Hi girls,

Just wondering if anyone else feels so worried about making sure all the guests have a good time?
I seem to be always thinking about what the guests would like and what they wouldn't and hoping that i dont let anyone down.
As some of you may know this is the second attempt at my wedding as I got so stressed planning the last one i had to cancel.
I want to have a day to suit me and my h2b but i want everyone to enjoy themselves at the same time.

Don't want my wedding to be a disapointment....anyone else feel the same?

xx

i agree with mrs h - food drink and a bit of entertainment and everyone will have a good time. the only thing you need to make sure that you do is go and speak to as many people as you can even if just for a few mins. you shouldnt worry about them they will have a great time - its your wedding do what you want and dont worry what people would think it will be amazing im sure xxx

To be honest, I planned my wedding day to be a day that me and my husband would enjoy. I provided lots of food and drink for the guests but everything else I planned for me. I chose food that I liked rather than what would be popular, I chose a wedding singer because I liked him, I had a sweet table because I like sweets, I did it all how I wanted. But so many of my guests have told me it was the best wedding they have been to, and when I look through the photos everyone is smiling and laughing. Everyone had a fun time and there was so much laughter on the day :)
That was a bit long winded but what I'm trying to say is just do whatever you want to do for your wedding day. I bet your guests will have a great time, don't worry so much about it (easier said than done I know) but at the end of the day, as long as you and your h2b enjoy yourselves that's all that matters :)

ME!

Its my biggest concern... making sure they enjoy the food, making sure they like the entertainment etc!

I'm confident I'll love my choices for me and close family... but for other extended family and friends... hmmm!

Thanks girls, glad to know that i'm not the only one!!
xx

I'm not worried about people not having a good time because I know they will our weddings for close friends family only at the church and other friends etc for evening like the girls said good company, drinks music and food is all you want! I'm more worried about forgetting things or other people forgetting stuff :/ ESP decorations etc and people turning up on time! Nothing ps me off more is people not on time lol and of course my h2b loving my dress is also important x

I worry about it too. Trying to weigh up balloon artists and sparkler send-offs and magicians. It's tiring! My friend said the last wedding she went to was the best ever and there was so much entertainment for the evening, listening to what she's saying.

I've decided to pick one thing and roll with it now though, as I want things simple and effective too. As long as we get married, that's what matters. If they aren't having fun, they can always go home!