UKbride Member Request 11 Aug 2017

For those having/had bridesmaid apart from them sorting the hen do are there...

For those having/had bridesmaid apart from them sorting the hen do are there any other jobs you asked them to do? I'm a bit of a control freak so organising everything myself so not sure I'm involving them enough

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 11 Aug 2017

Hi I haven't asked my bridesmaid to do anything because by the time of the wedding she will only be 18 :)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Aug 2017

Mine are helping with making favors up and invitations etc. We will have craft nights so everyone can bond xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Aug 2017

I didn't ask for much until the day when we had the odd jobs at the venue and helping me get ready! My sister helped with the boxes for the tables with all the favours in etc

Maria Bjorn
Maria Bjorn 11 Aug 2017

My bride squad is quite far away (moh in Holland, bridesmaid in London) so I'm not going to ask them to do loads apart from on the day. We are going to get together a few times to be all excited about plans and stuff though. 😊

Line Nielsen
Line Nielsen 11 Aug 2017

Mine are in a different country to where I am, all I have asked for is a music list of Danish love songs for the dj. I might come up with different tasks later.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Aug 2017

My MOH is organising my hen (as my other 2 BMs will only be 16). Other than that I'm giving them all jobs to do on the day like making sure everyone signs the hearts for drop box, keeping the candy cart stocked up, daughter on toilet duty to help with my dress etc x

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 11 Aug 2017

My bridesmaids arnt doing anything they picked there dresses but that's it Ive organised my hen do . My maid of honour is gonna be my day of cordinator though and run around for me so I can be calm

Francesca Nicholls
Francesca Nicholls 11 Aug 2017

I have asked mine to enjoy themselves just as much as I am xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Aug 2017

My moh and bridesmaid are organising my hen (I have no idea about it!) my moh will be coming to my dress fittings and both of them will be making sure everything runs smoothly on the day along with our best men. They are going to help with the favours and attend the rehearsal the night before and also help me drop stuff off to the venue the day before. As well as helping me pee with my dress!! Think that's enough for them to be doing. Xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Aug 2017

My MOH and bridesmaids organised my hen do and they also chose their dresses. Other than that I haven't really given them "tasks" to do, they have helped out when they can but I've been happy to do it myself. I didn't want them to feel they had to dedicate themselves to my life.


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