even better!! I know its nicer to see them in person first, you could always find a similar one or a stockist (my FSIL found a pair of Benjam Adams shoes online for £25, in the shops still £180) so could always 'try' before you buy?! x

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    • millz090
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    they are nice dresses Nina.... i will have a look. To be honest i never even thought of that website as always think of them and books?! At least using that website i can send them back if the quality is bad or something whereas alot harded with bay of e if they are coming from china. Thanks girls xxx

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    • Lulu1388
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    Good luck hun, keep us posted :) x

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    • Sam
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    High street! They're all small so you'll have a lot of choice. The colour you describe is very holiday, as soon as the winter lines come out I'm sure you'll have a lot of choice.
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    • millz090
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    Its not a summer colour as always pastels and pinks whereas Red is a winter colour so im hoping something appears in the shops too xxx

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    • MrsWright290912
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    Millz, mine were dispatched today so as soon as they arrive, I'll let yknow about quality of them etc x

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    • Sam
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    I've always wondered about dresses on that site as well, I can't wait to hear what they're like
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    • TeganandRob
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    I would imagine coming up to Xmas party season there will be loads of red dresses in the high street shops. Good luck!
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    • Goldiepostie
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    lulu88 - i actually looked at the links you put on millz wall for the dresses on the bay, and i loved the 2nd one!! I've actually ordered one to see what it's like, and if it's lovely, i'll be ordering 2 more then i'm done! So just wanted to say thanks!!

    Never thought to look on the bay of e!

    xx
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    • xbeckix88
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    Highstreet? I found some really nice maxi dresses for my bms .
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    • millz090
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    Goldie - she is a good egg sending me all those links and lovely dresses. Let me know what the dresses are like please and the quality. Im half tempted to do the same, order one for me as nice dresses and then if i like them i can order more for my bridesmaids .
    Beckix - were the dresses in Red? I will have a look but struggling to find bright red. xxx

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    • Goldiepostie
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    Millz, no problem, i will let you know when it arrives what it's like!!

    xx
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    • millz090
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    thanks chick. You going for the strapless one with the coloured band round the middle? xxx

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    • xbeckix88
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    Millz090 - no they were royal blue with silver.
    I have found red chiffon maxi dresses with silver beading across front? I have posted 2 links on your wall x
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    • millz090
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    Thanks chick xxx

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    • Linzi-jo
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    Have you thought about maybe looking at white dresses and then dying them red if you cant find any in the postbox red that you want? xxx

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    • Goldiepostie
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    Millz - yeah i've gone for that one. You can get the sash in different colours. I'm going for a navy dress with ivory sash!!

    xx
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    • millz090
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    Linzi-Jo - amazing idea, thanks honey. My bridesmaid also works in costume design so she would be good at knowing fabrics that can dye, etc.

    I have found these dresses and amazing only £30 so ordered one to look at the quality and see what i think and if any good then can order another 2. I love the lace as really feminie and pretty.... thoughts?? xxx
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    • MrsWright290912
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    Theyre really pretty! I would like one of them myself for hmoon!

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    • millz090
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    Its called a RED ALEXIA DRESS and loads of colours available so have a look..... I found it on a website then googled and found its £10 cheaper on jungle website so ordered it from there. If you want the website link then let me know chick xxx

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    • Lulu1388
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    Goldie - thats no problem, i try my best :) haha
    let me know how all goes! x

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    • Goldiepostie
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    Hi millz, so the dress from the bay of e arrived yesterday and i absolutely LOVE it! Great quality! Just got to get one of the girls to try it on, fingers crossed the fit is good and they like too, then order 2 more, jobs a gooden!!!

    Love that dress you've found, very pretty!

    x
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    • millz090
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    Ah good feedback Goldie, thanks chick.... can you put some pictures on? Im glad the quality is good as that is what i was worried about. I am going to see what the lace dress looks like first but definitely like the strapless now if it is good quality.

    thanks again chick xxx

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    • Goldiepostie
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    millz, i've just uploaded a pic to my Album for you! It's sideways which is annoying, but hopefully you get the gist!

    xx
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    • millz090
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    Ooo it is lovely babe, see what the fittings like as my BM ordered a dress from China and the sizing was so wrong, cost £40 to have it altered and doubled the cost of the dress. Fingers crossed yours will be fine xx

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    • Tatty
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    Nina could you link me to your BM's dresses please?

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    • millz090
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    They are on my wall honey xxx

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    • Tatty
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    Thankss :)

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    • Goldiepostie
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    yeah they look good sizing - these aren't from China - from a Company in Devon!! We'll see on Monday for the first try on - then the 2nd is trying on on Wednesday!!

    So exciting!

    xx
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    • millz090
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    Exciting, keep me posted thanks xx

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    • Goldiepostie
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    hi millz, right sister tried on the dress last night! It looks lovely, but be warned they come up smaller than high street sizes. My sister is a 12 on the highstreet, but i think she'll need at least a 14, if not a 16. I think my maid of honor who is normally a 8-10 high street will fit nicely in to the 12 i've got.

    But dress really nice - lovely fabric and great quality! Would recommend.

    Am going to be ordering bigger sizes.

    xx
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    • millz090
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    Ah thanks chick, yeah my feedback from ther people o china dresses is the sizing is well off so good to know.

    My lace red dress arrived today and it's lovely so bridesmaid coming round tonight to tr it on, very excited! Xxx

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    • CamillaB
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    just left a msg on ur wall about this topic
 

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