It just ticked in my head today that I am going to have to wait years before Im married. My partner has mentioned that he would like our son to have a sibling. I have wanted this for a while so very pleased with this. We plan to start trying at the end of this year. I would hate to get married without this unborn child so I have a long wait. My main issue is now I dont feel engaged anymore due to this long wait.
CommentAuthorUnknown
i hope it isnt too long a wait. at least it will give you time to save. if i was you i would save a little every month. i wish i had done this when i first got engaged!!
You can always look for ideas of things for your wedding so when the time comes you know what you do and dont want
congrats on trying for a baby. i cant wait to be trying!! x
CommentAuthorMrs Steer
Aww its a lovely reason to postpone though :) xx
Is now happily married to my gorgeous man
11-06-11
CommentAuthorboo
Its nice to hear someone postponing for a more positive reason (I get sad when I see people on here cancelling or postponing). You can save up more waiting longer and have more of the stuff you want (including both your children at the wedding) (or more if its twins lol)
Can't wait to be Mrs Foster 21/06/2012 :D
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CommentAuthorEmsy5000
that's a nice reason to postpone is there not some little bits of planning you can do to keep you in the mood
Dyslexic
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Thankyou girls i feel a bit better and i guess i still have to loose weight and plan the big day so ill still be hanging around here
CommentAuthorlaurabrown83
Why can't you get married b4 u have another child? If you're not happy about waiting?
CommentAuthornickers
aw thats nice hun when are you due to get maRried ur prfile is restricted xxx
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CommentAuthorgreyarea
Im not happy about waiting but i would be even less happy if i have to explain to a child that they werent at our wedding because we couldnt wait
We hadnt set a date and have not spent any money making it alot easier to prospone. I always thought I would have a long engagement but never anything more than a couple of years lol
CommentAuthormiasmummy
we postponed our wedding we should have got married september 2010 but found out just after booking that i was pregnant, so now we are getting married next year but looking back i am so glad we did postpone because now our baby girl will be a part of our day. x
CommentAuthorlaurabrown83
I wouldn't have thought it would b a problem having to explain to a child why they werent at their parents wedding? Most kids arnt born by that point!! lol!
CommentAuthorboo
I can see Greys point, one is, and the other won't be...you'd be surprised what siblings argue about! lol
Can't wait to be Mrs Foster 21/06/2012 :D
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I'll be 9 when I get married....
CommentAuthorgreyarea
It just doesnt seem right having one child there and not the other one i would just feel guilty
CommentAuthorSteffie
my friends got married in November 2009 on their 10th anniversary. They had a daughter at this point who was 2 and a half and Laura was pregnant at around 24 weeks with a little boy, so their son was part of the wedding too! Laura wasn't best pleased that she couldn't drink on her wedding night Laura is trying to convincebut she was pleased because their children were both there in some form! Now Laura is trying to convince Matt for baby number 3!!!! maybe all three may be present at my wedding, but doubt it! xxxx
