How did everyone feel planning their wedding, guests lists etc? I'm a bit...

Hi I have a very short list so has my Fiance not nervous about this at all:)

Not sure if you'll be able to see this picture but it's really handy! x

I didn't invite half my family ...it's my day . Why should I let them ruin it x

I made a list first then the h2b gave me his then I passed it to mum to check I hadn't missed any relatives out she wants there

I'm only having Immediate family as in my mum and dad. I don't see aunties, uncles etc and don't see why I should pay for someone I've not seen for 6 years! x

As my daughter in.law said...Only invite those you want to.invite and you see regularly. Why invite those you don't see and haven't seen or been in contact with in years or ever.
Only invite those who.you really.would like to be there and want.
Don't bow down.to.pressure from parents. Why invite people your parents want if you haven't seen them in years or dont know tbem.Its your day have it your way.
When my youngest son marries next year from my side will only be my sister and brother in law invited. None of my husbands brothers thougbas my son hasn't seen them in over 6 years. There is a lot ftom his fiancees side as they are all.very close. Its His and his fiancees wedding so why spend money on people you don't have to