my to be father inlaw he's just been told he's got cancer and they don't...

My brother had my dad. He said he couldn't think of a better man to stand with him. Was really sweet x

I think thats a lovely idea hun x

my hubby had his dad

My h2b has asked his dad to be his best man and I think it's fantastic! Xx

My other half is in the same position, I suggested exactly the same however we don't believe his dad will be stable enough at the time of the wedding. I would just judge on how his illness is and how he will be feeling, on whether he will be able to stand his duties on the day, or have two best men, one being his dad and another that can do the running around x

I think that's lovely. I would say suggest it whether it's been done or not. It's a little different but it's your wedding and sometimes these little differences make it much better. You seem like a lovely person and I think your h2b will really appreciate the support and gesture along with your father-in-law. All the best for your big day when it comes.xx

I think it's a great idea. You can have, whoever you want. My suggestion would also be to pull your wedding forward to as soon as possible. One of my friends had his dad. Good luck xx

I love the idea of having 2 that's would be nice. I agree maybe have 2. Best wishes

My husband asked his dad to be best man has he doesnt speak to his brother and it worked great x

My husband wanted to have his dad but his dad refused and his cousin did it. Don't think his dad wanted to do speeches... he ended up writing the bloody speech anyway it's a lovely idea especially given the circumstances x

I suggested this to my other half but he decided not to. You never know how badly they may be affected and could cause a bit of a stress on both parties if he didn't feel up to it x

There are no rules on who can be best man. It's the groom's choice.My BIL had my brother

Well my h2b has our 3 year old as his best man with his 3 best mates as groomsmen.

My partner's nephew had his Dad as his best man :)

My other half is having his Dad as best man, just because they are very close.

My brother had my dad who was fighting fit. Unfortunately my dad won't be at my wedding in 3 weeks as he passed away almost 8 months away xx

I think it is a lovely idea and I would suggest it if I was you x

If it feels right I would do it.. you only get one chance at it.. don't worry about traditions just do what feels right to you and your partner x

My husband had his dad as his best man. It's all done to what suits you both :) x

My dad had my grandad as his best man I think it is a truly lovely thing to do!

My other half had his dad as his best man and it was wonderful. He felt really honoured. Lovely idea xx

My brother had our dad. The best man speech was so personal. It was fab.

My groom had his dad as his best man

My hubby had his dad as his best man, and my best friends hubby had his step dad as his, think it's a lovely idea, fingers crossed they find a treatment for him x

Lovely idea xx

Wonderful idea

My partner will be asking his step dad to be his best man when we do eventually get married haha x

My fiancé has asked his dad to be best man. I think it's a really nice idea. He doesn't want to do the speech, which is fine, but he's going to carry the rings for us xx

Aww I think that's a perfect thought. Bless his heart, I hope all goes well for you all. Big love xxx

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I think it's a lovely idea. My Husband had his brother as best man

The only person my husband wanted as his best man last year was his brother, unfortunately we lost him to cancer 10 years and the only other person fit for the role was his dad! They both loved it and his dad was so surprised and touched!

Sorry to hear such sad news. Definitely suggest it! xx

We were going to have my husbands grandad before he sadly past away. Sometimes father's sons and grandads have the best friendships and bonds in my eyes anyone can be your best man whether son dad newphew uncle xx

I think it's a lovely idea to suggest his dad x

My h2b has his dad as his best man xx

My hubby had his dad as best man (actually his step dad but bought him up since he was 3). He said he wouldn't want anyone else there with him at such an important moment in his life. Also the speech was brilliant, like his dad said; the best man's job is to divulge all the grooms secrets, yet as a dad he was responsible for covering them up lol x

It's yours and your hubbys day if u want a dog as best man and cats as bridesmaids that's your choice, obviously some people are traditionalists but I think it's a lovely idea

Yes I know some one that had their dad as best man, it's a lovely thoughtful idea x

My son had his dad

I think this will be a wonderful idea and would def do if it was me x

That's an amazing idea x

My husband had his dad as best man x