Currently I have my cousin and my matron of honor, My best friend who I have been friends with for about 2 and a half years, and my lilt cousin as junior bm. I keep on wanting to ask my other friend who I have been friends with for about 5 years. she always been there for me when I needed her, although I don't see her alot, she never forgets my daughters birthday and makes a effort to come see us when she can. I know she would love to and would be pleased I asked her , I keep thinking I should of picked her a my daughters "god" mother.
My OH has his Best man and 2 ushers, so I kinda want my MOH and 2 adult BMS too make it even? Am I over thinking it ?
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CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
if u can afford it then go for it hun x
Ill marry my hero
CommentAuthorShowgirl
I think you should ask her - she sounds like a really nice friend.
CommentAuthorBethanyS
I think you should ask her too. x
CommentAuthorMarrying.Ryan
Yes, I would. You sound like you would want her to be, too.
I would ask her if it was me. She sounds like a wonderful friend xx
CommentAuthorSusie
She sounds lovely, and thoughtful! I think it would work perfectly having her, you would have the two adult bridesmaids and MOH and even it out with the best man and ushers! We can all do with another thoughtful bridesmaid!!
CommentAuthorFutureMrsSteven
She sounds lovely and that she would really care about you and the wedding - ask her! It might add to the budget a little but she sounds like a great friend x
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
There's no limit to the numbers except your own budget. If you want her then ask her. It doesn't matter whether the ushers and bridesmaids are even or not. It sounds like it would mean a lot to her as well.
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CommentAuthorLauraK7
I was having the same issue too but I've decided to go for it I will have 3 adults and 2 children as bridesmaids
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
I have the same issue but I'm just going to see how the budget goes :)
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CommentAuthorMarrying.Ryan
let us know if she says yes, if you decide to ask her :)
CommentAuthorVelcro
if you can afford another bm, then go for it. I was abit hasty and asked too many people lol..... but im gunna make it work somehow xD
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Just to update this, I did ask her, and I'm so glad did, it's bought us so much closer together, we regularly meet up, and not just for wedding things. Love her so much.
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together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Great to hear! I had same problem do i or dont i and when i did ask it made our friendship even stronger (im glad i did as my other bridesmaid rly isnt interested still)
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Lovely to hear you have her included xxx
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CommentAuthorKirstyR386
That lovely that it made you closer. Hope you have a great day x
CommentAuthorRachaelB76
fantastic news you never want to look back and say i wish id of had such and such x
CommentAuthorVelcro
excellent news :)
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