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How do you agree on who should be invited

How do you agree on who should be invited

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 1 Aug 2017

Hi you will have to agree otherwise the list will never end :)

Jaki Green
Jaki Green 1 Aug 2017

We're going on the cost so far!
I want everyone I can lol
We've got our final ceremony choices (plus 4 extra he'd forgotten about which has thrown everything!!!) and then we wrote a list of people definitely inviting and people we'd like to be there and we'll go through the lists again when we've saved enough for X amount x

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 1 Aug 2017

We wrote down everyone we might want to invite in three lists - mine, his, ours (scary numbers). Then we went through and took out some who had not made the effort to see us for a while and felt we had more realistic numbers. To be honest we're hoping that some won't come!

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 1 Aug 2017

I would start with people that you couldn't imagine not being there then a list of back ups and see how far your budget will stretch x

Lou Rowlands
Lou Rowlands 1 Aug 2017

This could help you found this on Pinterest, myself and my partner are only inviting close members of family an friends to ceremony/wedding breakfast an everyone else to reception but those who only bother with us. Whats the point in inviting someone who is gonna make your day miserable

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Emma Gibson
Emma Gibson 1 Aug 2017

Generally we are in agreement on 98% of ours. There are just a couple he wants at the day do that I don't which we will work out nearer the time x

Jaki Green
Jaki Green 1 Aug 2017

Lou's wasn't very clear x

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Jaki Green
Jaki Green 1 Aug 2017

Neither is mine =( x

Jayne Timmins
Jayne Timmins 1 Aug 2017

Split the guest list you both get a number of people to invite that the other does not necessarily agree with x

Lou Rowlands
Lou Rowlands 1 Aug 2017

We split the numbers so it was equal have twenty on either side we both dont talk to all our members of both of our families.

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 3 Aug 2017

You do your side he does his simple no arguments here apart from he has got a larger side than me but we just having a pick a seat not a side sign cos otherwise I'll look like I have no friends in comparison

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