Hi all, sorry, me again on the rant board! But just needed to get this off my chest.
Thanks for 'listening' lol, xx.
CommentAuthorbrilly
bless ya hun dont pay any attention to her theres always gonna be a bit of jealousy when it comes to weddings hun there will always be 1 person that says "well we wanted our wedding there" or throwing hissy fits let them get on with it hun u just plan UR perfect day and have UR wedding where ever u want it to be if it huffs sil2b then so be it the day isnt about her its about what u and ur h2b want xxxx
31st August 2013 I became Mrs Carrick
Cant wait to do it all over again in 2018
CommentAuthorlinzipple
Don't let people stress you out. As far as you're concerned, your sil2b changed her mind about that venue... end of! Arrange your day so it's how you and H2B want it because at the end of the day, it's only you two that matter. She's probably just a bit bitter that she decided to buy a house instead of getting married so she's probably a bit jealous that you're planning your wedding. But she's still got the opportunity to have her day and she'll have it how she wants it and won't be worried about what anyone else thinks - so why should you! xx
CommentAuthorNatashaP86
aw hun that is rubbish but seems to be happening to many people i know. I think that you sil2b is jealous and wants to upset you so that when she does marry she thinks she had the best wedding. Dont let her get to you. I am having trouble with some people too, they keep telling me what is now old fashioned at a wedding and how i should have certain things, i havent told anyone what i want or will have because i am already sick of the comments, tbh if they dont like my choice when they get an invite they can just say they cant come, no skin of my nose and at least nobody will have any ideas of what my day will be till i want them too x
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
If you are anything like me there arent that many places around the area you are in that are in budget, so it is inevitable that someone you know will have either got married there before you or be married there after you. Every wedding is different and just because it is in the same place doesn't make it the same wedding. She sounds jealous to me and is just finding a way of trying to get people to sympathise with her so that she feels better about it. I say ignore her and do what you and h2b want to do. You will never make everyone happy, so concentrate on you and h2b doing what makes you to happy, forget about everyone else xxxx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
Just let her get on with her paddy fit, at the end of the day she hasnt set a date yet and you have its you and h2bs day you should have what you want. I to had a kind of similer problem, this will be my second marriage and I wanted dark red bridesmaids, but my friend who had already announced she was getting married 2 weeks before us had picked the colour I wanted, so i chose another colour as we had only just picked our date (which I saw as fair) I then brought my bridesmaide dress, and then two months later my friend tells me her wedding is off, I was soooooooooo gutted lol.x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
