I know this is probably a personal question to most but I was wondering if anyone abstained a few weeks leading up to the big day and did it work??? ie make the w.night xtra special xx Forum Poll
abtsaining
Does abstaining before the big night make your wedding night more sensual??
Poll Results
Total Votes:
14
yes
36%
no
36%
no difference
29%
CommentAuthornatalie2614
I cant vote on the poll as im not married yet and never have been, but i dont think i will be abstaining, what happens if the deed doesnt get done on the w.night due to tiredness? Would have all been for nothing lol xx
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CommentAuthorbarbie86
Personally, I find it weird. I've had s8x with my OH hundreds of times; abstaining just seems really odd.
Also, I'm not actually banking on having s8x the night of the wedding; I imagine we'll be exhausted, plus we plan on partying until 1-2am lol.
I guess I just don't really get all the hype TBH; I mean, it's hardly going to be different just because you're now married. But, that's just me; I've never really seen s8x as a big emotional thing.
CommentAuthorMel D
A few weeks???? We didn't ... but we did spend the two nights before apart so does that count?
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CommentAuthornatalie2614
Ive just thought as well, my h2b goes away in September for 6 months with the merchant navy, literally gets back 4 weeks before the wedding so I think I will have abstained enough
We abstained but it wasn't will power it was kids and stress. We didn't have s3x till 3 days after the wedding, due to sharing a villa with our 2 kids and my mum. Steve decided to hire a speed boat on the 3rd day and we ermmmm had a very good few private hours together out at sea.
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
I keep teasing H2b saying no more s3x before marriage and he just says 'I dont think so'...... Im getting married at the begining of the month and this is usually my 'lady week' so I dont think we will be do anything the night of the wedding!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorKarenB9
Nope I wont be able to do the deed on the night anyway!! i think i will be having my monthly then .
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well, we have twin boys who wear us out and my h2b works silly hours so to be honest i think we've been abstaining for a few years now! hahaha! only kidding but no...with 3 weeks left we're definitely not! (he's even planning on sneaking to my room the night b4 haha) xx
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CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
We didnt, but didn't have s£x for a bit before as both kids were really ill for about a week and half before so it was 4 in a bed. Didn't think we would on the night thought we'd be too knackered but after a 2am bath we managed before the zzzzzzzzzzzs caught up with us... seems like we've been 'dancing' more since getting married though not that we've planned too.
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CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
maybe my h2b has been doing this off and on for the last year and not told me??
no, i'll not be abstaining. i take it when i can!! lol
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CommentAuthorringerone
edited
Possibly will be abstaining. Biology has, for once been on my side and my 'lady week' (love that Oct12bride86) is now and just finishing now, tmi I know. However, I have already told h2b that I have plans for him, me, my wedding dress and the hotel bed as in Four Weddings, hopefully not with Hugh Grant walking in though.
CommentAuthorMrsShaw
we didnt, i cant remember when we last had s3x as an unmarried couple though.. but on the wedding night we did it 3 times ;)
xx
CommentAuthorShazk
Im with Kisywisy!!!
I wont be holding my breath of anything on the wedding night once H2B has the amount of vodka he probably consume ill have no chance :P x
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CommentAuthorOWB
We've already agreed that we won't be getting any action on our wedding night - we're holding our reception in a vodka bar! I can't see us abstaining, it just seems silly.
Blimey Mrs.Shaw!
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CommentAuthormym72
We definitely didn't lol. I couldn't see the point because once you're married s3x isn't any different anyway. We didn't on the wedding night because we were wrecked by the time we got to bed (early hours) as it had been a long day and we'd lost track of the drinks we'd been bought as well lol.
CommentAuthorPB
Ha ha Hugh Grant could walk in for me lol! We will be abstaining the night before but that is because i will be at the venue however h2bs 18 year old son is coming from Australia the Saturday before the wedding and staying in the next bedroom to ours.I think at best this will put a damper on our love life.On the night of the wedding there is a possibility that we will be sharing the bridal suite with our seven year old if she hasn't gone home with my sister and then h2bs son will be staying with us for another 2 nights before heading off to see relatives.Hopefully we should get a bit more 'quality time' then! (i have told my moh that she has to stand outside the bridal suite between the day and evening dos with a sign saying 'cleaning in progress' whilst h2b and i have a little lie down lol) x
CommentAuthorLlosa
I just asked H2B and he said 'ehhh yeah right!' so im going to be sinful for those few weeks mwhah
