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- CommentAuthorjellytot
  
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sorry for the rant but you know how it is when you need to vent!
my best friend and also MOH (lets call her Alice) asked me to be her MOH next year when she gets married. whilst she was on the phone to some other friend (who she hasnt seen in years, and only speaks to once every so many months) she mentioned the wedding and this friend said "omg im maid of honour arent i?!" Alice didnt know what to say to her so she just said yeh. now this friend is posting it all over facebook that shes Alices MOH and is so excited. Even though shes not, and hasnt offered to help with anything at all. ive just spoken to Alice about it and she said "i dont know what to say to her, i dont want to offend her and fall out"...Ive told Alice its upset me, and peed me off but she just tried to reassure me that i am still her MOH and her other friend can just think that she is...
personally i think this is b*llocks..if it was me in this position i wouldnt have said yes in the first place!
what would you guys do?x
- CommentAuthorMrsEminson2B
i would never of said yes xx

Met Matt at 10 years old
Marrying him at 27 years old
I can't wait to be Mrs Eminson on the 8th June 2013
- CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
Oohh thats unfair.. I'm exactly the same as you hun if i was in that position i'd just say erm... sorry no you aren't i've already got my MOH but you're still invited! I'd be pretty peeved too if i were you. I think your friend should have the guts to come clean to the other lady and tell her that you are MOH. xx
- CommentAuthorvintage lass
Obviously she was under alot of pressue to agree with this girl but at the end of the day not only has she upset u but I think its very unfair on the other girl....she will be mortified when she finds out the truth! 'Alice' needs to address this asap - only fair on all parties involved!!!xxx
- CommentAuthorNHR115
I agree with you hun, I wouldn't have said yes. She risks hurting 2 people. I hope it gets sorted out soon hun. xxx

- CommentAuthorjellytot
ive text Alice and explained and shes just said that she doesnt want to upset her other friend. so ive told Alice im not going to be her MOH anymore. she asked me why im being like this so i just said "to be honest youve upset me and annoyed me"...
we've been through such alot together, been to eachothers births of our youngest for one...we are so close we got matching tattoos..so im pretty gutted she couldnt tell the truth :(
x
- CommentAuthorljeh92
wow, i would be a little annoyed too.. just say, please dont think im being funny but i think its only right you tell her sooner rather than later that you had found a MOH a while ago but you would still love it if she could come to the wedding..

Hope things get sorted xxx

Soon to be Mrs Laura Naylor !!
24th June 2011
- CommentAuthorcatch
oh! dear, a bit wimpy of alice as this poor girl thinks she's MOH and you have been asked
will be very interested to hear how she get's out of that one!!
feel sorry for you hunni, your friend pretty rotten doing that with you on the as well, l'd be screaming my lungs out if l where you!
and veen if she smooths it over, will she keep her word!!!!!!!!! urgh!!! xx
- CommentAuthorvintage lass
Go back to your friend and tell her how privileged, honored and delighted you felt whenever she asked you to be MOH and you simply feel that this has ruined all of this due to her mishap/lack of honesty and in order for you to look forward to her big day and scream it from the roof tops....you would like it to be addressed now rather than later. Explain that regardless of your feelings the longer she leaves this the messier it will get and she may end up losing 2 friends over something which should have been a celebration xxx
- CommentAuthorjellytot
thanks for the advice girls :) Alice has just text me and said shes sent a msg to the other friend explaining the situation. then she text me saying sorry. part of me doesnt belive shes actually text her friend though :S seems abit to easy to me....
x