Omg cannot believe my count down now says 12 months!!! Scary lol Xx

i want a 3 tier sponge cake with 3 different flavours , doing to have it as dessert, so for 70adults plus 15 kids and extra 30 eve guests.
in this style
with this topper which after getting it out and setting it up on my cake pan, need atleast a 8" cake on top to fit it.

Bethany - u r the same day as me too x

Getting married August 2015, have the venue booked, transport and the men's suit hire, only deposit we've paid so far is for the suits though. Going to look up wedding insurance now and buy some before I ring up and confirm the transport and venue.

Awww April, I felt like this at the end of 2012.. We had cancelled our 2012 wedding, we were having money troubles, I was on a real downer and then in February 2013 it just all fell into place somehow.. You will get there Hun xxx

Getting excited reading everyone comments.. So happy as we provisionally booked a fantastic electric violinist for our ceremony and drinks reception yesterday, thought we couldn't have her as it wasn't in budget however my dad has come to the rescue and paying as a wedding gift. soo happy :) looking forward to going to the NEC next month for the wedding show to have a look at some dresses, x

look at the pretty shoes I found in Marks only £29, could see these being my wedding shoes an would wear them more after too than the ones I've been looking at.

Ladies, feeling very down at the moment about my wedding, partly through stress even though got 16 months to go. Bent cause it abroad it all emailing and I'm a panicka when it comes to organising things as I love it to be right.

Not really having much support of partner either ATM, and my mum says it too early to do loads.

Just need sped to vent. Sorry xxx

I've got my dress so can look for shoes, and hopefully going bridesmaid shopping next week with my bm. Got loads done invites need making but dnt want to make them too early as can't store them anywhere. Just feel like no one supportive. Hoping abroad will email me back so I can book photographer and tht. Everything pretty much sorted. Suits we can't get till summer as they linen ones. Bent his family live in kent and I doubt half of them will come, so until invites go out I dnt kno who is coming so can't work out suit numbers, and then OH going kent next weekend to see family I'm not as we going away for his birthday weekend after and I work weekends so oiled only get tht off. Just annoyed as he said we can plan more of the little things for wedding and then decides to go kent.

Just feel like I'm only one bothered about how wedding will look. It important to me that is looks and goes fabulous as I want to prove his family right, and they all think I'm worthless basically.

Think I'm stressing myself out

Haha mine sounds like yours about no one will kno lol.

I have a brilliant bm as only having one, but we both in final weeks of uni so busy ladies, but we going for a full wedding shopping day next week so may feel better lol. And my mum has been great but she works full time think she fed up of me going on about wedding even though she so excited.

Think a bottle of wine is in order haha.

I appreciate you commenting bk steph. Xxx

Thats the great thing about here , no one gets fed up of wedding talk!

Haha I totally agree with all of these posts about becoming obsessed and wanting perfection ;)

I never thought i'd get married (or if we did it wouldn't be for a long time) so I have never EVER looked at dresses, shoes etc. This is all very new to me, and I am such an organised person too, and have to stop myself ordering everything we need all the time!

I have the same problem with the OH too. He doesn't know what I spend all of my time doing. I can literally be on the laptop all day and night googling ideas and prices, and he doesn't understand. We spent a couple of hours looking at bands this week, and he was so bored after about half hour. Funny men.... Stephanie, I am very jealous of you with your co-operative OH!

Omg steph, my oh said something yesterday, ( can't member what it was obv tht awful) and I was like seriously tht is not happening at our wedding. He just looked at me as if to say on I thought tht was brilliant. Bless them. They have no clue do they lol xxx

Haha. I think I would have a heart attack if I went on tht xx

See I would prioritize dress over suits, suits obly weed 6/8 weeks notice, while sone dresses take upto 9 months to be made. Then you have to have fittings.

Ah congrats Sarah. I'm itching to book a venue but it's just finding time to go to them to see them as h2b works most days/weekends; I work weekdays but have weekends off but don't want to go to see any venues without him :(

We've booked quite a lot today, band for the reception and the electric violinist for wedding breakfast.

Need to just get the Church to confirm the date now as well and I will properly start getting excited. I know I probably shouldn't be booking other things while we're waiting for that, but I don't want the things we want to be snapped up by other people.

I've also found some amazing irregular choice shoe boots, I don't know whether to buy them or not in case they don't go with my dress. I'm planning on wearing a long dress so you wouldn't see them underneath anyway, but still unsure.... could buy them anyway and if they don't go just buy some more shoes ;)

theres one in exeter in sunday, but its a vintage one so im not that interested plus most the vendors will be from exeter, I pefer more of a local touch

Dress shopping on Saturday! Adbsolutely terrified at the prospect!! Anyone got any do's and don't s for this experience? x

Don't worry about it Christina; if you do you'll have doubts; there must have been something you liked about it to put a deposit down on it so leave it at that :)

Our wedding cake only needs to feed 80 people max! :)

i think that's the thing - i've just got slightly scared as it's still 16 months away, i'm worrying about the flavours, the style everything - and keep asking my OH if it ok, and he chose it with me. I think the thing is i won't see it now until the cake lady brings it to the venue on the day - so worried it may not turn out as planned and look dreadful.

Just as well not got the dress yet, i'll be even more worried!!! ha ha

I've been speaking about my cake today, my friends doing it for me (I'm paying her but want to support her business) I'm glad she's doing it as I trust her taste, I only have a small idea of what exactly I want yet so we're sort of working together to work something out

Hi ladies!

I'm getting married January, 2015 :)

We're not having anything spectacular, just a simple ceremony then a meal in Covent Garden, followed by a few days in Rome. This year will fly by! :) xx

Our cake maker sent us a picture of the design of cake I want and its exactly what I want just adding colour to it to make it come alive more will send her s deposit end of the month also need to get a move on and book my hair n make up as the lady i've been recommended her spaces have filled up fast for 2014 so I need to send the deposit asap like today probs just so I don't loose her =D X