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    • Samxx
      CommentAuthorSamxx
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    Hi everyone,

    I joined UKbride just after we got engaged at New year, we hadnt really set a date, we had an idea of the year we had in mind, 2014. We've now got a date, July 12th 2014!! It seems like a lifetime away but im sure it will be here before we know it.

    We went to see our first wedding reception venue yesterday, we thought it was abit early but my mums getting married next year and booked her venue 3 years in advance and still couldnt get the date she wanted!

    We're off to look at another venue tonight, its all soo exciting :)
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    • Unknown
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    it is never to early. the longer you have the longer you have to pay for it and plan without stressing over it! xx




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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Its never to early to start planning and sorting out in your head what you want and who you want to use. Sometimes it pays to book early as it means you get the dates and suppliers you want at this years prices as they do hike them up every year. Make sure that when you work out your budget you allow 10% increase for every year ahead. Also one you have a clear idea of what you want you can start to build up your little things like favour boxes etc so you don't have to shell out for everything all in one go. Just make sure you work out what you want and the whole look of things before you set a colour scheme as it can work out more expensive if you start to change your mind about things.




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    • Mrs.Laura.Rudge 2b :
      CommentAuthorMrs.Laura.Rudge 2b :
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    Am getting married on the 20th sept 2014! i started planning and saving! this year is mainly savine and look at ideas on the inernet! geting ideas for venues! nest year i going to start going round venues hopefulling bookin one! and then neear the end of the year start of the year 2014 get every think eles! but i good to have ideas what u wnat now so when u go out shoping, u no in ur mind what u looking for! x
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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    never to early to get an idea of what you want and how much you need to save :) xx

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    • Steph-Hughes-2b
      CommentAuthorSteph-Hughes-2b
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    never to early hun, mine is next year, and I'm thankfull I'm starting mine now, I wasn't going to until a few months time, but there is so much to decide and save money and find a budget. enjoy it and have fun getting new ideas and playing around with what looks good :)
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    • melvis
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    people have said that im doing things too early (mainly mil2b...) BUT my mum and girlfriends who are married have advised me its best to get venues sorted ASAP... so we have booked the church and have narrowed it down to 2 venues for evening reception... going to have that booked by end of this summer....
    the longer you have the easier it is to plan and look at lots of options!! xx

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    • Mrs b to be
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    Hello melvis. me and my partner toby have had the samething! were not getting married till april 2014, it always seems to be the mil2b i have no idea why thay moan about things like this. My parents are really pleased we have started planning early less stress and then we get the things we want. We have our venue already sorted just got to book the church etc.xx
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    • Mel D
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    definitely better to be early and get the venue and date you want xx

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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    me n h2b gave ourselves 19weeks to plan,book n pay!!!! not a good idea with 8 weeks to go im struggling lol..............deffo good to plan in advance!!!! x x x

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    • Ringo
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    definitely better to be early and get it done so you can just enjoy being a bride! No stress! = ) xxx
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    • Princess Sarahbelle
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    its never too early to plan

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    • barbie86
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    Ours is 2nd August 2014; we got engaged early Feb and since then have seen about 12 venues. We've pretty much decided and should be signing the contract soon. For us, there were several pros to venue-hunting early, inc:

    I'm doing a PGCE starting in September, and because of funding cuts, I will need to work part-time at the same time; meaning that when I'm on teaching practice (20 weeks in total), I will be working up to 90 hours a week in total, and won't have the time to venue-hunt. After that, I'll be doing my NQT year and will likely be doing 60 or 70 hour weeks for that first year (there are a lot of observations so you're marking, lesson-planning etc has to be spot-on and v detailed, which takes time), so again, venue-hunting doesn't appeal as I'll have very little time and be permanently stressed-out. I don't want to leave it until after my NQT year because then there'll just be 12 months to go which IMO is cutting it fine

    In booking now, we've managed to get venues to fix a price at this year's rate, or one slightly up on this year; we could end up saving about £1000 by booking early because of this.

    The cons for me are:

    The venues might change slightly; we're looking at a very nice 5* hotel with individually designed rooms, and one concern is them changing the decor as then it would lose it's appeal for us.

    For me, the pros outweigh the cons; only thing is, expect some raised eyebrows and comments about how 'organised' you are lol
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    • Emsy5000
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    the more time you have to plan the more deals you will be able to find its never to early

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    • *Kat B*
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    I had a date in 2013 and was planning then at xmas we brought the wedding forward so planning now just means you can spread the cost and if there is a cancellation at the venue you love you might be able to squeeze in early :) x

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    • NishaVyas88
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    Never too early! The sooner you have things sorted, the sooner you'll be able to organise back-ups if things go wrong.

