I was wondering whether or not we should do this or not as I imagine it is a lot more polite, and will hopefully speed up replies...but may be a waste of money if people only use our online r.s.v.p facility. What are you doing and if you are including stamps are you sticking them to the r.s.v.p envelope or leaving them loose? xxx

It's a lovely idea if you can afford to, but I don't think we will be. Xxx

I wouldn't bother, surely people can manage to buy a stamp from somewhere

i just bought some every other week or so till i had them all i have stuck them on the envelopes but they do have the option of txt msg and email to reply but its there if they wanna use it that way x i just bought 2nd class ones x

for the wedding we sent SAE but for the party we will put contact and email...and for thoses who are very far away it will be a stamp. xxx

We will be putting SAEs in as that way no one can make any excuses for not replying if its only a matter of sticking it in a postbox, although we're doing this as im not counting ANYONE in my final nums if they dont RSVP by a certain date ! xx

I'll be doing it purely as the guest list is so small it's really just a formality not really like we NEED to recieve the replies, we know who will be there lol

I'll be sticking the stamps to the envelopes though, dont want any cheekies using it for other things

we are going to try, it may speed up the process -not that we are n a rush- but it would be nice to i think. x

i was going to but when i had finish our invites we had 162 so times that by however much 2nd class is now (way to much) it would of cost to much as it is coz our invites had so much in them and a bow on they had to go as a large letter which was 51p 2nd class per invite xx

We didn't even send RSVP cards, just the postal address, a mobile number and an email address. We've mostly had postal RSVPs, people don't seem to mind buying a card and posting it. In the grand scheme of things, people paying for a card and a stamp is not much, and having to pay out for the invitations, and one set of stam,ps to post them is enough. xx

I would imagine too that these days most people would email to say they are coming.

just been watching bridezilla and it concerns me that even if u add the stamps, you still may end up chasing loads of ppl. We were hoping that by adding the stampls ppl would be quicker on the ball

We put stamps on all our RSVP envelopes it does speed things up slightly x

We are also having rsvp via email / website.

We'll be sticking them on the pre addressed envelopes too..........no excuses then ! lol

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If you are going to send stamps (I'm not) then you need to get them before the 1st of April as they are going up 5p!