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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    I have just been to collect my wedding dress this morning. It was already bagged up and the lady asked if I was wanting to try it on or just take it. Having had my final fitting last week I said I was happy to just take it. I had my own veil which I had taken to the shop months ago to try with the dress. They offered to keep hold of it for my with the dress and steam it prior to collection.
    At my last fitting last week, the veil was fine. I have just taken the dress and veil out of the bag and there is a 7" long 'u' shaped tear in the veil. It's about a foot in from the bottom and side (cathedral length) and so is very visible.
    I called the shop immediately and they said it was checked yesterday and was fine and suggested I had caught it on the zip when opening the bag. It was wrapped in tissue when I opened it, so I certainly hadn't. They have offered me their seamstresses services tomorrow to see what can be done with it, ie taken in and reshaped, but how can a tulle veil be fixed?! It's too late to order another. I'm devastated.
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    • leafy
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    if they cant fix it surely they will have to replace from their stock do they have any similar ones in the shop? xxx

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    • mrsbeal2be
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    omg! how can they blame you for that? i think they may have known and thats why it was already bagged up! i dont think it will be repairable unless the actually take off a couple of foot but then it wont be a cathedral lenght viel, i hope theyre going to pay for the repair.x
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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    Not sure they keep any in stock. I know they have a sample one as that is what I originally tried on. It's a £330 veil too!
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    • mrsbeal2be
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    thats not cheap. and besides you dont want a veil that everone else has tried on, i would take it into the shop and demand something to be done.xx
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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    oh my goodness huni hugs xx thats awful i really hope that they sort this out for you! if not have a look on e bay they might have one on there new that you can get shipped to you within a couple of days!! not the point tho they should be paying for a new one seeing as they broke it! xx
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Melissa Bishop2B
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    OMG shocking, i would'nt know what to do, apart from rant and demand them to replace it!! Good luck hun, try not to let it get u down too much. Big hugs XX
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    • Gem
      CommentAuthorGem
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    OMG and thats just what h2b said.hun i really feel for and if I were you I ould take them the tissue it was in as surely if you had ripped it then that would be ripped too.try and take someone who will be a little less emotional with you as then wil be able to keep a level had when speaking to them but deff they should sort it out,even if they have to have one made or get one form another shop!!!let us know how you get on but same as all big hugs x
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    • 4lannie4
      CommentAuthor4lannie4
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    thats awful hun big hugs, i would certainly demand they do something and i would also stay in the shop until they do something and not move they will soon sort somehting else good luck hun x
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    • CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
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    If they dont do anything, perhaps you could contact CAB, see what they say?
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    • Mrs Steer
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    i hope they manage to sort this for you, my fingers are crossed xx

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    • MrsCandlin2B
      CommentAuthorMrsCandlin2B
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    Thats horrid of them trying to blame you.. definitely take in the tissue and someone with you.. hugs!
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    • pinkkirsty
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    I hope you get it sorted i'm sure you will xx
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    • Ataraxia
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    Definitely make them either repair it, refund you the cost of the veil or give you a new one. It's their fault, you trusted them and they ruined it. No way could a zip have taken such a big piece out of your veil, and anyone can see that!

    Remember to mention you are on here, and will tell as many people as you can about what they have done and that might help them get a shuffle on! Their reputation will make or break them and if they have common sense they will help you and fix it.

    Sorry you've had such a nightmare so close to the wedding, hoping you get it sorted asap. Good luck!

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    • Soon2beMrsHall
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    How can you make a hole in it if it was wrapped in paper. I think they done it in the shop and where hoping you wouldnt want to try it all on when you got there and just take it home.

    Go in and show then the tissue paper and let them see there is no hole in that. Then demand a replacement one even if they have to order it in it should be there just before the wedding

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    • OneDayMrsSmith
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    OMG, I hope to god they pay for a new one for you, and get one fast! Sorry hun, don't stress too much x
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    • Rachie :D
      CommentAuthorRachie :D
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    I'd demand a new one babes - I know though that you don't need the stress at this point so huge hugs too xxx

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    • greyarea
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    I hope this gets solved hun
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    • CommentAuthorMrsB
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    How bad is that! I hope they sort it for you or you can get another one ! xx
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    • Di B 83
      CommentAuthorDi B 83
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    fingers crossed you get it sorted today hun x
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    • CowChop
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    Thats awful, definately make sure they sort something for you hun! x

