Oh God I'm so glad you said that. Now I'm concerned.... My plan was to have my dress at home as I dont trust anyone enough to not get the dress out 'for a look' either full of the drink or just because they cant keep it to themselves. H2b has no intention of looking at my dress - he didnt want to look at dresses I was looking at online incase they ended up being 'thee dress' - so I dont have any worries there and thought at home would be ideal but (big but) I do have a cat who claws (as cats do)... he's banned from our bedroom anyhow and I plan to keep it in a dress bag thing but I just know, if smudge gets access to our room he'd be right in there clawing at it. Looks like it's gonna have to be the loft too, although I never go up there so h2b will need to do the honours... thank god I didnt get it in advance! x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorMrs Cerutti2b
My H2B has seen the dress, but he doesn't know it!! It was one of the ones I showed him online while I was looking, saying I quite like it, and as its named Beth (my name) thought i'd show him it. never thought it would be the one though, until I jokingly asked in the show, lets see the "beth" dress, and I fell in love with it. Tried it on, and it was perfect!! I'm not picking mine up until a month before, and its going to be kept at my Mums I think, as we only live in a small flat, and don't think I could trust H2B not to look at it.
Is it just me, or as the counter goes down its all starting to become more real, everything all seems to be coming together, and its getting a bit scary! Scary in a good way though x
CommentAuthorJill
I'm the same Mrs C, ticking more and more off the list... makes me happy :) x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorMrs Cerutti2b
I just keep thinking if I tick too much off, i'll run out of things to do before the big day, and I'll get bored lol. bought my throwing bouquet yesterday, as I want to keep mine, not that i've even bought/made it yet x
CommentAuthorJill
Yeah I know what you mean, my h2b wont want that either - I'll start finding other things I want for the wedding lol x
I'm trying hard to leave some bits til nearer the time but it isn't working!
Just bought some plant pots - though quite vase-y ones - for the venue's windowsills. the ones I had free from work weren't doing it for me. Cost £12 but i'm happier now.
I still have the crafty stuff to do, make my ring cushion, decorate postbox and guest book, customize garter etc and will try leave though til July so I have some bits to do nearer the time! x
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
mines mostly the craft stuff to complete now. cant wait to make a start on it. It still feels so far away from September but no doubt it will fly by and then i will be paniking!!! x
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i want to crack on with the little bits that are left now so the favour buckets that need painting etc but i know that if i do them now they will just get crumbled and ruined in the run up, booooooooooooored lol.
just waiting for the RSVP's to come in and then i can make a start on the table plan etc
my new bridesmaid tried on her dress at the weekend and loved it, she said she's never had a clevage before and loves that the dress gives her B cups instead of A's lol bless her, she tried to run away with the shoes cos she loves them so much.
Got the jewellery for them at the weekend from BHS who had a 3 day 30% off sale so thats them done, just waiting for there hair accessories to come from Hong Kong and all done :-)
went to a wedding fayre at my hotel this weekend and sorted my make up out with the in house make up artist and we are staying over there the night before and having pamper treatments, dinner and breakfast all there and the make up lady said she can be there at 7.30 if she needs to be as she only lives next door to the hotel. so make up with be done before travelling down in my car to my mum's for my hair doing and to get my dress on, exciting :-D
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorMrs Cerutti2b
I keep feeling like i'm doing really well with the planning, and that i'm ahead of myself, then I come on here and start to panic, as I've not sorted hair and make-up yet, underwear, my flowers (bms and buttonholes sorted) and a few other bits...
Must remain calm, and just get on with it!! lol x
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Think we all feel a bit like that when we log on to here. Time seems to be going do fast and slow all at the same time if thats even possible!! The main thing I need to sort is my flowers. Paid a deposit to hold the date but just cant decide on what style of flowers I want. Theres so many to choose from!!
Know what you mean about favours Mrs Mann.. been wanting to do my tags for the miniatures but scared of them becoming damaged with there being 6 months to wait until we need them xx
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Getting married on 1/09/12
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
just make a list hun, this is all i've got left to do
Things left to buy
Sweet buffet • Paint for ‘love is sweet’ sign
Favours • Paint ladies favour buckets glittery
Bride • Jewellery and hair accessories
Groom & Groomsmen • Cufflinks • Shoes – Jon
Tables • Mini Canvases
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
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Talking of painting signs.... I have bought our names in wooden letters for the mantelpiece in our main function room. We sign the register in front of it. CLARE & MARK. What colours to paint them?! Our theme colour is aqua blue. Not sure if all blue is too blue... So maybe off white, or silver. Just not gold. Or off white with the & in blue. Or the other way round!?
