Hi all, I ordered a Garter today, as after talking with my mum, she said it was traditional to wear one on the big day. What i'm wondering is, how many of you guys are wearing one on the day ? and do any of you know what the tradition is ? I'm not sure whether I want to wear one or not. The one i've ordered is beautiful, really pretty, but don't know if i'll be comfy wearing it.
Help please !!
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Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
It's something to do with the bride and groom's clothes being lucky or something, and they used to get torn so they throw things? It's on a thread here somewhere?
I'm not keen on having one, I think it'd drive me up the bloody wall... but I dunno yet. Never tried one!
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CommentAuthor~ஜ~Tiggs Daltry~ஜ~
i wore one,i had it made especially for me,was black with pink ribbon and a bouncing tigger,think theres a picture of it in my album,cant remember what its meant to mean though
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
I already have mine, as in my country we have a game with it, where people (men and women) bid to get the garter and the winner gets to take it off (traditionally with his teeth)
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorBarbieBride
I bought a really gorgeous one, and I shall look forward to wearing it on the big day :D xx
One of my BM's has bought mine from my H2B's football club as a surprise xx
CommentAuthorspooney24
I wore one and had it made with an embroidered picture of my hubbys treasured motorbike on it. Although I was worried it would fall down as I was walking down the aisle as I was wearing tartan stockings so I ended up slipping it on after the ceremony. xx
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CommentAuthorTinkerbell
Thanks for answering ! I just don't know what to do, i'm stressing over everything lately, and it driving h2b up the wall lol !
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Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorMary Mary
Im wearing the one my mum wore when she married my dad 33 years ago (they are still together so hopefully it will bring me some good luck). It is going to be my old, borrowed and blue
CommentAuthorJilly17
Worn to hold up a bride's stockings, wedding garters have a long and romantic history. Tossing the garter at the groom's nose in the wedding couple's bedroom after the ceremony was a common activity of the bridal party in the Dark Ages. Whichever bridesmaid successfully landed the garter on his nose, would be deemed the next to marry.
Greed took over the tradition and it was common for guests to stampede toward the bride at the alter to get the garter. Throwing the garter to the mob saved the bride from being trampled. The guest who received the garter would then wear it on his hat until he gave it to a woman for luck.
The garter can also be used for the old, new borrowed blue too!
CommentAuthorTinkerbell
That's nice Mary Mary, I like that tradition, something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, (dunno what that means either lol ! I'm rubbish with traditions :-(
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Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
wrote a post on wedding traditions and their meanings (I will WARN you its a very long post but covers everything) xx
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CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
Ive got one but only coz my mum told me i had to have one! haha! x
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CommentAuthorFruity_pops
am having one .... its blue with white lace around it being my something blue
Ataraxia right it was tradition that after the ceremony that all the female guest ripped aprt her dress and took apart for them self has luck for them to fine marriage but had dresses became more expensive and more meaning full people started to replace this with flowers to throw and some throw thier garters
its is also used as part of ur something old, new, borrow and blue now and for something for the husband to take off when marriaged (seen as more of a treat for him) lol
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CommentAuthorNishaVyas88
I'm wearing a garter. It's one of the few traditions I like, probably because I don't know the full story of its origins, lol. I have a gorgeous one from Figleaves... then I saw a truly lovely one in Past Times, but I didn't want to go through the whole palava of selling my original garter, which I still love, so I kept it and decided to forget about getting a new one.
I'm using my garter as my something blue.
CommentAuthorKat
I bought my garter from the h2bs football club and it also happens to be blue. Thought it would be a nice surprise for him lol
CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
my H2b has said i have to wear one !! think he finds it kinky but they way he is going on at the moment might end up round his neck xx
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CommentAuthorUnknown
i am going to wear one. i have got a spurs one! h2b asked me to get one and i said no...then got it as a surprise! he said he may take it off with his teeth, depends how drunk he gets! xx
CommentAuthorKat
Mine is spurs too mrsbarkertobe!
CommentAuthorheidianne
i'm wearing one, its my something blue and has Heidi and David stitched on it
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CommentAuthorUnknown
take it your h2b is a big spurs fan too then kat!
CommentAuthorMrsOwen
my garter has got skull and crossbones on it and loads of sparkly bits as my h2b is mad on skulls xx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Definatley wearing mine as its my something blue with a silver horseshoe attached. xx
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CommentAuthorMel D
I asked h2b if he wanted me to wear one and he said yes, so I will be wearing one, but only because he wants me to ... no idea where they came from though xx
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CommentAuthorExcited_bride_to_be
I knew I'd forgotten something! :) Bay of E here I come! :)
CommentAuthorTinkerbell
Thanks ladies ! I've made my mind up now...................gonna wear one I think
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Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorMrsSaraParry!
I'm not wearing one, I think I'd be really uncomfortable as I have chunky thighs and it would get in the way! lol. Mum says I should wear one because its tradition but I'm really not bothered, I'm not doing it just because its the done thing xx
CommentAuthorKaya
My Nan told me she's bought me 1 to wear - bless her :-) x
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CommentAuthorCroc
im wearing one... its dead cute antique ivory lace.... no reason im wearing it other than it looks good on me leg....and i refuse to wear h2b tat football club on my leg ukkk couldnt do it to my self... id have to bathe in bleach after!!!
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorTinkerbell
lol ! How funny ! Well I say i'm gonna wear it, we shall see when it comes how much it irritates me as it's lace. H2B thinks it's sexy too, but then again, he thinks all under garments are sexy (except Bridget Jones pants) lol
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Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorLil' Cakes
I'm wearing one. I bought mine on Ebay for £2. Bargain :)
CommentAuthorTinkerbell
Excellent ! 2 quid is a fab deal.......mine was a fiver so not too bad, didn't look at ebay which is odd coz i'm obsessed with that site lol xxx
Love my Gorgeous George xxx
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
My stepmother bought me one when I got engaged - we don't really have much to do with each other normally so I'll wear it as it was a really sweet gesture
CommentAuthorMrs Steph Lapworth
Im wearing one cant wait to wear it cos its spurs not sure what h2b will think of it though xx
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CommentAuthorFreyFreyMrs.Carney2B
I'm not wearing one as my stockings have White lace on the top so would look weird!
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
I am wearing one but only coz i like the one i am getting
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CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
This is my next thing to sort out!! I'm thinking of a blue garter x
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CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
mine is lace with blue ribbon xx
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
my mum wants me to wear her garter as my something old, something borrowed and something blue but i found a gorgeous corpse bride one (one of my fav films!) so i don't know what to do without hurting her feelings. then i'm also stuck for something old something borrowed and something blue!
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CommentAuthorHelen
not planning on wearing one ! although H2b seemed to think i was because I had to show it off - not happening !!
CommentAuthorTrish Goddard
Im wearing one.. i have been told by H2B that i HAVE too as he wants to take it off with his teeth in the middle of the dsance floor when all the kiddies have gone home... :/ LOL xx