i had an epic moment today when i realised i am a wedding bore... all i do is talk about my wedding, all i do is think about my wedding, i think if i could eat my wedding i would....
i realised when a very good friend of mine as i visited her today just came out and said .... shut up stop going on about the ****ing wedding..... cricky i didnt realise i was that bad....
how many of you lovely ladies are wedding bores like me?? has your wedding over took your life??
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I'm pretty good but only because I channel all my wedding talk on here so I don't feel the need to bore friends and family about it. If I didn't come on here so much though I think I would be just as bad. Too be fair though I know friends get sick of hearing about weddings but to me its a little rude because we have to sit and here about their boyfriends, kids etc etc and any other big event going on in their lives so why should we have to keep our mouths shut about the wedding?
CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
Lol, i am not far behind you there, but no one has told me to shut up just yet, but probably just a matter of time! All i seem to look at on the internet is wedding related and i dream about it, and lie awake in bed thinking about it, feel sorry for my h2b, he takes it all in good humour bless him. But you haven't got long left til your wedding and then you can annoy everyone talking about how amazing your wedding was and show them photos over and over again, lol. x
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CommentAuthorEmsy5000
I am the same I can bring any convo round to my wedding its a gifts lol
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CommentAuthorSteffie
I can't help it!!! I do it too! Although I think I'm getting better now! xxx
Emsy.... yes snap i have that gift too!! any converstaion i can make into my wedding as my wedding must be centre of attention at all times!!
gregorysgirl.... oh dont you worry i think i will be continueing to annoy people in 3 years time ('i am secretly hoping my planner employs me simply so i can thrust my theme on to others so i can relive my wedding through them in years to come!!)
Jo am in the same boat... i just make the right noises where possible with their boring talk about kids and jobs etc etc until i swiftly move the conversatuon back to my wedding hahah
H2B has resorted to ps3 as i think hes fed up with it as in the last yr hes played it maybe 4 times and recently its a lot more often haha
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CommentAuthorlemlau
i have moments when i think oh my god shut up!! but at the moment all i think about is the wedding!!! exactly like you . at the moment i also have ebay on the go with things we want to buy and i have 17 items i'm watching!!! lol
I really want to help plan other peoples weddings too! i think i'm going to be very depressed once its all over lol!!
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
You can always help us out with our weddings when you have had yours. I like helping out the new girls who are starting out and ask the same questions that I used to ask only this time I can give some advice now.
CommentAuthorCroc
i told my planner today i am going to miss her after the wedding as she is the only one who hasnt complained and hasnt got bored of me haha... i really think after my wedding i am gonna end up being UKbrides official agony/wedding aunt!! i just love all the coming up with ideas and finding them!!
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CommentAuthorHunny Bunny
I don't have that many people to bore to I'm being really careful not to go on too much to by best friend, just slide a question in occasionally. If it wasn't for you guys on here, I'd go mental!
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
I was studying to be a wedding planner I love them that much, but my toddler is such a handful I didn't complete it in time, but I can get an extension once I am ready to carry on, but don't know if it is worth it as the house we rent won't allow you to run a business from home, which would be perfect for me. You should get into it Crocadillo, you would be in heaven every day of the week, lol. x
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
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Chance would be a fine thing. I dont really talk to anyone about it as no one seems interested. Steve listens and nods in the right places and every now and then has an idea to throw in. xxx
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I don't know I think dealing with some of the bridezillas could be a nightmare. It is one thing to do your own wedding but can you imagine working your butt off to find suppliers etc for them to scream at you or end up in tears? I can see why people like to renew their vows though and do it over and over.
