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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    We went to see the priest yesterday to discuss details for the wedding and I got really excited.. anywho, I asked about entrance music, I wanted to walk down the aisle to pachabel cannon in D or Kissing you by Des'ree, I wasnt sure which one but then when I asked the priest if this was ok, he said that they no longer allow non religious music in the church! Im a bit disappointed and will have to walk into the normal wedding march. I know its only a small detail but I really had my heart set on either piece of music..

    I wouldnt mind the standard wedding march isnt religious! booooo!

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    • jodie b
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    aw thats rubbish :( could you have them playing as you make your entrance into the reception? xx

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    • Lisa Ramos
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    Yeah thats right, the wedding march isn't religious!

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    My mum said that but I always visioned walking down the aisle to one of them!

    I could have kissing you at the reception... I might speak to the priest again and ask if the organist can play pachabels cannon on the organ in church? I dont see why I couldnt have that?

    I cant help feeling disappointed and I should really get over it!

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    How crazy. Sounds like your vicar- or th eorganist??- is set in their ways.

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    I know.. david could tell i was disappointed when i left. I dont see why it cant be played if the organist is playing it. xxx

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    • mitch2509
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    thats weird hun! so what sone do you gotta have~?




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    • mitch2509
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    thats weird hun! so what song do you gotta have?




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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    I dont know now, the priest just said a standard wedding march which to me pachabels cannon is?

    grrrrr - im making myself mad about it!

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Ive just you tubed it to see what it sounds like played on an organ and it sounds really nice.. x

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Right, ive been googling and have found a website that lists the songs you can havie in churh as your wedding procession song... and cannon in d is on there!

    I might ring the organist later and ask her what her opinion is. x

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    I thought you could have anything you like- I definately did!

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Well thats what I thought Dove but apparently not! grrrr

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    • loubylou
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    i thought you could have anything you liked too ... i wonder if thats different depending on the minister? we are just in the process of picking songs too, i will have to be prepared now. think we having the organist anyway just not sure on music. we stuck for hymns and readings too. x

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    The priest gave us phtotocopies of all the readings we can choose from yesterday and has let us borrow a hymn book too so we could choose the ones we like. x

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    • Emsy5000
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    you don't have to have the normal wedding march though you could find another 'religious' piece of music to walk down the aisle to.

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    • dee
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    We were told that we could have whatever music we liked (within reason), for the entrance, signing of the register e.t.c. Must depend on the priest. But it is YOUR day not his! Xx

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    • pennieb-MrsRiley
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    Erm... I'm getting married in church and walking down the aisle to Pachebel... made absolutely no difference to our vicar - we can have anything we want throughout the ceremony! I think this is your vicar trying it on!

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    I didn't want the wedding march either as we are walking in as man and wife for a blessing so we are having ave maria instead which is going to be sung by the choir so will sound amazing. We are also having amazing grace as a hymn too. You could always pick something like that as it falls in with the religious hymns but isn't the wedding march.




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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    mmm, thats something to think about definitely! thanks girlies! :) xxxxx

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    • sbride
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    Aw hun thats really unfair. We are aloud to have whatever music we like in the church. I personally want to walk down the aisle to a traditional wedding march but we are having a song instead of a 3rd hymm, a song for signing the register and a song for when we leave the church. Our vicar has oked this.

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    • Steffie
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    if ur vicar still won't allow it, ask for another vicar!!! Can you do that??? xxx
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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    I dont know Steffie.. I just dont know! :/ xx

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    • *Kat B*
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    is it a CofE church hun??

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    No Roman Catholic but I think the principles are still the same... xx

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    • *Kat B*
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    ah no worries hun, i've put the catholic one on for you xx

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Thank you hun! your very helpful! xxxx

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    • *Kat B*
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    It's alright hun, tbh I was bored of looking for shoes one day so trawled the net looking for tips on planning the wedding service and saw that you could actually print it all off was well chuffed haha xx

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    :) xxxx

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    • suzky123
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    this is why we didnt want a church ceremony... far too restricting. Bach does some beautiful religious music.

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    • sbride
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    I think its only certain churches that are restricting. Our church has been extremely flexible and have said as long as we have one hymm and one bible reading, we can pretty much having anything else we want. But some churches are stricter then others. I hope they change their mind hun x

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    • Rhiannonollie
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    this is another fine example why we are not having our wedding in a church and are having a civil ceremony. I think sometimes churches can be a little too strict! :(

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    • x ashlil x
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    its the same at our church hun, we can only have religious or classical music. x
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    • suzky123
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    it makes me laugh because they complain that fewer and fewer ppl are choosing a religious ceremony which affects their income... make it less strict and im sure you'll fix the problem.

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    • Rhiannonollie
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    i agree with you Suzky!

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    • Rhiannonollie
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    I mean of course if you wanted a devil worshiping song as you walk in I can understand why they wouldnt be too pleased - but Desree's kissing you is sooo beautiful!!

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    • suzky123
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    i dont understand how they can begrudge Pachebels canon either.... its madness... Have you spoken to the priest since and explained that you are really unhappy with this as this is the first time that these 'rules' were mentioned. Ask if there can be a compromise? Ive not heard the kissing you song but im sure its lovelly and you should be allowed to have what you like within reason. As Rhiannonollie says, its not like your having a mad song like iron maiden as you go down the aisle.

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    well i dont think he understood me to be honest... i wanted a cd verdsion of pachabels cannon with the violins in it etc.. i think he may have assumed it was a pop song!

    Ive tried to ring him again to just check but he isnt answering... Ive called the woman who is the organist at church too. She will be able to tell me.. i just have to wait for one of them to call me back!

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Thats what Im thinking, its really bugged me though! xx

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    • lil miss sunshine
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    oh hon i hope you get it soughted think he thought you wanted some kinda chart artist lol so try him again or pop over to the church and see if you can catch him there .....our vicar have mondays off dont know if this is the norm or just our church

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    • suzky123
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    it would surprise me if he didnt know pachelbels canon.... queen of sheeba is really nice too! lovelly choices if you can have either.

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    *****UPDATE******

    I spoke with the suggested organist today, she cant do our wedding personally as she is going away on holiday on that very day so we have to ask another woman. I asked her what her opinion was on whether or not I was allowed Pachabels Cannon, she said that as it can be played on the piano/organ so it should ok.

    Im so relieved, I just need to find an organist now! :/ eeek!


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    • shellay
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    thats a shame, i thought you could chose the music :) x

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    its the priest at my church, he has a zero tolerance to outside music but thats his personal preference.

    Different parishes have different rules. x

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    • Mrs Steer
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    Phew, double check before you get double excited hun but that cool if u can :) xx

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Im going to ask tomorrow when i go to church and see what he says. So fingers crossed! :) xxxx

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    • Rachie :D
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    I'd hate the wedding march - trust me after 160 civil ceremonies it gets old lol

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    I dont think there is anything exciting about the wedding march... it doesnt do anything for me! lol x

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Our Church was quite happy we chose Pachelbels canon rather than "disco music" their words not mine. We are having the trans siberian orchestra chirstmas version of it tho but not the rock version. The music director was really enthusiastic about it and told us we can load it along with our other music choices onto an Ipod and he will do the rest. xx

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    • ekielty(now Trow)
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    Thats good! :) x

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