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    • Whovianbride
      CommentAuthorWhovianbride
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 24th 2014
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    Currently I have my cousin and my matron of honor, My best friend who I have been friends with for about 2 and a half years, and my lilt cousin as junior bm.
    I keep on wanting to ask my other friend who I have been friends with for about 5 years. she always been there for me when I needed her, although I don't see her alot, she never forgets my daughters birthday and makes a effort to come see us when she can.
    I know she would love to and would be pleased I asked her , I keep thinking I should of picked her a my daughters "god" mother.

    My OH has his Best man and 2 ushers, so I kinda want my MOH and 2 adult BMS too make it even? Am I over thinking it ?

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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jan 24th 2014
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    if u can afford it then go for it hun x

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    • Showgirl
      CommentAuthorShowgirl
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 24th 2014
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    I think you should ask her - she sounds like a really nice friend.
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    • BethanyS
      CommentAuthorBethanyS
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 24th 2014
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    I think you should ask her too. x
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    • Marrying.Ryan
      CommentAuthorMarrying.Ryan
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    Yes, I would. You sound like you would want her to be, too.
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    • Nicky2988
      CommentAuthorNicky2988
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    I would ask her if it was me. She sounds like a wonderful friend xx
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    • Susie
      CommentAuthorSusie
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    She sounds lovely, and thoughtful! I think it would work perfectly having her, you would have the two adult bridesmaids and MOH and even it out with the best man and ushers! We can all do with another thoughtful bridesmaid!!
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    • FutureMrsSteven
      CommentAuthorFutureMrsSteven
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
     
    She sounds lovely and that she would really care about you and the wedding - ask her! It might add to the budget a little but she sounds like a great friend x
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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    There's no limit to the numbers except your own budget. If you want her then ask her. It doesn't matter whether the ushers and bridesmaids are even or not. It sounds like it would mean a lot to her as well.

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    • LauraK7
      CommentAuthorLauraK7
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    I was having the same issue too but I've decided to go for it
    I will have 3 adults and 2 children as bridesmaids
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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 25th 2014
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    I have the same issue but I'm just going to see how the budget goes :)

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    • Marrying.Ryan
      CommentAuthorMarrying.Ryan
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 26th 2014
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    let us know if she says yes, if you decide to ask her :)
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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 26th 2014
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    if you can afford another bm, then go for it. I was abit hasty and asked too many people lol..... but im gunna make it work somehow xD

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    • Whovianbride
      CommentAuthorWhovianbride
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    Just to update this, I did ask her, and I'm so glad did, it's bought us so much closer together, we regularly meet up, and not just for wedding things. Love her so much.

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    • CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    Great to hear! I had same problem do i or dont i and when i did ask it made our friendship even stronger (im glad i did as my other bridesmaid rly isnt interested still)
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    Lovely to hear you have her included xxx

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    • KirstyR386
      CommentAuthorKirstyR386
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    That lovely that it made you closer. Hope you have a great day x
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    • RachaelB76
      CommentAuthorRachaelB76
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    fantastic news you never want to look back and say i wish id of had such and such x




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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2015
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    excellent news :)

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