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UKbride Member Request 14 Aug 2017

Would you still invite a family member if you know they have been saying the...

Would you still invite a family member if you know they have been saying the wedding is rediculess because we don't love together yet?

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UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Aug 2017

Probably not

Lyn-Marie Mason
Lyn-Marie Mason 14 Aug 2017

Hell no!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Aug 2017

I wasn't aware you had to live with someone to marry them while it's beyond ridiculous to suggest to you don't love each other because of that reason, are these comments coming from a place of judgement or concern? Is this family member someone you're close to and want there? If not i wouldn't bother, if it is maybe talk to them about it and tell them how you feel.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Aug 2017

They wouldn't be coming to my wedding. If they're not fans of your love don't invite them to the concert. Sound advice I received

Danielle Ryde
Danielle Ryde 14 Aug 2017

yes to rub it in their face me and my fiancé don't live together and we don't see it as a problem as long as ur relationship is strong it shouldn't matter

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Aug 2017

Just curious are you going to get a place together once you marry or live separately. I couldn't be married and not live together.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

I suppose it's better that u live with the person u know everything about them then their ways etc.. But it's no ones business I wouldn't invite them x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

Not a chance

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

Are you really asking this question? It kind of answers itself

Samantha A
Samantha A 15 Aug 2017

My partner lives away during the week for work and only comes home for weekends. However, you want to live it's your right. They would not be invited to mine.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

No I'd be telling them where to go x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

Most of our parents never lived together before they got married, it wasn't the done thing back then, I'm not really sure why this matters at all to someone outside the two of u

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

I would give their place to someone who actually wants to be there and are happy for you. You don't need negative people at your wedding x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

People managed just fine when it wasn't the done thing to live together years ago ...

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

I don't live with my h2b , I think it's nice to wait till after we are married. Don't listen to any negative comments . I personally would not let the person think I was worried about their Comment . I might say something to them like . Do you want to come to our wedding even tho you think it's a joke ? , xx

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 15 Aug 2017

Hi I would not invite that person you do not need people giving out negative vibes at your wedding good luck :)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

I would face them out

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

Invite people who are genuinely happy for you both. It's the only way to have a perfect day x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 15 Aug 2017

Doesn't matter who they are, if they don't want to be happy for you and enjoy your day don't bother with them. I didn't invite my parents because they told me they weren't interested. It was sad and hard to face but Id rather have people who want to be there.

Laura Lindsley
Laura Lindsley 15 Aug 2017

hell no you don't need that sort of negativity at your wedding xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 16 Aug 2017

I wouldn't invite them and would tell them why to their face so there was no confusion.

Amy B
Amy B 17 Aug 2017

I wouldn't x

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