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    • mrsbeal2be
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    hope they sort it today for you, let us know what they say/do.xx
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    • southern
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    Fingers crossed for you. They went to a bit of trouble to try and make you think you'd done it :(




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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    Thanks everyone, you helped me feel much better about it! Well, good news. I went back to the shop this morning and although they still didn't admit it, they said it couldn't be fixed as you would see it, so she is getting me a new one. She said it would be here by Thursday! Phew...!!
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    • mrsbeal2be
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    at least they sorting it out for you and if its not upto your liking standards then tell them. they should of admitted it though.x
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    • Griff
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    thank god its sorted :) xx
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    So glad they are sorting it out for you. Please tell me you are not paying for a new one

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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    No, I'm not paying.
    The veil I had was actually a second hand one and originally cost £380, but I got it on the bay for £30, so this way I'm getting a brand new veil and it only cost me £30! x
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    • Rachie :D
      CommentAuthorRachie :D
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    Well done :D

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    • Mrs Steer
      CommentAuthorMrs Steer
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    glad they are getting you a new one, at the end of the day what a bargin :) xx

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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    So, the wedding shop rang me on Monday to say that they had sourced a replacement veil and that it would be ready to collect on Wednesday. Got a call this morning to say it was in and H2B went to collect it for me today.
    Took it out of the bag and it is covered in inch long purple pen marks!!!
    The veil was only made yesterday and the shop steamed it today. She said that it is the pen that marks where the crystals go and that it is like an invisible ink and dries clear. She said if I hung it for an hour it would dry and disappear.
    It has now been hung in our smallest bedroom with the radiator on for 4 hours and there is no improvement at all :(
    I will give it over night and will call the shop in the morning if no improvement.
    Can't beileve it - don't think I'm meant to have a veil!
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    • Bee
      CommentAuthorBee
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    sorry to hear that the new veil is no better. They will have to sort it for you, as itwas their fault! Hope you get it sorted x
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    • Ataraxia
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    Oh no! If it's not gone by tomorrow, I'd go back and demand the money to find your own replacement veil.

    Hope it goes away though! x

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    • greyarea
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    Oh hun hope the marks go
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    • Katie
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    Oh no what a nightmare for you you really dont need that this close to your big day :-( Good luck honey

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    How hard can it be for them to get it right? I hope you manage to get it sorted in time. If I had one I would lend it you but mine is only fingertip length.




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    • Griff
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    Aw hun I hope you get this sorted soon! I'd lend you mine if i'd got it yet :(
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    • momari
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    very bad shop ,twice get wrong unreal.hope they go

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    • Mrs Steer
      CommentAuthorMrs Steer
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    im hoping the purple marks disappeared overnight xx

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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    Any news on the veil hun

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    • Emsy5000
      CommentAuthorEmsy5000
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    oh my life what a horrid thing to happen. any new on the new veil?

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    • Winterrose
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    :( what a nightmare hun whatever the outcome today try not to let it spoil your day. Are there any other bridal shops near you that you could go to? Round this way the bridal shops tend to know each other through fairs n such - maybe you could go to another one and get the current shop to pay them directly... it's all you need with 48 hour to go big hugs xxx
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    • Rags
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    Uh oh, feeling the stress for you. Hope it all works out ok.xx

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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    oh my goodness huni!! any news have the marks come out? x
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    • CommentAuthorMrsB
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    been thinking about you all day hope its sorted xx
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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    Fantastic news!! Went to my mum's to check it this morning and all the marks have disappeared!!! Couldn't believe it - panic over...
    Thanks for your support ladies! xx
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Phew I was so worried for you. I'm pleased thigs worked out in the end. x




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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    Thanks XjoX! I was so relieved when I saw it this morning - had enough stress over it already! x
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    I can't even begin to imagine out you must have felt. I would have been doing my nut in. At least you can now relax knowing its all sorted. x




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    • lelbel1
      CommentAuthorlelbel1
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    Definitely! Had a lovely day today doing my last minute things and taking stuff to the venue.
    Feeling very relaxed now - may even have a cheeky G&T seeing as I daren't touch a drop tomorrow night! x
 

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