oooooooo sounds like my kind of shop hahaha, i ordered my table plan print last night do i should have that by the end of the week, we have paid our contribuition of the cake off too and the bonus is we only need £366 to pay everything off and we have two paydays to do it with!!! yay!
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Don't ask me what I have left to pay, it might make me cry lol
I ordered the post box- well h2b did, I don't have PayPal
Yeah it's a wedding shop, they have pretty things in the window :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
ooooooo sounds exciting!!! i wish they still had confetti shops, i used to love going in there :-(
my post box has been done for a while and is currently being used as a storage box for my bouquet as its too big for the other box with my other flowers in haha
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
I've barely paid anything off. All the money to cover it is in the savings account but h2b doesn't want to pay anything til the suppliers want it which is all in Aug! I'd rather get it all paid now but he's adamant it can wait.
Payday in July and Aug is honeymoon spends :-D
I am dessy to do my postbox but waiting til week before as it'll get ruined in our house with the cat and the h2b!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i wrapped it in a black bag put the lid on to hold the bag in place then put another one on over the lid and its held up really well :-)
we are hoping for money from the wedding for honeymoon but most of it will be out wages i think
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
our money from wedding is going back into savings.
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
most of it will go into savings but some will come on honeymoon with us, we are only going for a week and its all inclusive so we don't need a lot
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
Oooh lovely. Ours will be exp i think. Vegas, San Fran, San Diego. Meals out for 12 nights, excursions, casinos, zoos etc. Ooh i am so excited but yeh, ££££!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
just got an email from the printers they have printed my table plan and it has been dispatched :-D can't wait to see it
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
yay! Is it the superhero one? Remember seeing it in another thread I think.
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
its marvel characters yea
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hope it looks that same when it arrives and isn't all messed up
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Thats so cool Mrs Mann We are semi making ours :s
I think we are cutting it fine with paying it but I'm sure it will be ok! Would have been fine if we hadnt had poorly chinchillas and a poorly car
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
don't worry most places are the week before so don't worry there is nothing you can do life gets in the way sometimes
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
sorry for the delay in reply. had a nightmare week consisting of me being in bed for a solid 72 hours with flu, tonsilitis and chest infection.. for some reason as a nurse you dont get much sympathy lol although h2b has been fab!
for the hen night were getting the train to blackpool, going on a mystery event in the day (no idea what this is but cant wait!), after a few drinks going for an italian then off to funny girls and a few bars after. Always said i would never go to bpool for my hen night but here we are!! x
Got with the most wonderful man on 1/09/05
Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorKate4
Oh no! Hope you're feeling better now!
Hen do sounds like good fun! It's mine on sat. Getting excited now. Picking my bm up from airport then getting nails done tomorrow. Then 6 others are arriving to stay at my house by sat night. Shopping sat am. Then 19 of us going for meal and cocktail making. Should be a giggle. I'm still worrying though!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Hope you feel better mrs houghton Have fun on your hen smarties - I'm off to liverpool today, to see my moh, going to the trafford centre tomorrow hoping to tick off quite a few little bits
Had the worst wedding dream I have had for a while last night, there want enough time to get everyones hair done, i then realised I hadn't had my nails done. It was past 1pm and I was there with no hair done, no make up and no dress, I felt stressed just dreaming it :s
I have increased the credit limit on my credit card, worse case scenario I will put a bit on that which we can pay off next month. We have our final meeting with the venue next weekend :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
oooooooooo girls its all go go go!!!
mrs houghton i hope your better now and ready to have a fab time at your hen and you too smarties :-D
I got my gift bags from baskets in the country and a few long boxes which i'm going to cut in half so that the buttonholes can go to jon's and the one's for my house can be kept in a smaller box (thinking ahead)
I'm sooooo stressed at the moment you can tell looking at me i've got a pizza face at the moment which is annoying me!!!
seaside tomorrow to try and relax
my mother has bought yet another hat!!!! so thats 3 hat/fascinators and 2 outfits, she also wants to take her outfit back to get a bigger size (which they won't have as it was an end of the line sale when we bought it and it was the only one) its only because her b00bs apparantly don't fit which isn't the case its the fact she lost loads of weight and then has started to pile it back on as she has got lazy and is eating everything she shouldnt
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
Wedding dreams are horrible. I seem to have a reoccuring one that my hair dresser doesnt turn up and I cant do my own hair because I have nails on!! Strange..
