I am abso gutted to be writing this, me and my h2b have had to change the wedding by a year, It has felt like i have wasted my time as we have done nothing but argue, Hopefully the wedding will be next year :(
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CommentAuthorkimi1987
me and my h2b were like that, we were constantly argueing about money and the wedding. so we decided to postpone by a year, not what we really wanted but its taken alot of the stress away and we can have a better day when we do it next year. hopefully things will be better for you hun x
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CommentAuthorMrsHarding2be
Thanks hun i hope so too, Cant be dealing with the arguements
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CommentAuthorkimi1987
i know what you mean. the way i looked at it was that its better to postpone the wedding, even tho deep down you dont want to, than to keep arguing and it possibly becoming to unbearable and then it come between u both
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CommentAuthorMrsHarding2be
Yeah Thats how i am looking at it otherwise i would be heartbroken
Sorry you've had to postpone, but hopefully it will take the pressure off x
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CommentAuthorclarebear1
Same hun we orignally booked a hotel local to us for October this year than cancelled lost £250, than booked scotland for Dec this year and cancelled and NOW have finally booked June 2013 for our wedding it does seem far far away but think how much you can save from now til than and you can chill a bit and not stress as much about money, My HTB was going out of his mind every night I came in from work thats all I woudl talk a bout money and wedding and in the end it was taking its toll so we have changed the date and its a big weight off our shoulder s sss
CommentAuthorClareS
Firstly big hugs. Can't imagine how you must be feeling. We only discussed the possibility of postponing and I felt devastated so my heart goes out to you. Rather you postpone and still plan things and have a bit longer than continue arguing. You want to look forward to the wedding at the end of all the planning, not think that you're wishing it would hurry up so it'd be the end of arguing and then things can go back to normal :( Enjoy the extra time, think about why you were arguing and see if you can change/simplify things to ease the pressure on you both xx
CommentAuthorJanie
I can totally understand you being downheartened by this. I know i would be too. I hope you can sort it all out and come to feel much better about everything
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