Has anybody got any tips on nerves; it's less than 3 weeks now and everytime I think about the set-up day before and 'the' day my stomach turns! Spent 2 years planning fine details; have about 30 boxes of decorations and surprises ready to go to the venue and I'm just so worried something is going to happen to ruin it all!!!
CommentAuthorHeLz
Oh how exciting! Nothing will go wrong, good luck!
CommentAuthormcquire81
Nerves are completely natural hun, after all that planning and organising you are nearly done so im not surprised your worrying! But you cant control everything so the best thing to do is have a stiff drink take a deep breath, check you have everything in order and calm down!!! You will be fine, you will look amazing, your day will be stunning and afterwards you will probably wonder why you were so worried!!! Best of luck and wishes xx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Oh hon you will be fine dont worry. Take some big breaths and relax. I recommend hypnotism or deep relaxation techniques if you can have that done. It feel like your on cloud nine after. My doctor hypnotised me and H2B.
Kirsty xxx
Was 14 st now 11st 10lb
CommentAuthorsamwiseheart
im sure everything will be fantasic hun, you spent all this time planning just relax and enjoy your day, the little things wont matter when your married youll be so excitied and happy that nothing will matter! xx
I agree nerves are natural - just make sure you have time for yourself to relax and have some space Even if you dont use lists it can be helpful to write everything you need to do out and if you can delegate lots to others so that the pressure isnt all on you Even if a couple of things dont turn out exactly as you planned you probably wont even notice on the day so dont worry too much :) Good luck with the last few weeks of planning x
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CommentAuthorMinniemoocher
Thank you ladies :) my dad's not too well at the moment- just come down with an infection; so that's really worrying me - hoping he'll be ok soon and fully recovered. Also had a meeting at the hotel (old wedding co-ordinator left) - and a lot of our details hadn't been passed on; so panicked a bit (lot!) but hopefully there won't be any last minute panics. Geeez I'm going to be shattered by the end of it all!!! xxx
CommentAuthorloustew2012
everyone gets those nerves before something big so dont worry about it, it natural. best thing to do is to try and relax dont think about things you think might go wrong and concentrate on the planning youve done and how your wedding is going to be the best day you will both have. think of the positives never the negatives!!!!
xxx
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Theres no way without you.
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CommentAuthorFuture mrs mac
It will be fab!excited to see all your pics :) Don't stress if things don't go exactly to plan just enjoy yourself xx
CommentAuthorDee37
You can't not be nervous but I found on the day i was just really excited to get to the church you will feel exactly the time. The time flies by, one minute you're having your hair done then its the end of the day. I was so happy i forgot all about being nervous and took a big deep breath and walked up the aisle.
Its great to sit and eat your meal watching everyone enjoy all the little touches you've spent months making and planning and if something silly goes wrong it really doesn't matter. I was the same as you with 3 wks to go and now i've been married 6 weeks. Enjoy every minute! xxx
CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
When I was taking my driving lessons, I was so nervous, my legs would turn 2 jelly. Not what u want when ur trying 2 control the car! I kept stalling and it was becoming a problem, so I found a breathing technique, which u have 2 practice - It isn't a quick fix.
The technique - breath in for 4 secs, hold it for 7 seconds and then breath out for 6 seconds.
Don't keep repeating it otherwise you'll become very light headed!
Oh, and I passed 1st time, so it definitely worked!!
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CommentAuthorNikkiB
I'm beginning to feel sick now n sometimes I feel like I wanna cry ( a good cry!!)....Scary times!!! xx
CommentAuthorJules
I'm sure you'll be fine minniemoocher & NickkiB, everything will be just perfect. Have you thought about trying Rescue Remedy, it's a herbal remedy that calms you down, I take it if i'm goind on holiday for the flight because i'm not good with flying.
I'm marrying the man of my dreams xx
CommentAuthorMinniemoocher
Girls - some great advice and lovely comments here - thank you so much!! Will defo get some Rescue Remedy and breathe slowly!! :) I'm very excited; just scary 2 years of fine details and endless preparations - hope it all comes together! :) xx
CommentAuthorJules
It will all be worth it hun & it will be just PERFECT xxx
I'm marrying the man of my dreams xx
CommentAuthorjo Santa
I sympathise with you Minniemoocher. I've got 18 days and I'm not worried about the day, just about finishing all the preparations as there is still so much to do. I feel sick at the thought of it all and I've got Ostrich syndrome - I can't do any of it. It'll have to kick in soon or we've had it, lol. I guess we'll all be fine. Nerves are a good thing, I'm told...
Jo Santa
CommentAuthorMinniemoocher
Awwww I feel your pain - lots to do still too and some major last minute panics at the hotel. I guess on the day all the stress will be forgotten - not long now and you can enjoy yourself xx
CommentAuthorsparkle
ah girls ive only 29 days left and feeling bit too calm i think, am trying to focus on christmas but good luck girls am sure ill start to panic soon hehe xxxx
omg it now says 2 months to go xx
CommentAuthorMinniemoocher
What a lovely time to get wed sparkle - you'll be well in the throws of xmas joys!xx
CommentAuthorsparkle
thanks minnie moocher and good luck for you also have a fab day xxxx