Mrs H I feel like that about my flowers, I had a meeting with our florist on Sunday there, showed her the 2 bouquets I love for me and bms and she pointed out that they just didnt match. Until she'd said that I hadnt even considered that, or the fact that if I had same as bm's it wouldnt go with my dress but as soon as she said it I thought it was obvious lol have you asked your florist what they'd suggest? x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorfiona
I am starting to feel really panicked yet I can't think of all that much left to do?!?! That doesn't make sense....
CommentAuthorKate4
I made a list the other day of everything, even the smallest things like 'stick the 'I do' things to bottom of my shoes' and the list was still huuuge and I thought I only need bridal party gifts and flower girl dresses. It scared me but then I realised there's plenty of time and I can delegate a load of it ('I do' sticker included), to someone else if i'm stuck!
My florist picked my flowers! She said roses would suit me and when I told her my colours she picked dusky pink and to be honest that suited me fine! They have an eye for what suits people, i'm sure if you ask her she'll come up with ideas for you. x
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i would paint them silver to stay out in the photographs :-) with maybe blue dots on or something
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
Ooh that's an idea thanks! :-)
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
I havnt been in to the florist since I bought my dress. Thats the next thing on my list Jill! Really stuck on whether to have a bouquet with hot pink flowers and the BMs have cream/ivory flowers on to have it the other way round. Dont want anything to big but nothing too small either! Im so indecisive at the moment over everything!
Mrs Mann.. ive made a to do list but it seems overly big so it scares me lol! Its just small things to do though now luckily :)
Smarties I reckon an off white too or a cream.. maybe a touch of glitter to make it a bit glam?
xx
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Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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its only little things so don't worry one thing at a time :-)
sorted my table runners last night, 8ft long strip of organza and wonder webbed hems at the end :-) easy peasy
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorNicsquared
We sent our invites out on Sat and have already had rsvps back - no turning back now lol
I still feel like we have ages but might hit panic mode soon :s My dress is in and im going to try it on Monday eeeek!
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
ooooooooooooo can't wait for pics :-)
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorJill
Aww Nic how exciting! Cant wait until mine comes in. I'm a bit concerned though that I'm leaving my invites too late... I'm only sending out STD's this week, with invites to follow in a couple of months... has everyone sent their invites out already? x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
mine have gone but only because we need RSVP's by the end of June for the hotel as they use local suppliers and need to make sure they get all their stock in.
i'd be tempted to just send the invites rather than STD's hun but its your choice i sent my STD's out a year before
we have our menu tasting tonight :-D
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorNicsquared
We need to organise our tasting We didnt send out stds so we are just sending out invites, we did them now to give people plenty of notice. I would agree with soon to be Mrs Mann, i'd probably be tempted to just go with invites now.
I'm really excited, going to take my jewellry and hair clip and hope they all go
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorJill
The only thing I think about is that it sooo far in advance of the wedding, people could forget about it?
Cant wait for the tasting, ours is 8 weeks before... counting down the days lol
Oooh Nic that'll be great to see your bits and pieces with it, seeing how it all comes together... nice! Remember to take pics for us x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
If they forget about my wedding they will be in serious trouble lol
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Jill im panicking about sending out invitations to n whether im leaving it too late. Not yet rec'd them from the woman thats doing them n to add further to my near heart attack ive only ordered 30 n need 28 which leaves little room for error! x
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CommentAuthorJill
God I didnt even think about mistakes cutting down on the number of invites available although we're getting ours printed so should cut down on mistakes on that front, it'll just be putting them together that could cause problems! I do think 1 month, even 6 weeks, should be plenty for rsvp's, my venue dont need numbers until 2 weeks before so an rsvp date of 6 weeks before should leave 4 weeks to chase any stragglers x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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everyone's different we've sent ours out this early just so that people don't book holidays and can come i just got sick of looking at them do i thought sod it we'll send them, i was going to leave it to the end of march but OH said we've got them done now lets just send them so we did, only got 4 left to deliver
we're doing ours a bit early just because they've changed the hotel franchise and chef so i just wanted to make sure that the food is up to scratch and if we need to change it we can
i've managed to get in touch with america that makes the jewellery to match my Belle disney dress and they can supply me it but its $120 (OUCH!) so i'm going to look for a necklace similar somewhere else.
