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UKbride Member Request 11 Jul 2017

Has anyone had/is anyone planning to have an open bar at the evening...

Has anyone had/is anyone planning to have an open bar at the evening reception and how much did it cost/have you budgeted for?

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 11 Jul 2017

Hi no we were advised not to have an open bar as it would cost far too much :)

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

We are! But providing the alcohol ourself. We have catered for 2 drinks per person per hour. Bar is only open from 7.30. Then we bought spirits, beers in deals and went to France for wine.

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

Am haveing free dink after service and free drink with the meal

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

Ours was part of of package

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

I am having my wedding reception in my garden and building our own bar, we are a bit fussy so want to pick all our own drinks.

Charlotte Macdonald
Charlotte Macdonald 11 Jul 2017

We're providing a drink on arrival. Half a bottle of wine per persona during wedding breakfast. Drink for toast and then there will be plenty of infused tap water around to help yourself too.

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

My h2b wants to, I said no. It's too expensive. Wine on table and one drink at the reception.

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

We are having a drinks package with ours and if people want extra drinks they will pay for them, stops people drinking too much - me included lol!

Emma Gibson
Emma Gibson 11 Jul 2017

Hiya, we couldn't afford to do an open bar. We are doing two drinks pp at drinks reception (between ceremony and wedding breakfast), half a bottle of wine each at wedding breakfast and then champers for the toast which I think is plenty for us to provide x

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

We are having an all inclusive bar with ours.

Jayne Timmins
Jayne Timmins 11 Jul 2017

No we cant afford it, guests will have to pay for their own but we may do the first drink on us, not sure how we will monitor this though

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 11 Jul 2017

We are not planning on a free bar as it will cost too much. You could always put money behind the bar so it is a free bar until the money runs out. X

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

Jayne T, you can buy vouchers on amazon for one free drink, that's what I am doing xxx

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UKbride Administrator 11 Jul 2017

We paid in advance for our venue to order in two kegs (140 pints!) of a specific ale that my husband loves and for it to be served free of charge. Once the beer was gone, they had to pay! Loads of guests were drinking it and it lasted til around 10:30pm, so was pretty good value!

Natasha Kent
Natasha Kent 12 Jul 2017

Our wedding is at a dry venue so providing all the drink ourselves. cocktails before the wedding breakfast,wine and sparkling with then beer and spirits for the party after.

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UKbride Administrator 12 Jul 2017

Rather then having an open bar we put a certain amount behind the bar then once it was gone people then had to pay for drinks themselves

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UKbride Administrator 12 Jul 2017

We're paying for wine for the tables, a drink at the drinks reception before the meal and a drink for the toast. I think this is the norm for weddings these days if you are providing any drinks at all. I personally would never expect to have all my drinks paid for when attending a wedding and an open bar could cost a fortune. If you have money to splash out and want to pay for all your guests then I'm sure they will be happily surprised but if it is going to cause you months of worry about whether you can afford it then I think it's an added expense that not many people would expect you to be paying for.

vicki taylor
vicki taylor 13 Jul 2017

We are having a welcome drink, 3 bottles of wine to a table 1 white 1 red 1 rose and a toast drink. The rest people can buy themselves

Stacey Hutchinson
Stacey Hutchinson 18 Jul 2017

We aren't having one as we have be told it will cost too much and we also have seen what happens when our family's have an open bar and its not good.

Sharon McGuire
Sharon McGuire 19 Jul 2017

Yes we are having an open bar all day but we don't expect it to cost more than £600 (but we've budgeted £1500). We only have 38 guests, many of whom don't drink or are light drinkers. None of our guests are heavy drinkers or are the type to get roaring drunk. Plus we have paid for a post ceremony drinks reception, wine with the breakfast and a champagne toast so they will have plenty of booze floating around before they need to hit the bar. The first person to hit the bar will be me, because I don't drink alcohol so I'll want a soft drink (with appletize for the toast get it looks like champagne) .

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