Anyone else start to get nervous as the Big Day approaches and worry that you haven't got enough time too get every little detail sorted?? We've only got £361 left too pay on the wedding and everything will be paid for! I just wish we had more time though as I feel quite rushed, as it'll only take one 'unexpected' bill to hit us and it could throw a spanner in the works! With only 3 pay days left (we get paid weekly) it's already down to the wire! If we hadn't have already sent the invites out I'd be thinking about changing the date too next year lol! Please tell me this is normal and everything will work out as planned!
Getting ready to marry my soul mate! :-D
CommentAuthorleasa
Take a deep breath and relax for a few mins.
It's normal! But it will all fall into place. No one else will notice any thing that doesn't quite go to plan (our cake topper arrived yesterday, we got married a week ago, no one noticed there was no topper on the cake).
Until next payday things are very tight, but we'll get through it, and so will you.
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorNelinde
Thank you for the reassurance :) Unfortunately they're big things left too pay lol. £200 left on the horse and carriage, £39 left on my veil, £45 left on my hoop and then £77 left too pay for my hair to be dyed and put up on the day lol! I'm sure it will all go too plan I just can't shake these silly doubts lol!
Getting ready to marry my soul mate! :-D
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
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Hun, don't worry, if a bill comes in it can wait, it won't need paying immediately. Get your wedding paid off, enjoy the last few weeks in the run up to your day.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthormichgib
Bills can wait just relax and start enjoying the build up to your big day
The only person who will know that a little detail is missing will be you. Everyone else will be there to celebrate your marriage.
I would also take it as really good news that you are so close to paying everything off. So many people still have to pay off things after the wedding which must be such a stress. I really hope we're in the same place as you next year! X
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Don't worry, it's normal to feel like this, just make a list of everything that needs sorting out. You'll get everything covered off x
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorNelinde
Thank you ladies :)
Getting ready to marry my soul mate! :-D
CommentAuthorRachaelB76
hope all is more relaxed now and you are enjoying your last 2 weeks x
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
The biggest thing that helped me when I got anxious was to come up with a plan B for just about everything that I could imagine going wrong. That meant that when the lady who was going to decorate the cake (we had friends baking it) let us down, we were able to make other arrangements. For anything that worries you, I would say rather than keeping your fingers crossed and hoping it doesn't happen, think about what you can do if it does, and then you will be more relaxed. For example if a bill comes in that takes away from the wedding fund, would the people be willing to delay your payment, or is there someone that can lend you the money.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorNelinde
Thank you that is really good advice :)
Getting ready to marry my soul mate! :-D
CommentAuthorRachaelB76
thats good advice elinor will remember that in 4 months or more than likely will need reminding lol x
CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
That's great you only have a few things left to pay off, sounds abit like wedding nerves so don't worry Hun :) just look forward to enjoying your big day :) xx
CommentAuthorHazelM69
Sounds perfectly normal to me, I got even longer and still have 'omg' moments, then I just sit back and remember what the day is actually about and how as long as but he end of it Im married to my fiancé its a great day