Hey there, I know this isn't quite a wedding related rant, but have to get this off my chest before I break! I'm too afraid to let my h2b know how loose I'm coming atm, because he'll just blame himself some how.
To try and put everything into order by events, we handed out our Save the date cards, which really didn't go down too well with my family; so when I explained that I was hoping for my step dad and my nan n grampy on the top table next to me (my mom passed away a few years ago, and my grandparents practically raised me), my Grampy looked like he was going to have a coronary attack. A week later, and I feel really ill. I've been ill for a while, so it's not really anything new for me, but my h2b calls 111 and they diagnose me as pregnant and a nurse confirms it over the phone from my symptoms. (Personally, I'm still convinced that I've got a nasty bug). Within 12 hrs, I'm told that my other Nan has passed away. She had a fall and the hospital made a mistake during the operation :(
And now, my sister pops up out of no-where after not talking to me for months calling me selfish for telling her that I don't trust her with the responsibilities of being a BM(not quite so blunt), due to her running off to Malibu unannounced for 3months leaving me to pick up her mess. (I told her this month's ago, but she's only just responded). . I'm sorry, it's all just happening in one go, and idk how much more I can take :( xoxox
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Wow! :-(
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
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Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
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CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
Sorry to hear about your Nan's passing. :-(
Met 18/09/03
Engaged 06/09/08
Getting married 05/09/17
CommentAuthorFutureMrsPendlebury
I'm so sorry about your news, :( xx
March 5th 2016
CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
Sorry to hear things aren't as you would like them & about your news about your Nan.
Started Dating: 25th September 2005
Engaged: 26th September 2012
Getting Married: 25th May 2014
So sorry for your loss. You sound as though you have a lot on at the moment, hope you can de stress and things come together for you.
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October 31st 2015
I will be Mrs. Henry
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CommentAuthorRachelE118
So sorry for your loss. You sound a bit overwhelmed by everything at the moment. Would it help to look at everything that's worrying you and either prioritise (like Nans death and her funeral), do a pregnancy test to rule that out then try to push away things that you can't control (your sisters behaviour). Chin up chick xx
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Wow. I'm so sorry about your Nan. Definitely do a pregnancy test asap just to rule it out. Then if you don't recover in a few days do another test and go to the doctor able to say without doubt that you are not pregnant.
I'm surprised that your grampy doesn't want to be on the top table, but perhaps he's too much of a staunch traditionalist. Is your other Nan (his wife) ok with it? If so see if she can talk him round.
As for your sister, put that on the backburner until other things settle. She's the one that ran off, so she has to take the consequences.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorAH86
Very sorry for your loss Hun. Take a step back and focus on number 1 would be my advice. Tell people no, be blunt and tell them you have a lot on your plate and no time to deal with their complaints. If they don't listen then ignore their calls and try not to take it to heart.
Grieve your loss and let it out and then concentrate on yours and your partners business. Personally I think that you should share how you feel with your h2b, otherwise he cannot give you the support you need and he may be able to help you de stress.
Hope you feel better and things calm down soon xx
Friday 10th April 2015
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