Sounds good Smarties, Im quite nervous about mine too, but we'll soon see what they have in store.
Mrs Mann it must be a mum thing, my mums bought a zillion outfits and still hasnt found "the one" lol
Got with the most wonderful man on 1/09/05
Got engaged to my sole mate on 1/09/06
Getting married on 1/09/12
Looking forward to becoming Mrs Houghton!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
she doing my tree in! lol
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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update on the mother hat saga hahaha
she has taken both the new hat and the fascinator back and has hired one instead
how has everyone been this weekend?
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorJill
Hey mrs mann :) glad it's resolved! My weekend was good, eventually got my married name passport away, absolute nightmare as it's also my first passport AND I was applying for my sons at the same time. So applying for mine in my married name but having his filled in with my current name... hellish! But done thank god. How was yours? I'm off for my hair and makeup trial this Saturday... tad excited about that x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Glad your mum sorted out her headwear - did she decode what to do about the outfit?
I'm having to put wedding plans on hold this week as i have a deadline for my course which I thought was next week but its this Fri :s
Had a lovely weekend with moh, sorted out a couple of bits and spent a fortune on make up :s Got lots of ends to tie up this weekend
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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arghhhhhhh typed a long post and my pc shut down the page!!!
i refused to renew my passport just because i've changed my name because i have to pay £90 for the privalige and it doesn't get renewed they keep the same expiry so as long as i book my hols in my maiden name for the next 5 years i'm fine. i told my holiday company i was doing this and they said its fine most brides do it as its another load of cash to find just before the wedding.
Mum has been told she is not swapping the outfit she just needs to lose some inches off her busy and back
on a plus note i managed to get into my size 16 trousers for work!!! i refused to throw them out as i only wore them once, go me! flabelos is certainly paying off on the inches front and slimming work seems to be paying off on the fat front, just want my dress now to see if i need to up my game or not :-S
I'm going out on saturday night with some girlies for cocktails as i need to chill the hell out! so i'm doing some wedding stuff during the day before i go out
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
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Hello! I've not been on here in ages! How is everyone?!
I had my hen do on Saturday! It was amazing. Had one of the best nights of my life. Had a real giggle and was such good fun. Everyone got on, everyone enjoyed and I didn't stop smiling :-) Two people canc last min but it was ok. Had 2 hours sleep on Sat night so bit weary last two days! Couple of pics!
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Other than that I've sorted shoes for fgs, shoes for bm, and couple of other little bits. H2b got a £800 tax rebate on Sat! Amazing. That's paying for our helicopter trip to the Grand Canyon! And clearing some bills.....
CommentAuthorKate4
I'm keeping my passport in my maiden name it it expires. It's got 5 years left. Also i've done some good travelling in last two years (India, Mauritius) and I want to keep my stamps! haha!
One other thing I learned this weekend is that I don't like Shellac nails. I got them done on Fri for hen, but picked it all off last night! I felt constricted and didn't like them. Silly but meh. Least I know for the wedding to just get a polish.
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
trial and error smarties trial and error
you look like you had a fab night and i love that your all mostly in pink :=)
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
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Haha I know. Seems like a real waste of money now, but hey ho.
Ah it was brilliant. It was one of those nights where nothing went wrong, no one got too drunk, nobody's feet hurt, no trouble at all. Went home merry but not wasted and woke up with only a little hangover!
The girl in black is h2b's sil. We don't really get on. She said during the meal when my friend asked her about her hen do 'I didn't pick a theme because I thought it was really really unfair to make people fork out for something new'. Luckily I didn't hear that but my friend was fuming. Why would you say that within earshot of the bride at a themed hen do!? My bm had said beforehand wear as much or as little as you like. Ugh. She left at 11pm and took my mil with her, who really wanted to stay! She didn't bother me really but some of my friends wanted to knock her out!
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
grrrrrrrrrrrr! how dare she!? no-one asked for her opinion
don't worry at least its only SIL not MIL or someone closer to you and H2B
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
I know, she's the most awkward girl I've ever met. We've never really got on, she has some really insecurities and is very jealous of how well I get on with the inlaws, but that's her problem not mine. I've always made an effort with her and to be honest she's actually been really good for the last two years. Never mind, I barely see her so not a big deal.
