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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Please remember that links can only be put on either your wall or the wall of the person you are helping. Any links put on the forum will be removed.

    Thank you in advance for co-operation in this matter.

    Dove, UKBride Moderator.

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    • Suzi
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    Gotcha ☺

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    • lotbot
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    im sorry, i forgot :( x
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    thanks dove hun,x~x~x
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    • Rebecca2286
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    Sorry!!!! I got swept up in the excitement of booking my venue!! Sorry!!!
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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    are we allowed to mention other sites!!
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    If its a general name like ebay or amazon etc- I think its generally ok. If your not sure, just put it on your wall.

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    • x~Hails~x
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    ops just seen this lol after editing the other one lol :-) sorry dove

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Its such a fine line between the two... sort of like discussing Ann?

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    • ohfiddles
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    are we not aloud to discuss her then?
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    We are... as long as we don't link to the website.

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    • x~Hails~x
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    LOL its kinda like advertising her site when we do so not really. But everyone mention's and uses her so ?????

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    • DrunchPunk
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    Just to stick my oar in - I agree it's a fine line. But I think you were right to delete, Hails..

    But there is a distinction between 'discussing' and 'advertising', and I think most people stick the right side, and most who stray off don't do so deliberately!

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    I think it just depends on the context of the conversation...
    This job is hard sometimes!

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    • x~Hails~x
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    lol Tell me about it dove.

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    • DrunchPunk
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    Again, I'm going to swing my oar about - but I think it's ok to mention a site in passing, or in response to a question, if someone asks, and if you don't post a link (since that seems to be an absolute rule)

    But I would say that posting a whole thread about how great a particular site is crosses the line into 'advertising', even though the person posting might not mean anything but to help!

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    • DrunchPunk
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    But what do I know, I'm a troublemaker :(

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Oh and DP- I think you summed it up really well to be honest!

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    • DrunchPunk
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    Also, mods, there a question for you on J' most recent 'voting' thread :D

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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    ohhh right!!- ummmsometimes its confusing lol!!

    Drunkpunch - why do u keep saying ur a troublemaker???
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    • DrunchPunk
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    J said so. He's mean.

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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    ohhhh lmao!!
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    • UKBride (Boss Man)
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    I am not mean!!! lol

    I have deleted the website of which you mention Lisa as they are a competitor website which sells nearly new wedding dresses (just like us, plug) - and yes I am allowed to plug my own website.

    Just to make it clear again. and to answer some points (already covered before), the problem is you see, some wedding businesses are 'sneaky' they join as a bride and say 'in passing' - "hey has anyone heard of ****** I have heard they are quite good" - some are far more clever.

    So the answer for all Mods is to delete unless its so well known like Macdonalds, Ebay, Facebook but not any UK site that sells anything to do with weddings as they are competitors of this site (or wedding businesses who are either paying for our services or not). Either way their is plenty of opportunities for them to make you aware of their services.

    Allowing people to plug away (except me) - upsets our advertisers and some of our members.

    Any questions?

    J x x x

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Thanks for clarifying that J. Sorry for the confusion.

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    • UKBride (Boss Man)
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    No worries at all Dove x

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    SO DOES THAT MEAN WHEN IV BEN SAYING I GOT SOMETHING OFF EBAY BUT NOT USING THE LINK,THAT IV BEEN NAUGHTY TO!!!!,,OH DEAR,TO BLONDE TODAY
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    • UKBride (Boss Man)
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    Stop mentioning the site Lisa! It's been deleted again!!!

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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    hayyyyyyyy - how come we can say ebay- they sell far more nearly new wedding dresses then the site i said!!
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    • DrunchPunk
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    Haha Lisa - I think he said above - that some sites are so well known that not even J can pretend they don't exist!

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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    yeah i thought that was it!!! - but kinda silly not to mention others really!!! - but hay- just my opinion- lol
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    im feeling incredably blonde today and nothings making sense at all!!!!,,i just dont get it
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    • Goff
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    See if this helps Tiggs

    You can mention sites like Ebay etc and have a conversation about them because EVERYONE has heard of them, but you can't mention other sites that sell wedding related stuff.

    For example, its fine to say

    "I saw this great dress/tiara on ebay what do you think" - then the link is posted on their wall or the walls of other ladies who want a nosey.

    But you cant say

    "i know this great site called *insert name* they have fabulous dresses and tiaras" - thats classed as plugging another site which is also a competitor to UKB because they offer a similar service.

    Millions of people use ebay and its a site that sells almost anything you can think of - its NOT in direct competion with UKB - and its known in every household in the world!

    But sites that may never have been heard of are not allowed.

    Does that make sense??

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    • x~Hails~x
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    Silly question and no-one jump on me please :-(
    What about mentioning Ann??

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    ahhhh i got it hun,,,so its basically sites that are in competition,,,thank you for that explanation understood lol
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    I think J will have to clarify that one...

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    i think because anne doesnt advertise on here and we only post links on peoples walls its ok,but it might be worth while checking with J
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    • Lisa"n"Iain
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    well shes on ebay- so ummmmmm kinda off a yes and no- yes coz its ebay- lmao- no coz she makes wedding dresses which *could* take away business from ppl on here selling dresses - wayyyyhayyyy that was a good speech wasn't it- lol
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    • Goff
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    She comes under the advertising heading Hails - therefore any posts about her should be edited :-)

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    • x~Hails~x
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    yeah i will do just thought everyone is always plucking her including me :-) lol

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    its a really difficult one hun
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    So can she be referred to as Ann? Or just as 'A dressmaker' ?

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    • Goff
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    ok lets try this:

    ANYONE or ANYTHING that sells wedding related items, EXCLUDING Ebay, is not allowed. Ebay is a generic term for the selling of goods - now if you mentioned the SELLER on ebay by NAME that would be advertising and is not allowed.

    :-D

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    iv got no idea,lisa raised a good point there as she is on ebay which we are allowed to name but she has the web site that we arnt allowed to name
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    As long as we are all agreed on a consistant policy.

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    we have to be
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    • x~Hails~x
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    what about the 2 about her further down the page?

    Tut this job can be confusing lol

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    • Goff
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    Ill try again

    Simply put:

    "Down the market theres some lovely wedding dresses"

    "on ebay there's some lovely wedding dresses"

    Not exactly advertising a seller in particular is it

    Whereas:

    "I got my dress from Shop A"

    "I got my dress from THIS LADY"

    IS.....

    Now do you get it? :-D

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    • x~Hails~x
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    sorry posted the same time lol

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    i guess we could call her the fairy godmother lol
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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    in conclusion, when I was writing about "well known burger place" the other day, I was allowed to say it was macdonalds then :P

    I get what J is saying. generic sites yes (but no links) competitors are a no no

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