Well a couple of times in the last week i have had to check myself as i can feel myself becoming Scary Bride! Little things like having to have complete control of every last little detail of my day with absolutely no room for manoevere lol! I don't think it is completely my fault as up until now h2b was happy, in fact insistent that i plan every little detail of the day as he was happy(too lazy) to leave it to me etc etc.Now with just over 2 months to go he has started to take an interest and god forbid develop an opinion.In fact the other evening he had the audacity to suggest a hymn that wasn't on my approved hymn list,what was he thinking!!! And then he started suggesting ideas for the order of the day....whoaaaaa!Does he not know how long i have been planning this,does he not know how much work i have put into this? does he not know WHO'S WEDDING THIS IS! Whoops !!!!! Anyway tail between legs,although he has entered the game a little late, some of his ideas for OUR wedding are really good.I am really going to have to concentrate very hard to stop Scary Bride Lady from rearing her ugly head (and she was really ugly lol!) again. Has anyone else done this or is it just me going a bit crazy???? xxxx
CommentAuthorTsukijin
Yep. Especially where oh's family are concerned. If any of them try making it into their day I turn into a proper dragon :/
eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^
CommentAuthorPB
Glad i am not on my own Tsukkijin.I know what you mean someone starts and its like red mist and before you know it you are gone...a bit like the incredible hulk lol! x
CommentAuthorOWB
I think I'm a bit too far away from the actual date to get this way yet, but I'm sure it will come.
If only life could be one long tea break
CommentAuthorTsukijin
We have every right! Look how much money and effort goes into this one day! X
eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^
I'm not there yet, but I can feel it coming on. People keep asking me how the wedding planning is going and it's starting to grate on me. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind enquiries every now and again from various individuals but the same two women ask me at least twice a week and when I tell them they look bored. If you're not interested don't ask, I won't be offended if you show no interest in my wedding as you are not invited anyway. Grrrr sorry had to get that off my chest.
Totally understand where you're coming from ladies, my h2b is away until Christmas and the other night over Skype he promised to do more with the wedding planning when he gets back. Sadly Skype did not hide the face I pulled and so had to tell him that I don't want him taking over with stupid ideas. He said he wouldn't but then added that he'd been thinking about a bucking bronco for the evening entertainment!!!! I hope he was joking, I have nothing against bucking broncos but it is very far removed from my vintage elegance theme.
I can't wait until 29/06/2013
The day I marry the man of my dreams!
CommentAuthorMrs Davro
I very nearly had one last Thursday when h2b best woman was telling me its my wedding but why am I not getting married.in the local registry office (erm because I don't like it) and because she was moaning about the lunch menu at the hotel I want to have the meal because she didn't know what beer battered fish and chips was.
CommentAuthorHalebob85
Don't worry i'm getting that way, even tho not even booked venue yet. H2B isn't bothered about the wedding, just pulls a face when I mention it. But any venue I mention don't like the look of it (he hasn't been to one of them yet), It's too expensive. Lets have the reception on Blackpool beach, in the Sandcastle (water park). Nothing constructive. And to be a bit of a b***h, he isn't contributing any money to wedding. I'm working my arse off this summer to help pay and my parents will be paying for most of it. Haven't got that pee'd off yet, so not told him that. I'm such a b***h
Met August 2003
Started planning 2012
Getting married 29th June 2014
CommentAuthorMrs Davro
Hmm you've just reminded me halebob, I'm paying for our wedding too, h2b keeps telling me its ok it'll be fine (insinuating he knows someone is going to give us a chunk of money for the wedding) unless we win the lottery we wont be getting any extra money, my dad is skint, my mum hates him, his parents are retired and skint and he has already had his inheritance from his stepdad.
CommentAuthorTsukijin
Arrrgh annoying questions I've received so far
" are you sure you want to do this?" " why aren't you getting married in Leicester" " why haven't you invited xyz" " why aren't you having a white dress?" " why won't you throw the bouquet?" This one is times a million
eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^
CommentAuthorPB
Shirleygirly you made me laugh so much with your skype conversation. I think you have it bang on Tsukijin i think it is because of the amount of time,effort and yes money that you put into the wedding that you do become just a teensy weensy bit obsessed about it being perfect and of course its hard to relinquish control to anyone especially a man who is going to have stupid ideas lol! My h2b suggested that we didn't really need any structure to the day..that it would all sort of flow naturally,,,can you imaagine what my face looked like? Fortunately he is back to saying "you know what you want and i trust your vision so just do whatever you think is best"BUT i am trying to involve him more and at least listen to his daft ideas cos every now and then one of them does make sense! As for throwing the boquet Tsukijin i am with you completely,i am not throwing my lovely flowers anywhere thanks xxx
CommentAuthorcally
Hello others are on my planet lol. I have been calm since we started planning 18months ago but this last two weeks I have been like a woman possessed. H2B has had no interest and not helped with anything and all of a sudden its we should do this we should do that, if looks could kill he would be dead! I am normally a happy, stress free type of person, so finding this new me so frustrating and hell to live with so Heaven knows how my H2B and two daughters are feeling living with me. Roll on the day so I can hopefully relax. xxx
It's great to say i get married this year September 1st 2012
CommentAuthorPB
I know what you mean Cally.I do wonder why h2b still wants to marry me lol x
CommentAuthorVintageChic
Me thinks the correct term is Bridezilla
And hey if you've done most of the planning so far I think it's only reasonable you be allowed to get annoyed when someone comes along and tries to change things. TUT at your h2b for thinking he's as important as the bride LOL