    Definitely start compiling ideas at least- most of the time, my wedding book is an attachment to my arm!
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    • mrsquinn2b
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    It's never to early to start planning hun!! It's amazing what you can save by planning early!! :)
    enjoy every minute of it hun. xxx
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    • CommentAuthorXTeresainLoveX
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    I'm getting married in 18 months and have just booked the venue. Glad we have done it now and will start doing other bits from the list from the summer. If you can get ahead with all the planning it will make alot easier in the long run
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    • tilomilo
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    i dont think its too early hun, but be careful of choosing your dress, ive seen too many brides buying their dress yrs in advance and then continuing to look for other dresses, and then hating the one they originally bought :(

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    • MrsSnedden2B
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    Never to early i wish i had started planning earlier and then i would not be a stressed bride haha xx
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    • Julie Walker x
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    The earlier you start to plan the easier it is to get straight and sort your budget, you may even be able to stretch your budget too! Nothing stopping you from getting all the little bits, jewellry, favours, shoes etc not sure on the dress though, may be worth hanging on for that just in case it gets discontinued or something, but venues yeah you go for it!! xx

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    • Future Mrs Doublé
      CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
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    It's never too early to start planning, at least if you haven't already saved up you can allow yourself a nice budget and if you know what you want it gives you more availability for it, like book your venue, find a theme, etc. xx

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    my wedding is 2015, i started planning a year ago, lol. x
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    • Future Mrs Doublé
      CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
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    whaoo it is early, but I maintain what I say its never too early. I started looking at wedding dress a year before he proposed, and my theme was chosen years ago, as I knew I would get married one day

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    • xxhan87xx
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    I'm getting married 27.10.12 and have so far got my dress, bridesmaids dresses, venue and tiaras I'm buying ahead as if say htb lost his job or whatever the important things are already done. Plus earlier you book/buy things to can sometimes freeze vat which is a bonus x

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    • Kye
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    You can never be too early to start planning hun xxx
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    • Future Mrs Doublé
      CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
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    that's what I've done last December I booked my dress at 17.5% VAT, I got my garter, will book venue today, got all my stamps and stationery, will get bms dresses either from local dress maker/seamstress or high street during sales.

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    • JoJo
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    Hello! I'm getting married May 2014 and I am dying to start planning properly lol! My fiance keeps telling me to stop being so impatient! I did manage to persuade him to go and look at a venuve the other week and it is THE venue :-) We've met with the wedding co-ordinator there and have both fell in love with it :-) Plus by knowing what we want this early it makes it easier to know how much money we need to save! And I hate being chaotic and last minute about things - organisation rules!! :-D xx
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    • Mrs b to be
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    Hello! Its great doing it early find alot more bargins etc :) well thats what ive found so far! When we went to look at venues some of them wernt even doing a package price for that year thankgod are venue is going to do one for us as there 2014 menus arnt out yet :D xx
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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    Never too early ......some venues get booked up 4 years in advance

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    • Liz3yy
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    It's never too early, we got engaged on Xmas day last year and our wedding is in 2013. We have already booked our ceremony venue and our photographer, like others have said the good suppliers and venues get snapped up really early x

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    • Vonny
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    I am so happy that others are planning early! Our wedding is July 2013 and we know our ceremony and reception venues. Not booked either as ceremony said they don't have Diary for 2013. Reception venue said we can book so will be doing that soon.

    I ordered my dress yesterday as loved the design and didn't want to miss out if it was discontinued.




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    • mrs_houghton_2012
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    I dont think its too early to start planning!! When you plan early you can often get things much cheaper and you have loads of time to save and pay for it! The way things are at the moment every where seems to be booking up really quickly, plus you have loads of time to get lots of ideas off here too :) Happy planning!!! xx

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    • CommentAuthorCherryCoke_x
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    I've been planning for 2 years in sept haha! I would say no it isn't too early :) xx
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    • Unknown
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    never ever too early! xx




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    • kimmy
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    Things get booked out so early so why not..enjoy planning :D
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    • clareabella
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    ive had mine booked 2 years lol and we have just paied our venue off and dont get married till next july and the only think i have left is my dress wooooooooooooop

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    • Officially Mrs M
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    i started planning and buying stuff at 18 months to go and got told that was too early!!! i didn't think it was. I got engaged 3 years ago though and started planning then so when we gave it the go ahead i knew what i wanted to do. so plan little bits now and get your venue sorted and then when you've got 18-12months to go just go for it :-)

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    • Jodyx
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    Hi Samxx,

    I have booked my wedding for 19th July 2014.

    I dont think its to early, I now how exciting it is. We have booked the church and venue already. :) xxx

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    • Rosie
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    Its never too early to start planning i started last year when i got engaged and i am not getting married till next year i think it gives your more time to shop around and get everything prefect and find better deals xx
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    • Clairebear67
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    Im echoing everyone else, its never too early honest, I want to get our venue booked as i know how quickly places can book up. : )




 

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