Got the bridesmaids all done now, got them matching sets from BHS at the weekend sale :-) and there hair pieces have been shipped and should be here from China soon :-) hope they are as amazing in real life
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
I love the BHS accessories for the BM's and FG's! Our final numbers have to be in 2 months before which takes us to 1st of July as we get married on the 1st September. Scary when you think about these things!! Off in to town shortly to try and find some evening invitations. Cant believe how expensive they seem to be though!! Might just make my own if I cant find any that I like, not gonna buy them just for the sake of it!! xx
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Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorKate4
mrs_houghton_2012, I'm not sending my invites til the end of next month. I've just been too busy in work and with my course. Everyone got a std in Dec with the date and venue so up to them if they wanted to book hotels etc. Hopefully 4 months is plenty of notice. It's more than i've ever received for a wedding i've been to! If I had time I might have sent them sooner but April is as early as I can manage.
I've put our rsvp deadline as 1st July as we don't need to give that much notice to venue. I wouldn't worry!
Exciting dress news Nic! x
CommentAuthorxxRosiexx
We haven't sent our invites yet either. My bridesmaids and I finished making them on Tuesday but I haven't printed the inserts yet as I'm unsure of what time to put on them! I'm hoping to get them sent soon though :) Gosh there is sooooo much to do!
22-09-2012 I marry my best friend.
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
I cant help but read STD as sexually transmitted disease !!! Phoned the invitation lady to order a few more just in case of error and sorted my ivy and drapes for the top table. Successful day all round :) x
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Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorxxRosiexx
He he Mrs H me too! I'm still getting used to all of these abbreviations
22-09-2012 I marry my best friend.
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
small things amuse small minds.. mine must be tiny!! xx
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Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
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CommentAuthorKate4
I think it every time. I still write it though! x
CommentAuthorJill
I'm the same - especially when I'm talking about MY STD's lol x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
I totally agree but im too lazy to write it out in full!
I bought some clothes for my honeymoon today :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorJill
oooh ooh what did you get Nic? x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
What didnt i get lol - a bikini, a swimsuit, a maxi dress, some chinos, a top, some undies and some nice nightwear ;)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorJill
Nice! I'm holding off, want everything to fit just right and need to be losing a bit more weight x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorKate4
Oooh nice! I keep forgetting we're going on holiday this year! Not been away together in ages!
I have so far bought some pretty flat pumps for walking (we're going to Vegas, San Fran, San Diego). I would like some pretty dresses and chinos too! Might treat myself on pay day! x
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Oooh love holiday shopping!! Were going to Turkey, cant wait!! Dint get to go on holiday last year n this will hopefully be our last holiday as a family of 3 ;-)xx
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Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
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CommentAuthorNicsquared
I just realised i bought a size 10 dress - i thought it was a 12 :D I would like to lose another half a stone but think everything i bought would be ok if i did that I had vouchers i had been saving up from b'day and xmas so in total it cost me £30, debs - i took advantage of the 20% off in debs
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorKate4
Ooh that's good! I'm on debs website at the mo. Looking for perfume for the wedding day. May browse further....!
I need to get back on my diet, I have over half a stone to lose :-( It was going so well til xmas and then I fell off the diet wagon! Still time I know but I need some willpower!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Im the same, i havent been good since xmas, I'm actually pretty happy at the mo with my size but would just like to give myself a bit of lee-way in case i put some weight back on Although if the dress doesnt fit i may have to rethink my plan
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorJill
I'd just love to keep a steady weight for a bit, I'm always gaining or losing, never steady x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Im a bit of a yoyo dieter too. I would like to lose a stone but id be happy to get married as I am. Looked at debs yesterday n chose our daughter flowergirl dress, tiara and dolly bag :) xx
Got with the most wonderful man on 1/09/05
Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorxxRosiexx
I need to loose weight, a couple of years ago I lost 3 stone and felt amazing, I then quit my job to go to uni and since then have put it all back on again :( started again a few weeks ago and have lost 10lbs since xmas :) hopefully going to keep it up :)
22-09-2012 I marry my best friend.
CommentAuthorKate4
Hmm I am definitely getting back on it next week. I felt so much better in Dec after losing a stone that now it's going back on it's making me feel a bit miserable. I'll go back to Zumba next week and that'll kick me off hopefully :-)
I am however getting a chinese tonight.... diet starts Monday! x