Ok ladies, i'm not entirely sure what it's called but I need some kind of timetable checklist. With 10 months to go I need a bit of guidance such as it's 9 months left 'have you booked the DJ?' Have you contacted your registrar? blah blah blah! Is this the free wedding planner you're all going on about? If not where could I get a checklist thingy? I've had 2 magazines but they were not featured. How do I get one of those free wedding planners? I'm confooooosed! :0S
is Mrs Suzie Bear!!!!
Gotta be pink!!! :0)
I think I blinked and missed our wedding!! lol
CommentAuthorRachie :D
I was bought one tbh - but all these planners etc say a different thing and its confusing
9th June 2012 when two worlds collide
The Crazy Cat Lady and the Transformer Man!
CommentAuthorKerrylou
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Somewhere I have a checklist from a brides bible - I'll go find then copy & paste it, be warned though, it's an eye melter LOL It might be of some help. The free wedding planner is basically a folder to keep your bookings/contracts in - it's no more than a glorified document wallet (imo anyway) xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Bride’s Essential To Do List!
To Do As Soon As Possible: Tell everyone the exciting news Decide whether you and your Fiancé would like a religious or civil ceremony Set a provisional date If you opt for religious organise a meeting with your minister/priest/rabbi If you opt for civil book the ceremony venue or registry office Check legal requirements regarding marriage certificates and other requirements such as Banns/Notice Set a realistic budget, and decide between yourselves and parents who will pay for what Choose your Maid/Matron of Honour, Best Man and other attendants (make sure they’re available and willing) Compile a provisional guest list to get a rough idea of numbers Discuss ceremony and reception venue options and arrange to view them At least make a provisional booking of any favourite venues, you don’t want them getting snapped up while you’re still deciding Once you’ve decided on a venue make a decision about timings Once you’re happy with venue and timings pay the deposits required Decide (with Fiancé) colour schemes and possible themes you might like If you want to hire a professional wedding planner now is the time to do so Send out save the dates if you are planning to
8 - 10 Months Before Shop for your wedding dress - remember you’ll need plenty of time for alterations and custom designs Once your dress is chosen shop for accessories and shoes Research and book your photographer Organize wedding insurance Book Bridal suite for your wedding night Discuss menu options and drinks packages with your caterer/reception venue. Arrange a tasting appointment Book your band/DJ/live entertainment Order your wedding cake, make sure you have fun having a tasting session first Start thinking about your Honeymoon destination Discuss your wedding flower ideas with a florist Book transport to and from your venues (remembering transport for parents and attendants too)
6-8 Months Before: Begin your beauty and personal health regime Confirm your menu and drink choices with caterer If you’re having a religious ceremony discuss readings and music with your minister/priest/rabbi Order your wedding stationary Decide on flower choices and book your florist Book your Honeymoon and confirm first night bridal suite booking Find out if you need Visas, inoculations or any other course of medication (example: malaria tablets) for your honeymoon
4-6 Months Before: Book a consultation with your hairdresser to discuss possible styles Remind your Fiancé to get his and his attendants outfirs Choose gifts for attendants Confirm your order of service and have it printed Compile a gift list if you’re having one Choose and order wedding favours Start to plan your rehearsal dinner and tot up number of guests Choose your wedding rings Start thinking about make up plans Discuss possible Hen night plans
2-4 Months Before: Send out Invitations, venue/accommodation details and directions, menu choices, gift lists and any other information for your guests. Or you can choose to send out an information pack once guests confirm their attendance. Keep an updated list of acceptances and refusals Make sure that any accommodation has been booked for family members where applicable If you’re having a religious ceremony book a time and date for a rehearsal Check your Fiancé and his attendants are on track for the day and outfits have been ordered Book beauty treatments such as: fake tan, nails waxing etc Purchase any new make up needed OR book make up artist If you’re choosing to do a speech start writing your ideas down now Discuss special requests and play list choices with your DJ or band including first dance choice Write or choose your wedding vows 1-2 Months: Contact any guests you have not had an RSVP from Confirm final guest numbers and other details with your reception venue and/or caterers. Have your final trial with your hairdresser before the big day Arrange a final fitting for your wedding dress preferably taking one or two of your attendants with you, they’ll need to learn how to help you into your dress for the big day Try your dress on with all your accessories so you know how it will look and if you are missing anything Draw up a seating plan for guests Finalise your speech details and practice it. Re-confirm bookings for suppliers and deliveries to the venue eg cake and flowers Order your honeymoon currency Make a list of must have shots for your photographer and let photographer know If you’re changing your surname write to banks doctor inland revenue and any other official bodies you need to, to give them notice Wear in your wedding shoes a little by wearing them around the house
2 Weeks Before: Have your final haircut and colour before the wedding Attend your rehearsal dinner Have the hen and stag parties!!! ENJOY!
1 Week Before: Church/Venue rehearsal Start to pack for honeymoon Check tickets, passports and any other travel requirements Go through any last minute details with your attendants, venue and suppliers
The Day Before: Attend your beauty treatment appointments Arrange for luggage and any other necessary items to be sent to reception/first night venue Help decorate reception venue if necessary Have a relaxing evening and head to bed early to be nice and refreshed in the morning
YOUR BIG DAY!!!!!! Get up nice and early, so that you give yourself plenty of time to relax and get ready without having a mad rush. Make sure you eat breakfast, your nerves might tell you you’re not hungry but you’ll feel better with something in your stomach and you don’t want to faint at the ceremony Have your hair and make up done Get dressed with the help of your attendants The Mother of the Bride and Bridesmaids leave first, followed by the Bride and her Father Now it’s time to make your entrance. Enjoy your day xXx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
OMG!!! Thank you soooooooo much! This is exactly what I've been after! Gonna copy and paste it. Will print off and put on the noticeboard! Thank you, thank you, thank you :0) :0) :0)
So much to think of xx
is Mrs Suzie Bear!!!!
Gotta be pink!!! :0)
I think I blinked and missed our wedding!! lol
Glad it's what you were after - it's the mother of all checklists lol (Thanks to Stace Fairy ModMother for sending it to me in the first place!!) xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
edited
kerrylou did i ever tell you I LOVE YOU??? ;-)
(P.S what brides bible do you have???)
EDIT just seen stace sent you it so i better say i love her too but she knows i wuffffff her hehehe
UKBride moderator both on here and on facebook
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.
CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
I bet other brides on here would find this extremely useful!! Maybe bump it up for a bit or cut and paste your info under a new title? x
is Mrs Suzie Bear!!!!
Gotta be pink!!! :0)
I think I blinked and missed our wedding!! lol
CommentAuthorKerrylou
WOOHOO!! Hails loves me :D
I might add it to a new thread and ask the mods to make it sticky for a couple of hours/days xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
I think you should ask!! I'm a wimp! lol It would cut down on the how many months before should I...? questions xx
is Mrs Suzie Bear!!!!
Gotta be pink!!! :0)
I think I blinked and missed our wedding!! lol
CommentAuthorKerrylou
I've just posted it - hopefully Hails will see this and sticky it, if not I'll ask one of the scary mods tomorrow ;) xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthormummyto2
lol, one of the scary mods
im a married women now
mrs carson-moores
i love my hubby and my kids with all my heart and soul
CommentAuthorsammys
go onto wedding ideas magazine site, click on just engaged? section they have downloadable time plans for the actual day, photographers list and a budget planner!
