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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Oct 23rd 2017
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    Hi Everyone,

    We have picked a date for our wedding which falls on our 10 year anniversary.

    We have picked our venue and very happy with the price but the food is what we are finding most expensive.

    Do you think it is too early to start planning?

    I am constantly worrying that we aren't going to be able to afford everything and can't shift the feeling! Did anyone else have concerns?

    xx

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Oct 23rd 2017
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    Hiya Lauren, welcome to the site, I hope you have fun here and happy planning. You'll certainly find lots of useful tips.

    As for planning, nope, you can look at places, some may not take bookings yet but at least when you can you'll know what and where you want.

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Oct 23rd 2017
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    Nope as in not too early is what I meant.

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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Oct 24th 2017
     
    Thank you. We are planning an early 2020 (February) wedding so just over 2 years away.

    The venue we like is taking bookings and will give us the venue at 2019 price as they haven't released 2020s yet which is a bonus. They want half of the venue cost as a deposit though which I am reluctant to pay.

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 18 months ago
      Posted: Oct 26th 2017
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    I booked our church and venue Jan 2015 for our wedding 3 weeks ago. So 2 yrs, 10 months in advance. All you can do is ask and see what they will do for you xx

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    Met in 2009
    He proposed Jan 2014
    Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 1st 2017
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    I'm feeling the same as you right now, Venue cost OK, but food is costing us more than the venue.

    It's crazy

    We are May 2020, but haven't paid deposit just yet, making sure we can afford it first

    Just crazy as although the venue price is 2017 prices, the food will go up as they cant stay the same due to food costs...

    GAH. So hard!

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 1st 2017
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    Also; I'm marrying on my 10 year anniversary as well :)

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Nov 2nd 2017
     
    Rhi - have you looked at paying a deposit now for the food? When we were looking at a venue we were told we could pay 10% now and the food price would stay the same.

    We did however look at a different venue last night and booked it. They had such an amazing package on which included:

    For up to 80 day guests
    Fully licensed Gazebo & Water Terrace for Ceremony
    Candle Lit ceremony area with cosy blankets
    A choice of vintage fish and chip van served outside or a traditional hog roast served on the terrace for a more relaxed feel
    Red and white or rose wine served with meal- a choice of 2
    Champagne and canapé reception
    Champagne for toasts
    Toastmaster supplied from Toastmasters Kent
    Up to 3 tier Wedding cake
    Cake stand & knife
    A choice of Vintage bridal cars
    Table Centre Pieces- design to be selected
    DJ Disco
    Evening Bacon Butties and Chip Cones for 150 guests
    Fully dressed Venue Hire including table linen, cutlery & crockery.
    Personal wedding reception planner
    White chair covers with sash colour of your choice and table runners to match
    Kids vintage drinks dispense station
    A Sweetie Table
    Post box
    Full set up of event to Bride & Groom’s brief

    The price was so reasonable and worked out the same price as just the venue and food where we were originally looking. Obviously it helps that we want a winter wedding.

    So glad I am not the only one looking so far ahead and love the idea of a 10 year anniversary wedding :)

    I hope you get somewhere booked soon xx

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Nov 2nd 2017
     
    P.s. I had to copy your signature idea - love it!

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Nov 3rd 2017
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    I hope you don't mind but will make this the official 2020 thread so anyone who joins can chat in here if they are getting married in that year.

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    • PenguinJ
      CommentAuthorPenguinJ
      Getting married in 14 months
      Posted: Nov 5th 2017
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    We are 2020 too. July.
    We are looking at booking the venue next August which gives us 2 years to book and save. X

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    So lucky to be marrying my soulmate on 18/07/20


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    • LisaC205
      CommentAuthorLisaC205
      Getting married in 16 months
      Posted: Nov 6th 2017
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    Hi everyone. I'm new to this forum. My partner proposed in august this year and we have already set a date and booked our venue.
    We are getting married August 2020. Decided on colour scheme and style of cake.
    Still lots to sort but loads of time to save x
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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Nov 6th 2017
     
    Glad I'm not the only one who is that prepared Lisa! I have booked our venue, chosen our colours, have lots of ideas for the cake design and everything else I have an idea on x

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 7th 2017
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    Lauren, that package sounds so good! So glad you found somewhere amazing.

    I'm not too sure about deposit for food but i'm going to their open day (which i'm hoping will be the time to put down our deposit and save our date - eeek!) in a couple of weeks, so will ask then, thank you! :)

    & yeah me too, I love the symmetry as well - 2020 and only one date to remember haha, they have no excuses now!

    I have a full pinterest board of ideas but havent done anything yet - we brought our first home in feb, so savings are shot at minute - working on getting some money behind us first.

    I did however try on 2 dressed at Wed2B just as we were near the shop, i LOVED it, but wont do it again until lost some weight - but actually i didnt even feel bad in the dress, was amazing.

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • LisaC205
      CommentAuthorLisaC205
      Getting married in 16 months
      Posted: Nov 7th 2017
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    Rhi. .. I've seen loads in Wed2b as well. Great prices for the dresses. Can't wait to try on
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 15th 2017
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    Whats your proposal stories?

    I got engaged 20th August this year, at 7AM in the morning! haha

    I must say first, he isnt romantic atall, so this is a shocker :)

    I had predicted it was coming, i had already waited 7 years for a ring, but he showed me a text message a colleague of his won a balloon ride and couldnt go so asked if we wanted to go. (He knew this was on my bucket list)
    Then in the car one day he mentioned it was just us in the balloon with the pilot
    I was thinking (as weather dependant) if it doesnt happen why couldnt they (the original text) reschedule
    So, i got my nails done haha and prayed for good weather.

