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UKbride Member Request 10 Jul 2017

Hi. I'm due to get married next year. But my sil I currently having nothing...

Hi. I'm due to get married next year. But my sil I currently having nothing at all to do with us. She's not speaking to us or anything. Do I invite her to the hen party and do I invite her to my wedding. I've physically done nothing to her for her to be like this with us. Won't even reply to my texts. Thankyou

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Amy B
Amy B 10 Jul 2017

I wouldn't invite her to the hen - but maybe to the wedding. If she decides to no show up, that's not your fault. If you don't invite her and she's expecting to be that could cause more issues.

Jayne Timmins
Jayne Timmins 10 Jul 2017

Yes i would invite her, as in the future she can't say that you did not. It is then her choice if she attends x

UKbride Member 10 Jul 2017

I'd invite her to the wedding, but not he hen do. If things are fine between you two before the hen do, then I'd invite her, but I don't thinks there's need to otherwise

Julianne Heffernan
Julie Heffernan 10 Jul 2017

Yeah, i'd personaly invite to both just so you know you've tried. X

Emma Gibson
Emma Gibson 10 Jul 2017

I'd invite to wedding but not the hen do. Like you say you've done nothing wrong and you don't want her to try and use it in the future. If she decides not to come that's down to her x

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 11 Jul 2017

I'd invite her to the wedding, at least way it can never come back on you that you didn't try. but maybe not the hen.

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 11 Jul 2017

I would invite her to the wedding so you can say you tried but not bother with the hen do x

Shelly Walker
Shelly Walker 18 Jul 2017

I wouldn't invite her to the hen either.

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