this is supposed to be the happiest time of my life - not with my family ! mum says nan wont come shes homophobic - so and so wont come and my sister is just plain rude and selfish! think we should just sod off and get married alone lol
CommentAuthorVelcro
don't let two ignorant people ruin it. there will be far more people there than not. It will be them what's regretting it in the end.
however, the idea of sodding off and doing it alone does have its up sides lol... ive thought that so much recently, just because im all wedding planned out lol
Wibbly wobbly, timey wimey
*Kelbel* is my wedding twinny!
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
lol i know what you mean, its just been one thing after the other since we announced to the family, my sister is golden child and can do no wrong, she doesnt like my partner, she is now making xmas difficult..families are a pain, its just who do we invite who dont we..it def dont seem like a bad idea at all at the minute lol :) im sure it will all sort out...most of mums side of family probably wont come, we keep thinking just have the small 4 people ceremony but then there are a few people that will 'feel left out' and then thats more stress :/ im just having a rant ignore me lol xx
CommentAuthorVelcro
just keep it small and intimate and invite who you want :)
ive had a lot of rants recently, sadly for my other half its all been at him xD
Wibbly wobbly, timey wimey
*Kelbel* is my wedding twinny!
CommentAuthorAmyK
Perhaps you should just remind them that you're marrying your best friend & you're both extremely happy together! What more could anyone possibly wish for you?
yeah things have been pretty tense here last few days...my other half gave me cuddles while i booed me eyes out! lol will keep it small, we just the sort of people that worry about upsetting people lol x
yeah i agree with that amyk xx
CommentAuthorAnnabelleV
Focus on the people who will come, not the people who won't! They're your true friends and family. :)
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
How does ur mum know who won't come? Surely that's their decision not ur mum putting things Dow by saying it x
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
think she is just meaning her sisters etc, i guess she knows their views ?! we just dont want to put a deposit down for bigger ceremony if hardly anyone will come :/x
CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
I hate when families start that crap. When i hav emy kids I couldn't care less if they love men women or dogs as long as they are nice people and are happy. Kids should be able to get the love and respect from their praents once they are grown uo that was expected of them as a child.
I wouldn't worry about everyone else just say that's fine I understand your feelings...they will likely change their minds whenthey dont receive an invite xx
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think you should come out and ask them directly if they're thinking of coming then, and if they say probably not or no, then you know where you stand numbers wise and just don't send them an invite x
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
You know what Hun ... Those people who truely love you ...love you because of who you are and don't give a ****** about your sexuality.
My view is it is more important to be loved and to have somebody to love rather than what the sex of the 2 people are .
Well said Lala! You know what I think hun as we've talked about this before hun but you need to be happy and remember that although there will be those who don't approve but generally, people will be happy for you.... It may take a while but you will be pleasantly surprised I think. Give her some time to get her head round it and I'm sure she'll be ok. It took certain people in my family awhile but it's worth it in the end I promise!! Xxxxxx
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorLisa clarke-soon-to-
thanks everyone , i love this site soooo much already :) i think all will work out, we are mainly concentrating on having a good xmas for now and then in the new year wedding stuff can begin properly, i will personally ask them people if they want to come and your right if they dont their loss eh, we are going to look round likely venue on my birthdaaay :)) 18th jan eeeek excited! xx
oh and agreed sexuality should NOT even come in to it, we are just as capable of having a happy, healthy loving relationship :) yeah we have had our problems, but almost 4 years later and we going strong. never thought it was possible to love someone so much :) xx
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
well said LaLa
