Rachel Horner
Rachel Horner 19 Jul 2017

Looking for some advice about invitations. We're getting married on 30th...

Looking for some advice about invitations. We're getting married on 30th June 2018 and we're only sending invitations and not bothering with save the dates. When would you suggest sending the invites? Also how long should I give for people to RSVP? Thank you x

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 19 Jul 2017

Hi on my wedding checklist it says 8-6 months I would give them a month :)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

We get married July 14th 2018 and will be sending our invites mid January

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I'm getting married next month and I sent ours out in January x

Joanne Lay-Treen
Joanne Louise Treen 19 Jul 2017

We get married june an sending ours jan

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

It's usually 6 - 8 weeks before wedding but if people live further away then send out sooner if out to soon then people forget

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

Just sent mine I get wed in December 22 x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I'm getting married 6th April 2018 sent invites out last sat and rsvp's due in by 5th Aug. Got loads back today already

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

Getting married in March, sending them out next month as it's the Easter weekend so we want to give plenty of notice. We're giving a month or two to rsvp, that's plenty of time and we need time to get numbers and seating etc sorted so don't want to wait till a few weeks before the wedding for rsvps

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

Im getting married same date and we have sent ours already x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I always suggest to my couples to pop them in the Christmas cards x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I got married last July and we sent out invites at the end of march. It depends on venue/caters etc as well. The hotel needed to know numbers and what people were having so many weeks in advance so we just sorted it out nice and early.

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UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

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Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 19 Jul 2017

I would send them January and give them about a month to respond x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

We are getting married the same day and will be sending out mid January as then they won't be lost with all the Christmas cards. I've given 6 weeks for RSVPs to allow me 4 weeks to chase up any stragglers before we have to finalise with catering x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I get married on 22 June 2018 and my invites are out already! I've asked for RSVP for catering purposes and as we have so many people overseas and even local to us who will need accommodation etc xx

Rachel Horner
Rachel Horner 19 Jul 2017

Thank you for all the advice ladies xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

I sent them out 6 months before gave people 2 or so months to reply for the daytime and a little longer for evening guests x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

We get married 26th july 2018. I want invites out by end of january at latest, and back my 1st march. X

Jade Harris
Jade Harris 19 Jul 2017

We get married on the same day too 😊 will be sending ours in January xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 19 Jul 2017

We sent them January and the wedding is this Sat

Sharon Allen
Sharon Allen 19 Jul 2017

I gave at least 6 months for people to respond as people may need to book off work or if they planning on going on holiday they can plan around your day so they don't miss it. That's what we did as we didn't bother with save the dates either as we thought they were a waste of money

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

I gave 6 months notice as i didn't do save the date either

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

I'm getting married August this year and we sent our invites out in December. Saved on postage (as we put the invites in with Christmas cards) and meant people with children could arrange holidays (as August is the school holidays). We gave people till June to respond but in hindsight I wish we had put earlier as didn't like waiting haha

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

I sent in feb, put 1st may as the response date, still chasing a few responses in July! We are getting married this December. My advice get them out as early as possible, don't give people too long to respond otherwise they will forget. I have found getting the guest list sorted the most stressful part, so don't leave it until the last few months!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

From experience I would say it's completely up to the bride, as she will know roughly what close family members have planned and booked in for the year of the wedding and/or how far ahead your friends and family like to plan. It can vary greatly and is all about personal preference. I would suggest around 4/6 months is more than plenty. I hope this helps... any more and you risk being forgotten about, any less and you risk people having other engagements. Advice given from a graphic designer who spends her time lovingly creating invitations - https://m.facebook.com/weddingstationery.UK/

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

I'm 22nd June and sending them out in January everyone will have a new calendar I hope x

Amy B
Amy B 20 Jul 2017

With yours being in the summer, I would send them out now because people might be looking to book holidays for next year x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 20 Jul 2017

I sent mine out 3months before with RSVP date 6 weeks before with an aim to chase up any people who hadnt rsvp'd around 4weeks before

Lynette France
Lynette France 20 Jul 2017

3/4 months before give people plenty time to take time off work if needed and shop for clothes etc or hire them

Stacey Hutchinson
Stacey Hutchinson 21 Jul 2017

I would suggest 6-3 months before hand

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 23 Jul 2017

Our wedding is June 2018 and I am sending mine now as i have a lot of guests needing accommodation also a lot of people have to give their work holidays now for next year. Hope this helps and have a fab day x

UKbride Member 23 Jul 2017

3 months before

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