I'm not making him leave - I'm staying at the hotel instead and he's staying at home. I will see him the day before as he's only working 9-12 but not the night before/morning of :o)

im sending him to his mums, he is a nightmare to get up and i have to set the venue up.

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il b kickin him out n hes stayin at his mam n dads hes on bout going for a drink anyway .i think its up 2 u alot of people dont stick to traditions nowerdays x

I am spending the night before at the venue with my 7yr old daughter and moh.It wouldn't of bothered me for us to be together the night before but it does make sense not to be fighting fot the bathroom etc and i do want to make an entrance! x

My h2b is staying at mine but because I love in a horrible high rise flat I refuse to get ready there and leave in my dress. So I'm staying at my mums instead.

Both me and my H2B are staying at our venue the night before with all our family. Ill be in the bridal suite and hes kipping in with his best man so we wont see each other but breakfast in the morning will be a mission to avoid each other all morning! x

We're spending the night apart, but we're not sure who is staying where yet lol, we're getting married in the town centre, so need to decide whether it would be cheaper for us to hotel it or get cars down the morning/afternoon whenever. I suggested booting him out for a fortnight, and not seeing each other like on DTTB, he didn't like that idea one bit, he informed me he has needs and there's no way he could 'go that long' Nice to know where his priorities are hahaha, but yeah, we're definately having at least the night before apart, I think I wanna spend it with my MOH anyway... will just have to try to avoid getting the wine out

We're spending the night apart. He's staying at his mums house with his mum and dad and best man which is a bonus as they live a few doors away from the church lol x

We will probably spend the night apart however unsure of houses etc, will worry about that nearer the time. I'll probably end up in my mums though and he will either stay at our house or in his brothers.

I'm staying at my mum's the night before because she knows how to keep me calm and has 2 bathrooms and is only 5 mins from the church lol H2B is staying at home with our eldest son for some male bonding time and then dropping him and moh to my mum's in the morning of the wedding. My H2B is one for traditions and wanted us to be apart the night before but I think its more for the build up to it and we'll be texting each other right til we fall asleep anyway hehe x

we r seeing eachother as we r away inhotel in turkey (although thinking bout it we could get seperate rooms 4 that nite) lol prob wont tho, i think that tradition is a bit dated. Times and people change, etc. Helenw, ur venue sounds great!!! x x

I dont think we've actually spoke about this. I dont think it'll make much difference to us, as long as i leave him looking like a complete mess and seeing him later looking decent then i'm happy haha!

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We got married 130 miles from home so stayed in a hotel the night before, but had separate rooms. We went out with some of the guests for a meal and drinks first - and eventually got back to the hotel in the early hours. I didn't 'make him' have a different room because he's a grown man and my equal, not a child!!

On the day of the wedding it was better that he wasn't in the same room - as I had an easier time getting last minute things done and not bumping into him - and he moved into his brother's room to get ready, as he was best man.

We had a traditional wedding so it was good to stick to traditions like this, and not see each other before the wedding.
Evearella - don't know where you got the idea that this tradition was only used in arranged marriages. It's definitely a very old tradition for English marriages lol.

What we wanted to do was for me to stay at the venue, with my girls and the MOH,but no way are we all going to fit in there so decided to ensure we have it for getting ready we would book it as single occupancy, and we are staying at home and having a girly night, doing nails etc and then H2B can make use of the hotel room.

I'm spending the night before at home as I want to leave from my mam & dads house in the traditional wedding car. My OH is coming home after work to collect our son and his belongings to stay at the hotel the night before. However, when I mentioned last night about seeing him after work that night before he goes to the hotel, he had a full on fit & told me that I better be elsewhere as he couldn't see me that day before!! Haha!! I'm being evicted whilst he collects his stuff!x

Mine is staying at the hotel we're getting married in and i'm staying at my parents - as we are marrying a long way from our house. xx

Me and my fiance spend almost every minute of the day together, and i know i'm going to be a wreck the night before, but i'd be even worse without him beside me!
We're breaking traditions and staying together the night before, then i will be leaving early to get ready at my mams house, and he will be leaving from our flat.
Both sets of parents are trying to persuade us to stay with them instead, but we're adamant on staying together! x

We are going with tradition. We wont be spending the night before together. I am going to stay with my mum and bm's, my oh is actually staying at the venue with his best men. xx

I'll be staying at the hotel and he will stay home with little man. it is our best solution: little man can sleep in his room like usual, easier for H2B's family to turn up at ours in the morning, and I will have plenty of free time to be gorgeous for our big day :-) Either way, you need to decide what is best fro everyone with a minimum compromises...

i would love to stay at my dads the night before but really dont like idea of traveling for over an hour and where we live there are lots of tractors so that would stress me out having to leave way to early!!

I will be making him leave ut we are both planning to stay at venue night before but at different ends etc I think it adds to the excitment x