Has everybody on this thread had their hen do now?
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i think so
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
I feel so relieved it's over. I can really start thinking about wedding now :-)
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i'm struggling to think of anything but! busy busy busy at the moment!
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorfiona
I haven't had mine its on the 4th, Im looking forward to it but am alittle nervous. Im glad you all seem to have had good ones because there seems to be quite a lot of bad experiences about.
I have a friends hendo this weekend, but its just a house party am really looking forward to it.
CommentAuthorKate4
Yeah some awful stories on here from some people. I was really nervous to be honest. But it went perfectly. Don't worry about it as it'll all work out :-) What have you got planned?
CommentAuthorfiona
Going to a spa in the day, then home to get changed ect, then to a local wine bar where we have a private room. The wine bar has a huge back room that is a nightclub on the weekends. I haven't been on a night out dancing in a looong time, more of a pub sorta girl so should make a nice change.
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i know what you mean thats why i loved mine so much as it wasn't in town but it had a dance floor so we could dance the night away
my OH is sick of me stressing about my dress so he went in on his way past and it will be in on thursday and she will be calling me Friday to make an appointment to try it on, super diet now!!!!!
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorKate4
Sounds lovely :-)
Yay good news about dress Lea!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Sounds fab Fiona- I was really nervous too but it went perfectly (apart from the car lol) My post box has arrived- going to be ordering lots this weekend as its pay day :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
edited
Ps glad you had a great time smarties - pics look fab Not long now girls :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorKarenB9
Hi all, i had notice this thread has come up quite often on he front page thought I would join in if that's ok ? my wedding is on the 22.9.12 my hen do is not until the 15.9.12 its a one night stay at a spa with 2 of my best friends during the day and then in the evening people who didn't want to or couldn't afford to come to the spa are joining us for dinner. I thought it would be a good idea to have hen do close to wedding so i can be de stressed on the run up. but now thinking i could really do with a spa now !!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Hi Karen - the more the merrier I think a spa close to the wedding is a great idea - you could always arrange a day night with your BM's a bit sooner as well??
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorKarenB9
Hi Nicsquared thanks for the welcome !! to be honest I have only one BM old enough to go out with the others are under 10. My sister is also getting married on the 22.8.12 so its added expense for family and having 5 sisters its not fair to them to say i am having another do. I only really have 2 close female friends and they are coming to spa staying the night there and paying £150 each. So I am also paying £300 for all their treatments to say thank you for spending so much to come with me so it wouldn't feel right asking them to pay more. I will just have to wait and get excited reading about other brides hen nights LOL. Have you had yours yet ?
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Yes I had mine at the beginning of the month, it was great but sad its over and I dont have it to look forward to anymore. H2b doesnt have his for another two weeks
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorfiona
Hi Karen, welcome!
CommentAuthorKarenB9
What did you do ? my H2B goes on his stag weekend to the isle of white festival on the 7.9.12 so for 2 weeks before wedding we will be rushing around trying to get things done during the week after work as we wont be spending time together at the weekends. Just read your earlier post about your wedding card post box, I will be doing the same soon just brought a wooden wishing well of the bay for £30 thought it was a good idea as they cost £25 to higher from where i am from which is Chelmsford (what area are you from?) then after the wedding i will sell it on hopefully.
CommentAuthorJill
Hi Karen x
Smarties your pics look great hun, glad you had a good time :) my hen night is when some of you will be wifeys - 1st Sept! Cant wait x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Im in bristol
I just bought a card one - I hadnt really thought about getting one til last week We went to Centre Parcs in nottingham, had a lovely time, weather was just about ok.. We did a few activities and had a night in on the first night and a meal on the second night. Lots of fun
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorKarenB9
Hi Jill :-) x What are you doing for your hen ?
CommentAuthorJill
We're going out in Edinburgh, food then drinks... simple but just what I want! Really looking forward to it. A spa day would have been lovely but I was the same as you, I didnt want to ask people to shell out twice for me in the same month x
29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
CommentAuthorNicsquared
Aww Jill will you be thinking of us on your hen do?? :)
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!