    Was due to go up at 6am,and we slept through our alarm, my grandad called me at 5:20 wishing us a nice time so safe to say we slung on clohes and was out the door within 10 minutes, and i sped haha luckily before 6am, there was no traffic.

    Anyway we went up and after a while he admitted he booked the balloon ride and got down on one knee.

    On the way back to the car, my mum, stepdad and our friends were there to greet us, and us and our friends went for a posh breakfast.

    Was the best morning ever (& i hate mornings haha)

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 22nd 2017
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    So, i booked my venue EEEEK

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Nov 24th 2017
     
    Amazing proposal Rhi! So jealous.

    My fiancé wasn't at all romantic which doesn't surprise me but he did an amazing job picking a ring for me :)

    Lovely that you have booked your venue! How exciting xx

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • PenguinJ
      CommentAuthorPenguinJ
      Getting married in 14 months
      Posted: Dec 1st 2017
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    We are getting married 18th July 2020. Nothing officially booked yet but I'm pencilled in with photographer, cake lady, dj, venue decorator, florist, hair and make up.
    We are booking everything from July next year once we have saved money x

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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Dec 6th 2017
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    Congrulations 'PenguinJ' !

    You're defo more organised than me, just wanted to get venue out the way.

    I have no idea about the rest haha

    Where abouts do you live?

    I'm Bristol, but getting married about 30 mins away! :)

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Dec 7th 2017
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    Awww Rhi what a lovely proposal!

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    Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!

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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Dec 8th 2017
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    Thanks! :)

    He loves telling the story to people ;) so smug of himself haha

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Dec 8th 2017
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    Lol. I'm sure he'll be proud of it forever. It's so sweet.

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    Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!

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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: May 18th 2018
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    Finally, seeing as I booked my venue 6 months ago, i'm now less than 2 years away until the wedding so I got wedding insurance :) Feel more confident to start thinking about booking more things.

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • RachelP132
      CommentAuthorRachelP132
      Getting married in 15 months
      Posted: May 20th 2018
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    Hi,

    What questions should we be asking our suppliers?
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Jun 11th 2018
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    Which suppliers @RachelP132? I know they have a questions for photographers on a thread here.
    I wrote one for venue and photographer. Haven't got any further yet.

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • JustineM68
      CommentAuthorJustineM68
      Getting married in 9 months
      Posted: Jun 26th 2018
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    I am an International Events Management MA student who is writing her dissertation on constraints to destination weddings and desperately need help.

    For this questionnaire I need 100 people from the U.K. (even if the couple consists of only one U.K. citizen) who have gotten married in the past 10 years, or are planning on getting married in the near future

    LINK REMOVED AS NOT ALLOWED ON FORUM , FEEL FREE TO PUT IT ON YOUR WAL & direct people there - MODERATORS

    The questionnaire shouldn't take more than 5 minutes to fill in.

    Please share or forward to your contacts!

    Thank you so much
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    • LisaC205
      CommentAuthorLisaC205
      Getting married in 16 months
      Posted: Aug 22nd 2018
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    So far we have set the date, booked venue, photographer, florist, cake, registra and chosen rings

    Paid 6 lots of deposits

    Worked out how much our wedding will cost
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    • Rhi
      CommentAuthorRhi
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Aug 23rd 2018
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    You've done more than me :) I have to still sort out cake and florist.
    Think i've decided on a florist, but need a consultation.
    How did you choose who to make your cake, there is so so many options!

    Boyfriend - 16th May 2010
    Fiance - 20th August 2017
    Husband - 16th May 2020
    Can't wait to marry my best friend.
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    • Itsjustkay86
      CommentAuthorItsjustkay86
      Getting married in 9 months
      Posted: Oct 20th 2018
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    We got engaged in Auguat this year and we figured we would have a long engagement.... its now october and we have booked our venue, registrar and get married early feb 2020! We arent quite sure how that happened haha

    We signed our contracts today for the venue and handed them over so its all official! We marry on our 3rd anniversary together which is really special to us. I cant wait! I already have my flowers picked out (artificial because i hate real ones), our cake makers, our photographer and my dress so im just able to spend the next 8 months saving before i have to start looking for bridesmaid dresses etc.

    Its all so exciting :)
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    • SengaH
      CommentAuthorSengaH
      Posted: Oct 23rd 2018
     
    I got engaged last Christmas day we been together 9 years will be 11years when we get married in May 2020 .. can't wait this my second marriage my first fell apart but I blessed to have met my soul mate now xx
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    • RachaelT90
      CommentAuthorRachaelT90
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 18th 2018
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    Hey everyone! I’m new to this site. Got engaged recently on 3rd November and planning a May 2020 wedding. Hopefully booking the venue in the next couple of weeks eek! X

    Boyfriend – 7th March 2017
    Fiancé – 3rd November 2018
    Husband – 24th May 2020
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    • KarenB830
      CommentAuthorKarenB830
      Getting married in 12 months
      Posted: Nov 28th 2018
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    Hi.. ive posted on the newbies post.. but I'll post here too. We're getting married on 16th May 2020.. no reason for date other than my fiance liked the sound of it lol.. we wanted a May wedding and for some reason that date appealed to him. We've booked a package at a venue for 60 day guests sit down 3 course meal and 100 evening (pizza oven and lamb skewers - Arrosticini) and will have ceremony there too. Have booked photographer and a band. I will do my own cake and I've bought my dress lol (totally not planned). I've also got bride and bridesmaid bouquets.. silk.. bargain on Facebook! So feeling quite organised.. I'm sure I'll still get stressed nearer the time lol
 
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