So after alot of discussion and with heavy hearts my h2b and I have decided to wait another year to get married. Our finances are not giving any leeway to save at the moment.
CommentAuthorShazk
Of Hun that isn't good to hear but you will it will be for the best look at it as a- the wait will make it all so much special when it does happen, b- you wont be starting married life worrying that you have over spent etc( fingers crossed anyway lol) c- you have long to enjoy us on here xxx
Away with the flutterbys xxx
CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
Every cloud has a silver lining ....
More time to plan and organise your day to make it the best it can be Will make your day even more special as you know you both worked hard towards the day in terms of finances, decisions etc.
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Think of it as a blessing... Everyone wants the day of their dreams so if it were me I'd rather wait a bit longer than have a half hearted day x
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CommentAuthorMrsMoran
Awww Hun, that's a shame, like the others say though, you get longer to plan and make it the day you dreamed of xxx
thanks girls, as you said i've got more time to plan and get it right so going to look on it as a positive thing. and you never know i might win the lottery lol xx
CommentAuthorVintageChic
and the longer youre a member on here the more chances youll have of winning a power user prize (or even the win a wedding prize... tho i do have that prize earmarked for myself LOL... if only) which will help with the overall cost :D:D:D
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CommentAuthorGillianE
i know how you feel, we have done exactly the same and instead of getting married next year we are going to wait until the year after. We really didn't want to put it off another year, but our fiances wouldn't stretch for next year to have everything that we wanted. We would rather have the things we wanted and wait then regret it afterwards.
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CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
You have more time to Plan Your Perfect Wedding and save up the finances for your Perfect Wedding count it as a blessing the more time you have you can get everything you want for your wedding and it will mean so much more when you do walk up the aisle and say "I DO" =D ♥ X Hugs Hun ♥ X
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CommentAuthorsarah
:( agree with ladies, it's better to have the day you want & can afford even if you have to wait awhile.
CommentAuthordangermouse
every cloud has a silver lining it will work out i had loads of problems leading to my marriage to my x hunny but we got married in the end and the day was worth it
CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
I kind of agree here.. but it's also very easy to miss the boat so to speak, when you keep waiting for the perfect time. We did that - and then another baby on the way, then a bigger house, then a new car, another baby etc We're now over 30 years down the line and with youngest baby off at uni, we're finally getting around to it! haha I know we're a bit extreme but hopefully you get the point xx