CommentAuthorjanetx71
ohh yeah thats me too i think about the wedding most of the time one has told me to shut up yet so maybe they just tune me out.However in my defense we only started planing just before xmas so thats my excuse for being wedding obsessed my very good friend did call me bridezilla tonight which i took to be a bad sign
CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
That is a shame Stevie_Dee, she should be more interested in her sons and your wedding, don't have to wonder too much now about where your SIL2b gets her personality from! It is great having this forum though, as I only have a couple of mates and they are so busy I hardly get the chance to bore them, it is just my h2b, my daughter who although is only 11 loves weddings and my MIL2b, but she always ends up trying to cut more corners money wise for me and then i feel rude for telling her i don't like said idea and our wedding is already cheap enough thank you! :) I think knowing what it is like to plan my own wedding and how stressful it can get trying to find everything I would be more sympathetic towards clients, although there will always be that one bride that you can't please and want to slap a good few hundred times, lol. x
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CommentAuthorMrs Hinch2B
eeerrrrrmmmmm Ok yeah I have to admit I fit into this catergory! I mona at all my friends when they became mum's as all that did was talk babies and now I'm doing it with wedding stuff eeeekkkkk!
Bridezilla.... Me?? I have no idea what your talking about!!
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CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
I most certainly fit in to this category! The girls at work are getting annoyed with me to say the least! xx
CommentAuthorlovelylainee
I think I have just started driving the few people that know mad talking about it non stop so yes! lol xxx
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CommentAuthorBecky
"My name is Becky, and I am a wedding addict!!" Lmao we should start a group the WA (Weddings anonymous!!) lol The only person who I dont bore is my MoH, even H2B tells me to have a day off! Dont think I help the situation by changing my mind all the time so feel the need to tell everyone again! xx
CommentAuthorslybacon
I am a HUGE wedding bore!! it just seems to take over all my thoughts! lol!.. I'm quite sure that everyone I know is fed up of hearing about mine & h2b's wedding! x x
CommentAuthorNHR115
I remember when I was in work a few years ago and a girl was getting married and someone moaned about how much they spoke about their wedding. I think this has kind of stuck in my head as I'm now very aware of how much I talk about the wedding when I'm around others. I'm lucky as I have one friend who is getting married this year and she understands the need to talk weddings. lol. The girl I spend most time with in the lab is really young and in no rush to get married and although she is interested in the wedding but I did tell her to tell me to button it should I get a bit excited. lol. xxx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Becky the wedding anonymous is called UKbride lol. Its were we can talk non stop without getting told off. My h2b just rolls his eyes when he sees me on here so they are always pointing up these days but it saves his ears lol.
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
I talk to people i know and want to talk to about it other wise i just come on here
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CommentAuthorlaurabrown83
A bit mean of a "good friend" to say it that way though isn't it lol? She could have just said would you mind a different topic of convo for a change as you do tend to talk about the wedding a lot! Not very nice the way she said it i don't think!!
CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
We are only just getting the ball rolling with the planning, but I think I may become a bit of a wedding bore, altho I will b a little more aware now hehe. Thats y this site is great because its all about weddings, so no one on here will tell you to shhh :)
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CommentAuthorCroc
Im so glad there are many more wedding bores out there and I am not alone.... every waking minute of my life at the moment is devoted to wedding thinking planning sourcing stressing etc etc I think am even boring my self.... friends and h2b say the correct noises every now and again... but with out you lovely ladies i think i would internally combust if i had to keep a lid on the wedding chat !!!
yay to wedding bores!!!!!
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CommentAuthorchezrudda
hahahaha, i certainly did at the start which was 537 days, but at the minute we are sort of on a stand still, but i reckon come the summer people will start to become very bored of me talking hahaha, even my h2b told me to shut up hahaha xxx
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CommentAuthorkrazykitty
i only really try to talk to my parents occasionally and h2b bout wedding tho i got told the other day that he feels im pressuring him with all the costs and everything so iv decided im not goin to say anything to him at all and let him try to plan it for may next year when the venue is booked up and the photographer etc and then see what he says!!the only person who actually asks me about anything is my best friend and CB and i try not to bore her with it all lol
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