i sent mine first week of jan i get excited everyday with post but get disheartned when there is nothing there... i did give day invites till feb 29th but i just want numbers so i can buy centerpieces as im not paying £20 a time for delivery xx

I'm getting married on 30th and am possibly the most disorganised bride EVER!!! my invitations aren't even finished yet never mind posted, still need to organise flowers cars, evening entertainment and food, mens suits, rings and god knows what else i've forgotten. Could be a stressful few months i'm thinking.

I haven't even ordered my invites!!!!!!!! LOL I did send STD's oops disorganised but it will be fine xx

Still need to finish making ours we did around half last weekend so will get them finished this weekend and hopefully will get them out next week.
x

Sent out the day invites Wednesday, word of warning any embellishments will take you into large letter prices!

Evening invites are printed but want to get day rsvp's back first in case I can bump someone up! lol

I only realised Sunday that they needed to go out soon, lol

Printed them out on Monday, cut the inserts with a fancy edge and stuck them all together on Tuesday ready to post Wednesday! lol

Too much to do, so little time, it'll be 16 weeks tomorrow for us Zoe xx

Me too but I'm slowly going through my list.

Next job is arranging for my dress alterations or I'll be turning up naked, lol x

lol, got mine already but need to sort something out because I can't do up the zip, too many stews with dumplings (can't resist) will also be starting some extra exercises monday and cutting back on the extras that I don't need, like those big crisp bags that are good for sharing that I can eat on my own, oops! x

I'm a 23rd June bride :-) I'm the same with crisps but now keeping it to weekends only as a treat, trying to get fit using the Wii. Still have to sort the bridesmaids as just cannot find the right thing :-( Do have my dress ordered though so waiting for it to come in :-) xxx

I still ave the bm dresses n suits to get oopppssss lol everything else is ok but suits other half is sorting march n getting dresses in next couple of weeks its just prices so expensive n i have 6 adult/teenages to buy n 5 littlen but they u can get for 50 or less so not to bad xxx.. Was happy i got another accepts but getting annoyed y ppl take so long to send them back grrrr. Xx

well done hun i can thankfully say they r all back for the day guests just need to sort evening guests properly. n i can now say suits n bridesmaid dresses done just another 100 things left to sort n pay xxx

16 weeks away for me on Saturday, I have so far out of 84 guest 50 confirming, and 11 declining, and 23 not responded. OH is a bit stressed as we've heard that some of his family are looking into booking hotel but not rsvp yet, which to me is just plain rude, if you know you are going to attend a wedding, before looking for accomodation (there's plenty available all around our venue) you should rsvp to the couple as soon as you know if you are going.

Oh no that's so rubbish, I hope he has a good excuse! I've got 4 friends who can't come to ours as they've booked a joint holiday together which is so lame! But they're coming to take us both out for dinner in a couple of weeks as way of grovelling apology - think I'll order the lobster!

omg that's soooo cheeky!! How could he say no 'in case' he has something else on? And it's family too! Outrageous! Oh well just think of the extra money you'll be saving per head on the meal and drinks, I was thinking that too until I started moving evening guests to the day now I had room! Oops!

that's really not cool, I am so sorry for you Kaz.

Getting married 2nd June, 12 weeks on Saturday! C x

Im getting married 3rd June :)

We've not had that many replies back yet :( but the deadline was the end of this month so suppose got to give ppl a chance. Just that when we get an invite we reply back straight away, why can't everyone else do the same!?

I've still got BM dresses to sort, but doing that this Sat and H2B and his entourage are all getting measured for their suits the same day :)

My main worry is paying everything off now, there just isn't enough time to save all the pennies! Need to pay Registra this month as they said price may go up in April so to pay it off before then.

Also my baby brother (25 so not really baby!) is suffering depression at the moment and hasn't even spoken to anyone for 3 months, I just want him back now! In the back of my mind I keep think ing that he won't let me down and not be at my wedding (we are a really close family) I just hope I'm right.

Z x

Whoop! My BM lives in Malaysia and since October last year has been talking about having her dress made as it'll be cheaper etc, so I assumed she knew what she was talking about - it took her till January to find a dressmaker and 2 weeks ago she finally sent me some photos of material - which were the wrong colour! We'd agreed on raspberry which is similar to fuschia, and she'd got pics of dusky pink lace :-( anyway after all that, she's now realised that to buy the material then get it made into a dress is a lot more expensive that buying ready made, so she's looking to buy her dress now - wedding is 12 weeks away!! Ironically too she liked one from Debenhams and also one from BHS (I thought she'd look in a local shop for her dress!) and she was going to try the Debenhams one last weekend for a fit, and if no good I'd have to get the BHS one and send across to her - I texted for an update this week and she replied yesterday saying something had come up so she hadn't tried it yet, and she'd go this weekend - she's so laid back she's horizontal! Anyway, heard on the radio last night that Debs had a sale on till 9pm with 25% off everything, so decided to buy the dress for her anyway and send to her - if it doesn't fit then she can send back to me and I'll return it within 28 days - bit of a round about way of sorting a dress but at least I know we're making progress on the BM dress! Just got to get her to book her flights now...

Good luck with that bridalmiss, it will all come together for the day I'm sure.

I've had a bit of a wedding day today..

Ordered...
* Ribbon for favours
* Love hearts for favours (will get the mini cadbury chocs that are also going in our favours when I go on my hen day to cadbury world next month! :))
* My bracelet
* Spare ring - basically I don't want to take my proper rings on honeymoon as I don't want to loose them in Italy so I have ordered a silver band for £12. Will also wear it when I do things where I dont want to damage my real ones eg. swimming (forgotten H2bs size so will have to get him measured again before getting his)

Made appointments for...
* Flowers - in two weeks
* My dress alterations - week on Tuesday

Also ordered 2 of the 4 bridesmaids shoes last week so they should be here soon - BHS have £5 off when ordering over £25 and £10 over £50

Ahh feels good to get things done.

Woo woo, its so good to get things ticked off the list isn't it!? xx

Yes I feel the same, I thought I would have had more done by now but time has just run away! oh well just keep going and it will all get done in the end. Ooo u are my date buddy xx

Getting married 13 weeks today! My chocolates for favours arrived today, booked honeymoon yesterday! Pretty much all is organised and I have all the money sitting in my isa waiting to be dished out to everyone in the next month or so! The only things left to get are flower girl shoes, h2b shoes and gifts for wedding party...I am very proud of myself x

well Kath i still need to pay off...... flowers, photographer, cars, videographer, hair, make up, buy my favours (which r cheap) n buy flowergirl shoes but as i brought their dresses im hoping their mums (family) will buy them lol but i doubt it haha still got loads but each week pay a bit off xxx

Ah and pay for the hen do